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[jimbo34]

In her defence: its a shame she won't be able to put her point of view. Her english isn't up to it of course. I'm tempted to dive in on her behalf and put over a few salient points that have arisen over the course of this long painful TR.

All i will say at this stage is: there must be some pretty good reasons why she would have given up a very lucrative source of income. Reasons that transcend mere cash.

[petesie]

Cheers for that Jimbo...

Without wishing to appear condescending as that is not my intention I think you'll find that most of us have given that particular point a wee bit of consideration too. ;-) ...but it is Bully's story, after it is finito we can all make our own private conclusions.

What you feeding that lot? Is there love potion in yon shooters?

[Nick Bullseye]

In her defence: its a shame she won't be able to put her point of view. Her english isn't up to it of course. I'm tempted to dive in on her behalf and put over a few salient points that have arisen over the course of this long painful TR.

All i will say at this stage is: there must be some pretty good reasons why she would have given up a very lucrative source of income. Reasons that transcend mere cash.

Yes, please, Jimbo do it. I always respected Patricia and frankly I would like to read also her opinion. If you could formulate it here, it would be a great plus and I would appreciate it very much. It would definitely answer all my WHY's.

[eslmiker]

...All i will say at this stage is: there must be some pretty good reasons why she would have given up a very lucrative source of income. Reasons that transcend mere cash.

I saw BEM's list of rules. So, you wouldn't have too try hard to convince me of that. OTH, his rule list came out after some bad behavior on her part in umm Oct.2010? Regardless, it comes down to the old chicken or the egg bit.

Really though, who's to blame and behaved badly first is irrelevant. Let's just hope this helps BEM overcome, what has always been, his unrealistic obsession with Patricia.

[Legend]

i blame the snoring.

[Nick Bullseye]

Epilogue

I was sitting in my hotel room in Phnom Penh in the evening,
correcting the written test taken by the Cambodian candidates to enter
our technical university. I could not really concentrate on it. I
reviewed over and over the movie of the last week in Phuket, trying to
understand what happened and why it happened.

I remembered the first light which went up when I saw Patricia
focusing on the young handsome guy. I remembered the second light
which went up when Seya told me: "He took her before". I remembered
how frenetically Patricia insisted on being given the Iphone to see if
a message for her arrived - since her SIM card was unusable in her old
phone. ELEMENTARY MY DEAR WATSON! She was waiting for him, they agreed
upon his arrival on Sunday, she just waited for a message from him
announcing his exact arrival. That is also the reason perhaps why she
came to the bar loaded, since she had no chance to enter in contact
with him and got extremely afraid that my presence would destroy her
plans to spend a week with her new boyfriend.

I WAS ONLY A SCHEDULING ERROR!


If the reason was the guy who arrived on Sunday, Patricia should have
told me: "Nick, you know what kind of job I do. We can have some fun
until Saturday, but please understand, there is a customer coming on
Sunday". I would have said: "OK, Patricia, I understand. Let us have
some fun until Saturday. Then I will avoid coming to the bar and will
go diving". There would have been no problem at all. She preferred to
humiliate me in front of the whole bar. WHY?

Or why she did not write me: "Nick, come earlier, since there is some
problem....". I could have arrived on Friday 18 and have left on
Friday 25.

Why she cannot handle 3 or 4 boyfriends at the same time, as other
girls in C&D? Why is she unable to communicate? Is it so difficult? Is
there some other reason?

I looked up in a mirror above my writing desk and saw an old toad,
slightly overweight, with a shaved head, and glasses, having a sad
gaze. I never liked that literature too much, but in this flash I
eventually understood Goethe's Faust as never before, hoping that
Mephistopheles would appear at my side right there. I would have
subscribed my soul to the devil with my own blood immediately.

Oh, what I would give for being able to turn the clock back to happier
times!

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[Nick Bullseye]

Several of you (Josh et al) asked how it was possible that such an
experienced monger fell in love with Patricia - a bargirl - and got
obsessed with her. Here is perhaps a partial explanation. When my
mother died last September and I went to organize the funeral, I met
my best friend who know me better than I. In fact we are almost twins,
born only with a 6 days difference. We lived in the same apartment
complex. We went to school together from the first grade until the end
of high school - then he went to study in the medial school and I went
to study computer science. But we always stayed in touch. Even now, if
we meet after long time, within 5 minutes I feel as if we just parted
only a week ago.

I showed him a Patricia's photo on my phone, the best photo of her
that I have. He watched the photo, then looked in my eyes and said:
"Nick, please do not get angry. But that ladyboy is a spitting image
of your beautiful ex-wife, at the time when she and you were young,
when you started to date each other". YES, it is true, he knows me
better than I.

[Nick Bullseye]

I will try to look forward, not to look back. My lust for beautiful
ladyboys is intact. I will be able to butterfly openly, not only under
the radar and away from Patong. I will return to LoS and certainly
also to Patong and C&D. Certainly I will go to Bangkok where I am well
known photographer, as well as to Pattaya to explore it more, since I
sampled there only Nat (Stringfellows) and Sindy (La Bamba).

Jimbo is a truly great guy and a dear friend. I also appreciate
several girls from C&D, either only for a chat or also for some
fun. There is Bee and Kitty, there is also Seya and Nicole. Maybe also
May, perhaps also Sonya. Outside C&D, there is the very promising Nam
from Malibu bar and Jasmine from Scorpion bar looks good, too. New
talent may appear also in C&D as well as in Soi Croc.

Last but not least, we parted as enemies with Patricia, so I would
like to make peace with her, having a drink together as good friends,
laughing over what happened in November 2011. The only thing I fear is
- when I will see her, I will fall in love with her again.

Only the future will tell me ... and even the Greek Gods could not
foresee the future.


*** THE END ***

[Nick Bullseye]

For all those who waited until the end of my story, there is now the moment for your opinion / answer / remarks / anything.

I am looking forward to Jimbo's formulation of Patricia's version.

[batman4ever]

For all those who waited until the end of my story, there is now the moment for your opinion / answer / remarks / anything.

I am looking forward to Jimbo's formulation of Patricia's version.

FFS.... do you really expect Jim to put his hands in this ...he just said he was THINKING of making an reply....and WHY you want it??????????????????????????

thrust me...that will never happend.....and you are proberly better without it

this just tell me you are FAR from over it....grow up ....

sad to say...but this is MY 2 satang ....

[coletrickle]

many members have commented so far, and some not so favourably. intelligent/educated man , experienced mongerer , not newbie how could he fall for a bar girl? .

all this aside , it doesnt matter , the only REAL error you have made is posting this story and opening yourself up for public (forum) ridicule .

you wont be the first , you wont be the last , but some things are better left behind closed doors!

[badpress]

If the reason was the guy who arrived on Sunday, Patricia should have
told me: "Nick, you know what kind of job I do. We can have some fun
until Saturday, but please understand, there is a customer coming on
Sunday". I would have said: "OK, Patricia, I understand. Let us have
some fun until Saturday. Then I will avoid coming to the bar and will
go diving". There would have been no problem at all.

Come off it BEM, after all that you have written on this thread,and on previous tales regarding Patricia, do you honestly expect anyone to believe that??