For this reason I'm thinking to change town or country but I don't know if there is another place for me.
So you are not willing to give it a try because of your "issues", and you didn't mention any of this when you first asked your questions.
If you are not flexible enough to give it a try, then it is clear that having sex with lbs in LOS is not what you're after.
By the way it isn't necessary to drink alcohol when visiting a bar. There are board members that drink water or soft drinks.
You could try Bois De Boulonge in Paris - drive by the street and try to pick one up - no alcohol, no loud music, not many people, etc.
Do you even know how much the bar fine is? It's not like 500-600 Baht is going to break you.