@jonnieb
thumb rule in the P4P biz is "please the cussomer" .. so this should answer your question, mate
however the time I surrendered to a strong and not expensive invitation from a free lancer which I thought was a GG and agree to go to her room .
As she undressed she strted asking if I liked her body , so I started wondering why and as she waived her waist and hips , looking so feminine BTW.. , I the realized the unexpected .
At that time I wasn't a noob on LBs world and I knew already what was the main sexual drive ... but that was the first chance with a post-op which made it all more interesting.
It was all in all, a good experience .. but not a "full" , something was definitely missing there.. guess what ?
However , Jonnieb, no problem at all : when you're there, you're always welcome from any side
cheers !