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#1 malibu515

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Posted 15 March 2015 - 05:44 AM

I may be alone in this regard, and certainly personal preferences can be based oon many factors, but, I wonder, if anyone else has an attraction to ladyboys for the same reasons as me.

I am not gay. I am not the least interested in looking at men, young or old. For most of my life, I have been interested, as a young man, rabidly, in women (GG's as this column identifies) I have not been married, in fact I would call myself, unhappily single. My pursuit of the opposite sex was part sexual, and part family oriented. Many of my encounters were unhappy, some miserable and very few delightful, but I persevered. I was always envious of my friends who just had a natural appeal , and bed a bevy of Playboy types, while I struggled mightily.

About seven years ago, I was dragged to Bangkok, with an acquaintance and two of his buddies. While I sat terrified in my room across from Nana Plaza, the three of them quickly lached onto three amazingly hot freelancer GG's. How could they get this quality, considering we were all over 50 yrs of age ? After a couple of days of eating my meals in my room, they loaded me with half a beer (that's all it takes to make me light) and walked me the the Thermae Bar below Robinson's dept store. Amazingly, an early 20 something thai girl and I walked back to my room together . I was absolutely terrified ! She worked ever so hard to get me up and then quickly snapped a thai condom on my tentative member. I felt that this rubber band was emasculating me and I prompty lost all vigor. She began to cry, so I dutifully provide 4,500 baht compensation for my failure.
Having been made the fool, and light my daily rate for three days, I would only venture out to the nearby McDonalds, for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
After 33 hours of moderate to severe turbulence in my coach seat wafted constantly by the nearby toilet and prevalent diaper changes, I arrived back in my home town. I swore to whatever powers that be, that I would re-engage with the biography section at the local library, and begin a project that would occupy me constantly, gardening.
But loneliness is a hunger of sorts, so online dating was my next endeavor.\
I learned all to quickly, that six pack abs, and a Mercedes 550 were a prerequisite for uplifting contacts. Even with those essentials, the only responses I would get, were from the typical overweight,balding and desperate sources...just like me !
So,on my own, back I went to Toyland(Thailand)Terrified, I weathered on. I hooked up with expats who were of similar appearance, and then found that I could have up to 18 percent success if I followed certain rules...spend a lot of money, spend a lot of money, spend a lot of money. Thank goodness, half a beer seems to largely mask my desperation and loneliness to a large degree, so by wandering endlessly from 8:45 PM to 2 am every night, I would sometimes bring back a semi-willing partner, or a reasonably attractive profile. Watching other mongers (mongrels ?) hate that word, I found that there were others like me sitting in the back rows or furtively looking up from ringside, at the Coyote girls who would give them a second glance.
How many times would I be scorned once I arrive in my hotel room, or get marginal service, or be too overwhelmed to perform, but I got some great pictures, especially if I offered 500 baht over retail ! Great eye candy for the folks at home, but I knew the truth, I was usually, alone, lonely and miserable, surrounded by hosts of dudes getting it all with so little effort.
So one day, walking in Pattaya on soi 8 on my fourth visit, there stood a 5 foot 9 inch wonder, a sexifull ladyboy. She spoke English, now there is a novelty.
She was smiling at me, she acted interested in me and she smelled good ! I dared the un darable, and walked the walk of shame back to The Dynasty Hotel on Soi 13. I was positive that the front desk staff was outraged, that I stooped to this lowly trolling. But up to the room we went anyway. My terror prevented me from having any semblance of an erection, but it didn't matter, I was treated royally by my visiting angel. No disparaging words, as was my common fare from my GG endeavors, no rushing, no pleading for more than agreed, and she actually kissed.
I don't know about other mongers, but thai GG's don't kiss.

So after the many desparate, depressing, demeaning, expensive and unfulfilling experiences with thai women, I seek LadyBoys. I am rarely sad and lonely. I really don't give a flying fuck if the front desk staff disapproves of my action,
for I am happy with my choice.

So, here it is, my story. Any body else feel the same way as me ?

BTW...I am searching for Talisha. A woman like that can teach you a lot about yourself ! (John Saxon in Enter the Dragon )

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#2 veveron

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Posted 15 March 2015 - 08:27 AM

Thanks for the story it was very interesting to read. I can relate to a lot of it, especially the 33 hour flights and overpaying at first. Certainly agree that it's nicer being an appreciative ladyboy who would love for you to be her boyfriend, instead of a high end bar girl who's in a hurry to get back to her Thai boyfriend, or next customer.

 

"...but thai GG's don't kiss."

Don't stand for that, you're paying after all, negotiate it in the bar if necessary, or just kick them out with a token gift if they refuse such a simple act in the room. Only had one on soi 6 say no to kissing, and it wasn't like she was in the 'position' to enforce her request.

 

soi 8 to 13. Ouch, bit of a long walk.

 

Talisha was working back at Casanova, but my info is about 1 year out of date. At the time she was ok with me giving out her number to other interested BMs. PM if you want it.


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#3 Torques Hit

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Posted 15 March 2015 - 08:45 AM

You can find her on Craigslist

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#4 jonnieb

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Posted 15 March 2015 - 01:30 PM

" I am not gay"...whatever you say buddy; but I'll let you in on something...whenever there is more an one cock in the room, it's gay!
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#5 malibu515

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Posted 15 March 2015 - 05:46 PM

Perhaps your right about the gay thing, but I prefer ladyboys and have no interest in men. Are there other guys that have this ladyboy interest but not in men ?
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Posted 15 March 2015 - 06:13 PM

Perhaps your right about the gay thing, but I prefer ladyboys and have no interest in men. Are there other guys that have this ladyboy interest but not in men ?


The same here. I am not interested in men at all.
Also the ladyboy has to be very feminine. If I see the man with make-up I am not interested.
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#7 Torques Hit

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Posted 15 March 2015 - 06:18 PM

Does it really matter what other people think you you are ? Or what your not ? As long as your happy being the person you are is all that matters.
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Posted 15 March 2015 - 07:01 PM

Does it really matter what other people think you you are ? Or what your not ? As long as your happy being the person you are is all that matters.

 

 

Exactly! However society always wants to label people.  I don't like GG's or Men only ladyboys, that makes me different than mainstream and I can live with that.


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#9 malibu515

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Posted 15 March 2015 - 08:47 PM

I have so much excess baggage, I should be walking around Thailand with roll around luggage. Being raised in a very god fearing family, for most of my life, I felt that god and my father had a video camera on me even while I was in the shitter ! My release came after I was a Paramedic seeing so much inhumanity and violence against innocents. More than anything, I lost ALL my faith seeing the abuse of children. Then I started listening to You Tube videos of Christopher Hithchens, and became the same as he, an A- theist...not only do I not believe in a diety, but I am against all religion. Now I am free...maybe.
Sometimes that Pavlov dog conditioning, the religious bullshit, still gives me pause in my actions.
But, I like ladyboys, and Im going back to Thailand to partake BIGTIME>
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#10 rahulmehra1988

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Posted 15 March 2015 - 10:57 PM

Hey all.

           I'll be visiting phuket in a months time. I am straight as fuck but will be willing to try Tootsie Ladyboy Massage which is one of the best in Patong featuring VIP massage with happy ending. Have heard a lot about it and finally made my mind to get fucked in the ass. But I heard that chances of HIV specially in ladyboys is way higher, will be wearing a condom for sure but not for oral. Have anybody been there, if yes could u let me know if its gonna be safe.

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#11 veveron

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Posted 16 March 2015 - 05:39 AM

I have so much excess baggage, I should be walking around Thailand with roll around luggage. Being raised in a very god fearing family, for most of my life...

 

Yeah that religion stuff is awful, was in my late 20s until I started seeing the holes in it's claims.

 

The only major practical concern I've found about being seen with a ladyboy, or being though of as gay, is if you have a bargirl 'gf,' or are a regular at a gg bar.  They'll get jealous if they see you with another girl, but they might not go with you again if they see you with a LB. I once fucked up a good bar scene over that.

 

Lots of the hotels and tourists are fooled by petite ladyboys. Unless the girl on your arm looks like a bloke in drag most people are not going to notice (I certainly have trouble picking out LBs from gg). Really, I've gotten way more looks of disgust being seen with some of the mature beach road slappers than with ladyboys.

 

I guess some get really technical that there aren't any 'real' transgenders? I suppose that's genetically accurate, but socially convention and the law isn't always based on science. I prefer to just treat them like girls and forget it.


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Posted 20 March 2015 - 01:38 PM

The same here. I am not interested in men at all.
Also the ladyboy has to be very feminine. If I see the man with make-up I am not interested.


Do you know how silly your post reads...maybe read it back to youself a few times....I know I had a whale of a laugh! By the way, have you even had a peek between a ladyboys legs...or maybe you only receive blowjobs to keep up your het self-image.
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