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[petesie]

Please don't judge peoples views on this forum regarding the TS scene in Asia....you live here so therefore a different viewpoint is bound to be evident.................

Most guys are just passing through and their comments and opinions are usually honest reflections and are recollections of particular moments in time....good or bad...or even indifferent.......

If you have had the good fortune and opportunity to experience first hand a genuine relationship then good on you mate................just don't knock us who do our best within the short space of time we have allotted to us...

All the best..... :wink:

[Ali71]

Just because you have had great experiences with lbs in asia doesnt mean others will or have, so enjoy your life and experiences and let others follow their own path

it has already been said that a lot of us only holiday in los so why would we look for a long term relationship, not realistic or wanted



and as for respect, well a lot of us do treat them with respect already

[Legend]

hank,
if you live in jakarta,
would you consider having a holiday in the uk, and looking for a relationship.?

[Newdude]

Hank I just want to say I agree with you 100% Some of the "advice" I read here (since it was the only place I found that was guys who like TG/LBs) really messed me up. Rather than listen to my girl, I got paranoid - I mean if these seasoned guys made the LBs walk behind them or use a side door to their hotel there MUST have been something to be ashamed of. If these guys with proper careers and such were paranoid about anyone from home finding out - that MUST mean that the worry I had was founded.

I nearly lost the most wonderful girl ever - I think you know her Hank. I broke it off with her for 3-4 months. I'm not blaming the posters here or the site or any of that stuff. It was all me. BUT sometimes the message given here isn't one of respect or anything but fear and shame.

The fact that the community lets guys get over calling LBs "blokes" and "Lads" or "boys in satin" doesn't really say much about respect. You can show anyone respect - but that is not the same as respecting someone (my gf says that lots)

[Metropolis]

Yeah but some of them are boys in satin, dude.

[matchman]

I'm sure you're a REAL darling... I'm not debating prostitution here (a thing I have were little experience with), merely the suggestions that are given here by guys about RELATIONSHIPS with trans*women. So basicly my posting is not at all aimed at you.

So WTF are you debating or has the fact that your writing on a forum that is sponsored by a porn site that specializes in LB porn and provides on the paid Website the names and numbers of the ladies so that members can get together for paid sex.

Are you really so dense that you cannot understand that there is a difference between a relationship established outside the P4P environment with a person whether GG or LB and those that originate inside? You seem to enjoy confusing the two, I realize you may have limited capacity to grasp such a simple difference and I think perhaps we might need to start putting some sort of key in place to make it easier for the disadvantaged to understand when BM’s are referencing relationships around the P4P area and develop from there and those external everyday relationships. (I perhaps should point out again as you seem to keep missing it that 99% of all posts on the site are based around P4P scene and peoples experiences in that environment.)

You seem to want to think the forum discussions are based around your narrow view of normal relationships with LB’s, isn’t that the premise that you started the thread on bitching about the old lions and how they see relationships, but aren’t they talking about something you have no knowledge of?! You profess to have no interest at all in P4P and that you don’t do it, they are talking about relationships that spring up from a P4P liaison, so how can you compare your experiences and state theirs are wrong or jaded etc when you’ve never had anything even remotely similar.

I have no issue if you want to jump on your soapbox and tell everyone how great a relationship you can have with an Asian LB outside the P4P scene, I agree 100% but seeing as you have no experience around the P4P scene and the relationships that develop I suggest you might want to stop trying to compare the two and using threads like this as a soapbox to try and air some sort of superiority complex.

Oh and glad to see that anyone who doesn’t see the world as you do is a lost cause, cynical, disillusioned and old, maybe they have more maturity and experience than you?! Also glad to hear you treat people nicely, of course not so nicely if you’re cheating on them! I personally have always subscribed to treating others as I want them to treat me, seems to have worked out okay so far. Well enjoy and watch that first step off the soapbox it can be a long drop!

[SwineCanine]

[quote name="Newdude"]I mean if these seasoned guys made the LBs walk behind them or use a side door to their hotel there MUST have been something to be ashamed of. [quote]

Not really sure what you're talking about. I know just about about everyone who posts here regularly and I can't think of anyone who's worried about a walk of shame.

Im certainly not ashamed but might be rightly concerned if I was teaching in Thailand. But that would include P4P girls (and boys) too, or any girl half my age, not just ladyboys.

[petesie]

Walk of shame........nope.......never heard of it......

[Newdude]

Hope the links work.. all from a quick site search... many more mentions of the walk

http://lb-69.com/for...ight=walk shame

http://lb-69.com/for...ight=walk shame

http://lb-69.com/for...ight=walk shame

[Newdude]

Yeah but some of them are boys in satin, dude.

Would they call themselves "boys"?

[matchman]

Yeah but some of them are boys in satin, dude.

Would they call themselves "boys"?

Well I'd like to call myself brilliant, handsome, sexy and an all round nice guy but then again would it be true!

Okay we have to come clean and say the forum is not politically correct, and if thats your thing you might not find the forum to your liking, I still smile when I think of one of the BM's who refers in a strong irish brogue to many of the LB's in the P4P bars as wee little boys in skirts. (Of course they are little, they are boys and they are wearing skirts.)

Of course if we say they are boys does that make me gay! Okay they are ladies and that means I'm not gay ...

[Legend]

matchman, beautifully writing.
newdude- good research.
although, if you ever met us seasoned guys, there is no shame amongst any of us.
keep listening to your girl mate, especially if she is p4p.
wouldnt happen to be half your age and beautiful, would she.?
and you being so handsome, she loves only you.........