my ex girlfriend knows all about my lb trips. 2 and half years later, she still dont get it.
but she once said to me "you are missing out".
racked my brains on this one.
never got chance to ask her what she meant.
can anyone one of you fellas tell me what im apparently missing out on?
ladyboy hunting vs. marriage / kids
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 01:00 AM
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 01:13 AM
If she is is farang maybe you are missing out on some of the following:
Will ya make me tea?
Will you not drink tonight?
I want to go shopping. Will you come?
Why dont you like my friends?
Why are your friends assholes?
Will you lick out my massive growler?
Moan, moan, moan, bla, bla, bla!
Dont really get this with a thai girl. But i presume syour ex "THINKS" you are missing out on herself and all she has got going on. She wants you to be jealous of her possibly
Will ya make me tea?
Will you not drink tonight?
I want to go shopping. Will you come?
Why dont you like my friends?
Why are your friends assholes?
Will you lick out my massive growler?
Moan, moan, moan, bla, bla, bla!
Dont really get this with a thai girl. But i presume syour ex "THINKS" you are missing out on herself and all she has got going on. She wants you to be jealous of her possibly
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 01:22 AM
my ex girlfriend knows all about my lb trips. 2 and half years later, she still dont get it.
but she once said to me "you are missing out".
racked my brains on this one.
never got chance to ask her what she meant.
can anyone one of you fellas tell me what im apparently missing out on?
The whole kids and family thing at a guess.
Not for me thanks...
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 03:40 AM
personally,.. I don't understand getting married and being a prolific cheater. There is nothing wrong with wanting to have multiple sexual experiences - whatever your pleasure happens to be.
Why get married then?
You may say it is only cheating, but I doubt you would feel the same way if the wife were getting boned by Jamaican beach bums (like I say on one news story).
I didn't grow up dreaming of a family and marriage. I grew up dreaming about traveling the world and sexing many, many hot ethnic women (and LBs as it turned out)
Why get married then?
You may say it is only cheating, but I doubt you would feel the same way if the wife were getting boned by Jamaican beach bums (like I say on one news story).
I didn't grow up dreaming of a family and marriage. I grew up dreaming about traveling the world and sexing many, many hot ethnic women (and LBs as it turned out)
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"We were both pissed and he said 'sod it, Im going to do a ladyboy tonight'. We had drank all our money and he couldnt do it. "
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 04:38 AM
hear hear tarado.
i think you,ve hit a subject there.
some girls grow up with the whole intention of having the "big day".
they plan it for years before they meet a bloke.
i dont know any bloke who couldnt wait for his "big day".
so most blokes go along with it, keep em happy.
dress up like a penguin, and dance with the mother in law.
but is she really "the one".?
for me , theres far more countries to be seen, and things i want to do, without someone telling me i cant.
seriously with regard to cheating, i never thought exploring sexualy with the same or third sex as being cheating, as you are experimenting with something a women cant provide.
but once that line has been crossed, i dont think anyone could live a straight 9-5 life, washing the car on a saturday.
or could they?
i think you,ve hit a subject there.
some girls grow up with the whole intention of having the "big day".
they plan it for years before they meet a bloke.
i dont know any bloke who couldnt wait for his "big day".
so most blokes go along with it, keep em happy.
dress up like a penguin, and dance with the mother in law.
but is she really "the one".?
for me , theres far more countries to be seen, and things i want to do, without someone telling me i cant.
seriously with regard to cheating, i never thought exploring sexualy with the same or third sex as being cheating, as you are experimenting with something a women cant provide.
but once that line has been crossed, i dont think anyone could live a straight 9-5 life, washing the car on a saturday.
or could they?
"im sure if u look around u can find a sunken face under caloried 10 year vet tranny bar girl, her face might not be as uniquely sunken or her ass dents so dented but just have a look, life is full of options." - boomdraw.
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 05:01 AM
i dont think anyone could live a straight 9-5 life, washing the car on a saturday.
or could they?
Thats what I am attempting. Ill let you know if i return to Charlie Sheen mode again.
Currently bored out of my skull waiting for her to return from LOS. 
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Posted 19 March 2008 - 11:03 AM
I came across an article on Puer Aeternus or Peter Pan Syndrome (for those of you into psychology)
For my own pursuit and enjoyment of ladyboys, part of the enjoyment is the lack of emotional entanglements with the GG and chance to enjoy the pleasures into perpetuity - as long as I avoid the clutches of the marriage to a GG.
Am I immature for wanting my life to remain without the responsibilities and burdens of conventional life of kids and marriage?
I see myself as intelligent enough to avoid a life of financial servitude to a wife and kids and sexual frustration.
from Wikipedia:
"Puer Aeternus is Latin for eternal boy. In Jungian analytical psychology, examples of the puer archetype include the child, young boy or adolescent. The term can also be applicable to females in which case the Latin term is puella aeterna.
Analytical psychologists suggest that some of the signs of the expression of the puer archetype in a person's life can include immaturity, narcissism, and a desire to escape into fantasy or idealism in preference to remaining with the reality of a situation."
what about you? is chasing ladyboys a lifestyle or a phase?
For my own pursuit and enjoyment of ladyboys, part of the enjoyment is the lack of emotional entanglements with the GG and chance to enjoy the pleasures into perpetuity - as long as I avoid the clutches of the marriage to a GG.
Am I immature for wanting my life to remain without the responsibilities and burdens of conventional life of kids and marriage?
I see myself as intelligent enough to avoid a life of financial servitude to a wife and kids and sexual frustration.
from Wikipedia:
"Puer Aeternus is Latin for eternal boy. In Jungian analytical psychology, examples of the puer archetype include the child, young boy or adolescent. The term can also be applicable to females in which case the Latin term is puella aeterna.
Analytical psychologists suggest that some of the signs of the expression of the puer archetype in a person's life can include immaturity, narcissism, and a desire to escape into fantasy or idealism in preference to remaining with the reality of a situation."
what about you? is chasing ladyboys a lifestyle or a phase?
The Canadian Ladyboy Hunter
"We were both pissed and he said 'sod it, Im going to do a ladyboy tonight'. We had drank all our money and he couldnt do it. "
"We were both pissed and he said 'sod it, Im going to do a ladyboy tonight'. We had drank all our money and he couldnt do it. "
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Posted 19 March 2008 - 02:41 PM
If you've done the conventional marriage, in my case twice with no kids and take a close look at what is on offer to your average 40 something male then it's a pretty simple choice.
When I talk to all my male friends who are married with kids of my age they are all irritable, sex starved, bored and pissed off. They all adore their children though and for that reason stay married.
When given the choice of putting up with some 40 year old frump who thinks she's doing you a huge favour by having sex once a month or having a month or so of some gorgeous creatures who look like freaking super models and actually start pouting if you don't let them suck your dick and fuck them senseless on a daily basis the choice is a no brainer.
On the p4p thing - I make shit loads of money and what I spend I get back 100's of times more - I actually owe these girls far more than I pay them so if when I'm on holiday I spoil them a little.
On the health aspect - yes it is risky behaviour but as far as possible I am careful, the benefits in terms of being a happy realaxed person who actually lives a very healthy lifestyle in terms of diet and exercise - hey if they can make a huge effort the least I can do is be in decent shape too!
If my married mates knew what they're missing out on they'd be boarding planes en masse for Pattaya waving their dicks in one hand and their credit cards in the other.
When I talk to all my male friends who are married with kids of my age they are all irritable, sex starved, bored and pissed off. They all adore their children though and for that reason stay married.
When given the choice of putting up with some 40 year old frump who thinks she's doing you a huge favour by having sex once a month or having a month or so of some gorgeous creatures who look like freaking super models and actually start pouting if you don't let them suck your dick and fuck them senseless on a daily basis the choice is a no brainer.
On the p4p thing - I make shit loads of money and what I spend I get back 100's of times more - I actually owe these girls far more than I pay them so if when I'm on holiday I spoil them a little.
On the health aspect - yes it is risky behaviour but as far as possible I am careful, the benefits in terms of being a happy realaxed person who actually lives a very healthy lifestyle in terms of diet and exercise - hey if they can make a huge effort the least I can do is be in decent shape too!
If my married mates knew what they're missing out on they'd be boarding planes en masse for Pattaya waving their dicks in one hand and their credit cards in the other.
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Posted 19 March 2008 - 03:06 PM
If my married mates knew what they're missing out on they'd be boarding planes en masse for Pattaya waving their dicks in one hand and their credit cards in the other.
If you're serious about this, I actually feel sorry for you.
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Posted 19 March 2008 - 03:11 PM
lol guess what other people wrote about you is true....
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Posted 19 March 2008 - 03:29 PM
good topic. hopefully with a few good answers from diferent angles.
i find myself avoiding getting involved with women, as in my eyes the aggro dos,nt balance with the good stuff.
people ask me, "how can you go to thailand so often".
i reply
"because i havnt got a fat wife, 2 kids and a 4x4. my money is my own".
usually followed by "id love to go to thailand.....but im married".
so, i constantly wiegh up, who is doing the "right " thing.
in my eyes , i am.
i wouldnt say it was imature, more mature really, to go in the direction of my dreams, and live the live I have imagined.
i see daily reminders of what i dont want, and thats the pushchairs, the school run, the weekly shop, the frumpy bodys that women end up with, ("but ive had kids"), the noise.........
avoiding servitude.....damn right.
lifestyle or phase?
wont know until someone gives me a better offer.
cant see it, so probably lifestyle for me.
lack of entanglement? probably right.
i have enough bills to pay, i dont need someone elses aggro and parking tickets..
there are a lot of people who would like to do what we do.
i find myself avoiding getting involved with women, as in my eyes the aggro dos,nt balance with the good stuff.
people ask me, "how can you go to thailand so often".
i reply
"because i havnt got a fat wife, 2 kids and a 4x4. my money is my own".
usually followed by "id love to go to thailand.....but im married".
so, i constantly wiegh up, who is doing the "right " thing.
in my eyes , i am.
i wouldnt say it was imature, more mature really, to go in the direction of my dreams, and live the live I have imagined.
i see daily reminders of what i dont want, and thats the pushchairs, the school run, the weekly shop, the frumpy bodys that women end up with, ("but ive had kids"), the noise.........
avoiding servitude.....damn right.
lifestyle or phase?
wont know until someone gives me a better offer.
cant see it, so probably lifestyle for me.
lack of entanglement? probably right.
i have enough bills to pay, i dont need someone elses aggro and parking tickets..
there are a lot of people who would like to do what we do.
"im sure if u look around u can find a sunken face under caloried 10 year vet tranny bar girl, her face might not be as uniquely sunken or her ass dents so dented but just have a look, life is full of options." - boomdraw.
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Posted 19 March 2008 - 05:19 PM
I'm not sure if the P4P thing is just a phase or just a substitute for me as I was hardly getting any sex at home and was missing out on the normal things in life a marriage involves . I'm not sure I will be pursuing LB's with the same reckless abandon which I displayed on my last trip or whether I will just do the GFE thing with a GG.
I think I'd better start a new thread rather than hijack this thread with my new status.
I think I'd better start a new thread rather than hijack this thread with my new status.
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A Ladyboy is never early , neither is she ever late . She turns up precisely when she means to.
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