When it comes to taking a break, in my opinion there's a big difference between going home to the baan or going off somewhere else with a customer- at the end of the day work is work, just coz she's jetted off somewhere with a punter doesn't mean a bar should lose out.
what about if i went to her baan and met and had a holiday there with her.?
would i have to pay as there is no beach.?
its interesting how the residents of disneyland have forgotten the real world.
us tourists dont live in a land of cheap rent, minor utility bills , cheap food and sex on tap.
we work our bollox off to pay the ever increasing taxes, insurances, and utilities. it is £80 these days to fill the tank in a car.
sex is not work in our country, people do it every night for fun.
its free.
thais call sex "work" as it is easier than actually working.
its not work at all. especially if they are on an all inclusive holiday in patts with a sexy bastard like me.
there is an element of bars thinking they "own" the staff as they gave them a place to work.
i heard sally asking for a 15000 buy out fee for a farang to take an lb from the bar and start a new life with him .
what next.?
will you sell your cashier for four camels.?
Nothing in life is free- you seem to have a real chip on your shoulder over this. The days of Disneyland are far gone for long term living here I can promise you. If a girl professes to be going to the baan on holiday and then meets up with a punter they have basically deceived the bar- the arguement doesn't equate. there's a difference between a genuine break and going off fucking somewhere.
Sex for fun in the UK?- if you are hansum man and getting it for free every night at home good luck to you but I reckon the lily is getting gilded a bit there is no such thing as a free lunch. The sex industry in the UK is huge, sordid and involves human trafficking and organised crime- I far perfer the open way its handled here.What has the cost of living in the UK got to do with any of this discussion anyway- you choose to live in that cesspit of a country, i choose not to?
The bars do 'own' the girls to an extent- would you expect Starbucks to dish out free coffee- if you took a cup without their knowledge it would be theft! They are a business supplying a commodity and if you want to play you should expect to pay. If you don't like the rules of the bar don't frequent it. As I said above I don't like paying barfines but its just part of the process and I accept it.
You chose to quote me selectively- what happened to the bit about compromise?
Im not sure what to think about this. I have never taken a girl for more than a day and then of course paid the BF but I think I lean on the side that if I would be with the girl for a week or so I wouldnt want to pay.
Its not only a question of money, its also a question of whats right and I dont see why I should pay for her since she is not in the bar and occupying space.
Then again, if it wasnt for the bar I might have not met her in the first place so maybe I should pay something so I guess a reduced rate would be the best thing?
