167 replies to this topic

[soulboy]

I certainly would .

Whether they chose to listen or not is a different matter .

[stonefre]

I would want to know, so if this is a rule to live by I'd have tell him:

"Do unto others as you would have others do unto you."

[kliome]

"Do unto others as you would have others do unto you."

Which is also a great rule I've learned to live by in the bedroom

[POPEYE THE SAILOR]

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[paultain]

I guess it depends on the mate's mental ability to realize you were trying to help him, if you did tell him, and strong enough to take it on the chin. But if he is too vulnerable to the persuasion of this fallen angel, that ‘he is the only one’, and telling him might destroy your friendship with him, then don’t tell him.

Instead, I would drop little innocent and indirect hints, as often as possible, until he subconsciously figures it all out himself.

Some guys are so weak, they are very hard to get through too, even when they have fallen for this scam before, and didn’t learn a lesson from it.

Remember a ‘lie’ will be found out sooner or later, with or without your help!

[slappy111]

Fucking "Petsie" again...



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Well then use a fucking moniker that makes more sense...like gaz

[Crackerjax]

Yeah for sure tell him the one time.

So should I send the PM to Putytat or are one of you guys going to do it?

[FRONT242]

Yes I would tell him.
I have done it and like alot of the BMs have stated, I did it once and it was up to him to decide.

[foggy]

I'd want to know to make a choice of how to continue if at all, so I voted yes for a good mate

[filbert]

The best thing, well one of them anyway about mates (true mates not associates) is that they can and will tell you the things you may not want to hear, they help you keep your feet on the ground and you'd be doing a mate a big disservice if you didn't do the same for them. Of course you should tell them but also try to pitch the bad news in a diplomatic and maybe sensitive way so as to give them the information they need so that they can chose what to do. Once you've told them don't bang on about it just be there for them if they need it.

[Surin Nix]

Nope. None of my damn business.

Slapman,

There's something I've been meaning to tell you.....

[Surin Nix]

Loved Hoot's reply and pun. I think I'd tell him that this a different culture and he should make sure there are no others before he commits. From that point, it's up to him. If he confronts her and mentions you, then you may stand for some damage. No thanks.

I didn't think Hoot's reply was funny at all.

I was driving my '62 Thunderbird down California I-5 once, when allathesudden the tranny just went kaput.

Tranny trouble. No laughing matter.



Oh, and btw, I'd tell him. As the song goes "That's what friends are for".