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[Legend]

people who say they are going to hurt you never do.

write back to the boyfriend, tell him you heard he is looking for you, and to save his energy.
give him your number and ask for his and tell him you will call him when you arrive.
say you were in the french foreign legion for ten years, and you cant wait to meet him.
childish bollox.

[Pierre_Loeb]

Hello everybody.

Some weeks ago, I met a LB in internet. She told me she had a boyfriend and I said ok...because it was ok, I was not into anything but talk.
She was upset with her bf, it was late and he was away, so she nedded to talk, so we did.
At the end, she said "thank you for listening me"..and that was it.
But the next day there she was, and the other, so we became friends.
After many talks, many things shared, we both began to feel something else for eachother, even we both know we are far away (i am in europe now) and she had that "bf problem" to solve.

About a week ago, i got an email form someone claiming to be his bf. I told him what happened and i said i hope she and he could solve their problem and, if she chooses him, i would go away.
He replied threatening me, saying he will kill me when i arrive Pattaya (and i will, next August)
I did not pay to much attention until yesterday, when 2 ladyboys from Pattaya i also met in internet told me someone (that guy?) is showing my pic to some people, asking them to call him when they see me, so he can do what he wants to do to me.
He is an american guy, so i am told, with no job known. She has a "regular" job, not a bar girl.
Do you think this threat should be taken seriously?
What would you do, in my place?

Grow a moustache

Right!
bought a wig already too. If you happen to see a guy in a blonde long wig...that's me, folks!

[jayarr]

bought a wig already too. If you happen to see a guy in a blonde long wig...that's me, folks!

long blonde wig, eh? you go long time?

[Pierre_Loeb]

bought a wig already too. If you happen to see a guy in a blonde long wig...that's me, folks!

long blonde wig, eh? you go long time?

I try to joke about it, but....Not so sure.

[noknok]

It depends on the ladyboy. Show a pic of her so we can determine the level of threat posed to you.

[Pierre_Loeb]

It depends on the ladyboy. Show a pic of her so we can determine the level of threat posed to you.

Sorry, i wont. Even if I cant understand her silence, right now, I put her away of the situation.
But, if you want to know is she is a stunner, I tell you she is not.

Replying to other member:
1- Yes, THIS Augustr(sorry, in my poor english "next August" is the same of "this August);
2- No, I dont stay long time, I stay only duting my holidays at home (in Pattaya, around 10 days).

[samcro]

I would be more worried about the LB if something goes wrong , you could also be getting played by the both of them..... Who knows they both might be yaba heads ?

How did he get your email?

Samcro

[Pierre_Loeb]

I would be more worried about the LB if something goes wrong , you could also be getting played by the both of them..... Who knows they both might be yaba heads ?

How did he get your email?

Samcro

I am not a yaba specialist, my i dont think she is one yaba head, as you say, according to her writing and to her discourse. I wasnt so sure about him,: I am not good in english, but I think I can recognise a englush native speaking guy and, on his first email, I could hardly understood what he said, because of bad writing and confused ideas, no like an american would (I think) write. But she told me he is not on drugs.
According to her, he uses her email to make some business on ebay. So that's how he got my email and read the mail exchange between us.

I am going to Pattaya, yes, but I decided I will not look for her or even call her. Not also because of the risk, but also because, this happened, she should say and do something about it, wich she did not.

[mardhi]

Maybe I am reading this wrong, but why would you even reply when made fully aware of the situation - that you are waiting to see if it (the relationship) fails ? Seems like your flaming the guy to me to get even more angry about the situation. Further what are you going to do? He lives in Thailand (presumably with her) and you don't.

Quite why people get themselves into these situations is beyond me, with so many girls available and now your asking is it safe to go to Thailand? I think you have really answered your own question and yes if he see's you he may well get angry, as probably would anyone in the same situation.

Cheers
Mardhi

[thailover57]

Phuket will be nice that time of year (any time actually). Maybe a change of itinerary and visit C&D's. I think you've only met her online, so why not go elsewhere and remove the problem? I've found that the jealousy/stupidity can run rampant. Pattaya is not the only stop on a tour to Thailand.

[ScottishLadyboyTerrorist]

Hi Pierre, I think it was foolish of you to even think of entertaining this lb as she made her situation with the bf clear to you... Even though she intimated they were having some issues it should have been warning bells in your ears fella.

On the angry bf.. I would be angry too. Wouldn't you be too? Anyway, just put this one down to a bad experience and don't contact her again, or if you are worried at him finding you, write another email telling her you will not be getting in touch ever again and you have been a very naughty boy...