Nevertheless, I stayed in a very loose contact with her. I wished her
Happy Valentine in February and Happy Songkran in March.
Flashback to April-May 2011Patricia sent me a heartbreaking e-mail message writing me that she
lost all my money by playing cards with "friends", that she had to
sell her laptop and smartphone, and had to move to the C&D staff house
(where she still is, sharing a room with
Ming). She wrote me sentences
like "Do you still love me?" or "I do not want to loose the most
important person in my life". I did not respond to that message first,
hesitating what to answer. On April 29, she asked me if I received her
previous e-mail. Here is my answer from April 29:
Yes, I received your very nice message two weeks ago and since then I
am thinking about it, not knowing what I should write you.
You wrote some very nice words, which touched me enormously. I
especially appreciate your sentence:
i don't want to loose the best person in my life.
On the other hand, I do not want to experience another major
disappointment and embarrassment with you. I do not want to face
another deception.
It is true, that it makes me feel strange when I see your photos on
the forum. But it is not the same feeling I felt for you before. You
ask me if I still love you? My answer is: I do not know. You did
perfectly everything to kill my feelings for you.
Let me think about it more, during this weekend. I will write you more
next week, when my thoughts are more clear.
I must clear my ideas first and I need to know myself where I stand,
with or without you.
In one of the following e-mails she asked me for another chance. I did
not respond first, but she came back with a request for an
answer. Here is my answer from May 21:
OK, I will give you one more chance, even if I know I do a stupidity. But this time, you MUST NOT do an error. However, I will be cautious, because of my bad experience last time.
Hence, when I will come next time, the rules are:
[*:45add34692]You will be the nicest girl in the bar, caring only for me
[*:45add34692]You will do everything possible to make me feel happy - I also promise you that I will make YOU happy
[*:45add34692]You will wake up at a reasonable hour, before noon, so that we can do something also during the day
[*:45add34692]You kiss me, you hug me, you cuddle with me in the bed, in the shower, in jacuzzi, wherever - I want really feel as your boyfriend - and I will do the same to you
[*:45add34692]We will speak to each other, we will have a conversation, we behave everywhere as boyfriend and girlfriend
[*:45add34692]We communicate calmly if there is a problem between us and try to resolve it peacefully. I do not want you to make me a scene.
[*:45add34692]I fuck you every day (or night) and you fuck me every day. Get used to take my cock up your ass. I love your cock in my ass.
[*:45add34692]Except fucking me bareback, you can do anything you want with me in the bed. I will suck your cock, lick your balls, lick your ass, everything. I expect you do the same. You can come in my mouth, for instance. You can come in my ass, with a condom of course. I want to feel your cock in my ass pulsating during orgasm.
[*:45add34692]We sleep holding us in our arms, or holding us from behind - it is called spooning
[*:45add34692]If I snore, you wake me up, turn me around and we continue to sleep. No need to get nervous.
[*:45add34692]We plan what we will do the next day AND we stick to our plan, except when it is raining (or similar) and there is no possibility to do what we planned
[*:45add34692]We will go (also) to the beach at least once. We can also go in a group, like to Laem Sing beach
[*:45add34692]You pose for photographs. I want you to pose for photos many photos in the room, outside, in the pool, everywhere. I also want to make some naked photos with you.
[*:45add34692]You take care of your clothes. I want you to put on the sexiest dresses you have when we go out in the evening. I want to be with the most beautiful girl in whole Phuket
[*:45add34692]You take care of your make-up. I want you to carefully put on make-up every evening before we go out. I want to have the most beautiful girl in whole Phuket.
[*:45add34692]Cabaret is OK; I know you like doing cabaret and I like to watch you doing cabaret
[*:45add34692]You may play a game or pool or two, but it is NOT possible that you play the whole night - you can play as much as you wish when I am absent
[*:45add34692]We do not need to spend every night in the bar; Jimbo is my friend
and knows that I am a good customer, therefore I do NOT need to be
with you there every night. We may also go on a trip for more days.
[*:45add34692]When we are in the bar, we leave EARLY, either after your cabaret or not later than 1am
[*:45add34692]I am not a Cheap Charlie, but I do not want two page bills in the bar - I can buy a drink for some of your friends, but I cannot buy a drink to every girl in the bar every night
[*:45add34692]You will stop telling me bullshit
[*:45add34692]and finally - ABSOLUTELY NO DRUG CONSUMPTION!!!!
DO YOU PROMISE to play by these rules? I want a clear answer on it.
If you do a stupidity or you make me angry or you neglect me, I
promise you that I will take somebody else from the bar (Seya, Nookie,
May, or Donut) so that everyone else knows and I will not care if you
loose face. It is a warning, but I sincerely hope that I will not be
obliged to apply it.
Patricia explicitly agreed to these rules.End of flashback