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[tarado]

personally,.. I don't understand getting married and being a prolific cheater. There is nothing wrong with wanting to have multiple sexual experiences - whatever your pleasure happens to be.

Why get married then?

You may say it is only cheating, but I doubt you would feel the same way if the wife were getting boned by Jamaican beach bums (like I say on one news story).

I didn't grow up dreaming of a family and marriage. I grew up dreaming about traveling the world and sexing many, many hot ethnic women (and LBs as it turned out)

[Legend]

hear hear tarado.
i think you,ve hit a subject there.
some girls grow up with the whole intention of having the "big day".
they plan it for years before they meet a bloke.

i dont know any bloke who couldnt wait for his "big day".
so most blokes go along with it, keep em happy.
dress up like a penguin, and dance with the mother in law.
but is she really "the one".?

for me , theres far more countries to be seen, and things i want to do, without someone telling me i cant.

seriously with regard to cheating, i never thought exploring sexualy with the same or third sex as being cheating, as you are experimenting with something a women cant provide.
but once that line has been crossed, i dont think anyone could live a straight 9-5 life, washing the car on a saturday.
or could they?

[laptop]

i dont think anyone could live a straight 9-5 life, washing the car on a saturday.
or could they?

Thats what I am attempting. Ill let you know if i return to Charlie Sheen mode again. Currently bored out of my skull waiting for her to return from LOS.

[tarado]

I came across an article on Puer Aeternus or Peter Pan Syndrome (for those of you into psychology)

For my own pursuit and enjoyment of ladyboys, part of the enjoyment is the lack of emotional entanglements with the GG and chance to enjoy the pleasures into perpetuity - as long as I avoid the clutches of the marriage to a GG.

Am I immature for wanting my life to remain without the responsibilities and burdens of conventional life of kids and marriage?

I see myself as intelligent enough to avoid a life of financial servitude to a wife and kids and sexual frustration.

from Wikipedia:
"Puer Aeternus is Latin for eternal boy. In Jungian analytical psychology, examples of the puer archetype include the child, young boy or adolescent. The term can also be applicable to females in which case the Latin term is puella aeterna.

Analytical psychologists suggest that some of the signs of the expression of the puer archetype in a person's life can include immaturity, narcissism, and a desire to escape into fantasy or idealism in preference to remaining with the reality of a situation."

what about you? is chasing ladyboys a lifestyle or a phase?

[freebirdabc]

If my married mates knew what they're missing out on they'd be boarding planes en masse for Pattaya waving their dicks in one hand and their credit cards in the other.

If you're serious about this, I actually feel sorry for you.

[Legend]

good topic. hopefully with a few good answers from diferent angles.

i find myself avoiding getting involved with women, as in my eyes the aggro dos,nt balance with the good stuff.
people ask me, "how can you go to thailand so often".
i reply
"because i havnt got a fat wife, 2 kids and a 4x4. my money is my own".
usually followed by "id love to go to thailand.....but im married".
so, i constantly wiegh up, who is doing the "right " thing.
in my eyes , i am.
i wouldnt say it was imature, more mature really, to go in the direction of my dreams, and live the live I have imagined.

i see daily reminders of what i dont want, and thats the pushchairs, the school run, the weekly shop, the frumpy bodys that women end up with, ("but ive had kids"), the noise.........
avoiding servitude.....damn right.

lifestyle or phase?
wont know until someone gives me a better offer.
cant see it, so probably lifestyle for me.

lack of entanglement? probably right.
i have enough bills to pay, i dont need someone elses aggro and parking tickets..

there are a lot of people who would like to do what we do.

[Phil Lander]

I'm not sure if the P4P thing is just a phase or just a substitute for me as I was hardly getting any sex at home and was missing out on the normal things in life a marriage involves . I'm not sure I will be pursuing LB's with the same reckless abandon which I displayed on my last trip or whether I will just do the GFE thing with a GG.

I think I'd better start a new thread rather than hijack this thread with my new status.

[MDS]

Interesting and very thought provoking indeed.
Very interested to see what other people post here.

"Puer Aeternus" sounds like a good idea for a Tattoo I think.

Tarado your not alone with the Peter Pan Syndrome, I think it is contageous though....

Eric1966 nice post the way you summed it up about your friends, a few of them are probably spending there cc else where though and I am sure more than one of them is most probably Gay and that some of there Wife's are probably cheating on them too.

freebirdabc WTF is your problem? We all come on here for the same purpose leave the trash talking for something like MySpace.

Myself I have never been to Thailand, planning my first trip though. Have been with Ladyboys of various varietys before. I am also not Married, age 30 have very mixed experience with the Female Race and the Third Sex as well. Want Kids one day, but they have to wait until I find the right Female or Females too have Kids with and have the money to make it work the way I want.

Came to the conclusion the other day that I would probably cheat on any Wife at least once and the odds of being in a decent Swinging relationship are pretty slim from what I have been told.

LB chasing for some is a phase and others it is just a way of life.

Long live Ladyboys for many years to Cum.....

[matchman]

If my married mates knew what they're missing out on they'd be boarding planes en masse for Pattaya waving their dicks in one hand and their credit cards in the other.

If you're serious about this, I actually feel sorry for you.

If you're serious about this reply, I actually feel very sorry for you!

Interesting topic, I think sometimes its six of one and half a dozen of the other. One side I can have the comfort of family and the pleasure of kids and on the other I can have the freedom to choose what and when I want things. I prefer the freedom at the moment but who knows what offers might come along tomorrow