I would be more worried about the LB if something goes wrong , you could also be getting played by the both of them..... Who knows they both might be yaba heads ?
How did he get your email?
Samcro
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Posted 25 June 2011 - 05:24 PM
I would be more worried about the LB if something goes wrong , you could also be getting played by the both of them..... Who knows they both might be yaba heads ?
How did he get your email?
Samcro
I am not a yaba specialist, my i dont think she is one yaba head, as you say, according to her writing and to her discourse. I wasnt so sure about him,: I am not good in english, but I think I can recognise a englush native speaking guy and, on his first email, I could hardly understood what he said, because of bad writing and confused ideas, no like an american would (I think) write. But she told me he is not on drugs.
According to her, he uses her email to make some business on ebay. So that's how he got my email and read the mail exchange between us.
I am going to Pattaya, yes, but I decided I will not look for her or even call her. Not also because of the risk, but also because, this happened, she should say and do something about it, wich she did not.
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Posted 25 June 2011 - 05:34 PM
Maybe I am reading this wrong, but why would you even reply when made fully aware of the situation - that you are waiting to see if it (the relationship) fails ? Seems like your flaming the guy to me to get even more angry about the situation. Further what are you going to do? He lives in Thailand (presumably with her) and you don't.
Quite why people get themselves into these situations is beyond me, with so many girls available and now your asking is it safe to go to Thailand? I think you have really answered your own question and yes if he see's you he may well get angry, as probably would anyone in the same situation.
Cheers
Mardhi
Quite why people get themselves into these situations is beyond me, with so many girls available and now your asking is it safe to go to Thailand? I think you have really answered your own question and yes if he see's you he may well get angry, as probably would anyone in the same situation.
Cheers
Mardhi
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Posted 25 June 2011 - 07:18 PM
Phuket will be nice that time of year (any time actually). Maybe a change of itinerary and visit C&D's. I think you've only met her online, so why not go elsewhere and remove the problem? I've found that the jealousy/stupidity can run rampant. Pattaya is not the only stop on a tour to Thailand.
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Posted 25 June 2011 - 09:57 PM
Hi Pierre, I think it was foolish of you to even think of entertaining this lb as she made her situation with the bf clear to you... Even though she intimated they were having some issues it should have been warning bells in your ears fella.
On the angry bf.. I would be angry too. Wouldn't you be too? Anyway, just put this one down to a bad experience and don't contact her again, or if you are worried at him finding you, write another email telling her you will not be getting in touch ever again and you have been a very naughty boy...
On the angry bf.. I would be angry too. Wouldn't you be too? Anyway, just put this one down to a bad experience and don't contact her again, or if you are worried at him finding you, write another email telling her you will not be getting in touch ever again and you have been a very naughty boy...
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Posted 25 June 2011 - 11:35 PM
Maybe I am reading this wrong, but why would you even reply when made fully aware of the situation - that you are waiting to see if it (the relationship) fails ? Seems like your flaming the guy to me to get even more angry about the situation. Further what are you going to do? He lives in Thailand (presumably with her) and you don't.
Agree totally with this. Basically what you did was throw gasoline on the fire. Reading it you seemed condencending and basically insinuated that you were after his woman if he f@cks up.
Also agree with Anthony, call his bluff. Better it be a time and place of your choosing then a surprise bottle to your head.
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Posted 27 June 2011 - 11:12 AM
[quote name="Pierre_Loeb"][quote] I am not good in english, but I think I can recognise a englush native speaking guy and, on his first email, I could hardly understood what he said, because of bad writing and confused ideas, no like an american would (I think) write. .[/quote]
Well, some of us Americans have a way with words, and some of us.....
....uhmmm
...no hab way!
Well, some of us Americans have a way with words, and some of us.....
....uhmmm
...no hab way!
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Posted 27 June 2011 - 11:18 AM
...but seriously,
I agree with Anthony in that you have absolutely nothing to fear from what is assuredly an idle threat.
However, as much as it sounds like your heart-strings are being pulled, I'd suggest that you will have a much better time in Pattaya avoiding the inherent drama of involvement with this one.
You'll still meet some others who will tug at your heart strings. Promise. I'd avoid involving myself with a gg or lb with whom there existed this drama before even the first meeting.
Nix
I agree with Anthony in that you have absolutely nothing to fear from what is assuredly an idle threat.
However, as much as it sounds like your heart-strings are being pulled, I'd suggest that you will have a much better time in Pattaya avoiding the inherent drama of involvement with this one.
You'll still meet some others who will tug at your heart strings. Promise. I'd avoid involving myself with a gg or lb with whom there existed this drama before even the first meeting.
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Posted 30 June 2011 - 09:23 PM
As a “boyfriend” (don't know for how long but still at present I am) I don't understand jealousy and threats towards potential clients/customers/future boyfriends lady entertains. After all it is just a game and lady as a true entrepreneur just diversifies her markets she sell her goods to so if one market is closed for business she can sell her product on another in short time. Sad but true. As a boyfriend (or better to say paying customer) I can only influence on everything by “money finitt” threat… I’ll leave her next second I find out she was in Pattaya even on a 1 minute tourist sightseeing trip or with another man… but it is not likely since farangs who date sponsored girls don’t like to tell… 
But this is just me… sad but true is also that Pattaya and Pattaya working girls (P4P or non P4P) are a magnet to all sorts so nutcases allover the globe so I wouldn’t take threats of jealous boyfriend so lightly. One thing is to be involved with some normal guy who you can talk situation out... and totally another is if you hit on some total nutcase incapable to have anything meaningful in his life in farangland so he bought himself love and feeling of respect in Thailand… and you just took it away from him.
If I were you I would at least stay away from the girl and place she works but to stay away from Pattaya… up to you, I wouldn’t.
BR
But this is just me… sad but true is also that Pattaya and Pattaya working girls (P4P or non P4P) are a magnet to all sorts so nutcases allover the globe so I wouldn’t take threats of jealous boyfriend so lightly. One thing is to be involved with some normal guy who you can talk situation out... and totally another is if you hit on some total nutcase incapable to have anything meaningful in his life in farangland so he bought himself love and feeling of respect in Thailand… and you just took it away from him.
If I were you I would at least stay away from the girl and place she works but to stay away from Pattaya… up to you, I wouldn’t.
BR
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Posted 01 July 2011 - 02:14 AM
You have nothing to worry about just go and enjoy your holiday .
*Disclaimer *
If you do meet up and he bites your ear off or something please ignore my advice .
*Disclaimer *
If you do meet up and he bites your ear off or something please ignore my advice .
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Posted 01 July 2011 - 10:24 AM
You mentioned he hs a picture of you. That would make me uncomfortable, idle threat or not. I don't like the idea of someone with an ax to grind knowing what I look like and me not aware of what he looks like.
That said I would still go and have a good time. I wouldnt discuss this with people that you meet in Pattaya and I would not communicate with your LB friend anymore.
My final thought is that there may be a possibilty that she wanted him to see your emails to get him jealous. I mean if they share a computer wouldnt she delete compromising emails - duh
That said I would still go and have a good time. I wouldnt discuss this with people that you meet in Pattaya and I would not communicate with your LB friend anymore.
My final thought is that there may be a possibilty that she wanted him to see your emails to get him jealous. I mean if they share a computer wouldnt she delete compromising emails - duh
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Posted 02 July 2011 - 03:40 PM
You mentioned he hs a picture of you. That would make me uncomfortable, idle threat or not. I don't like the idea of someone with an ax to grind knowing what I look like and me not aware of what he looks like.
That said I would still go and have a good time. I wouldnt discuss this with people that you meet in Pattaya and I would not communicate with your LB friend anymore.
My final thought is that there may be a possibilty that she wanted him to see your emails to get him jealous. I mean if they share a computer wouldnt she delete compromising emails - duh
The more I think about it, the more I agree with this.
Thank you Larry and thank you guys.
See you in August .
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