Posted 03 January 2006 - 02:53 AM
zvezda, when do you plan to be in Bangkok or Pattaya?
NEVER pay in advance, anywhere.
Ladyboys are in most cases lower "priced" than real girls, not higher priced.
Drinks.
Sure, the least you can do is buy the girl you are talking to a drink. That is how she is paid for her time, but buying her "friends" drinks is just a waste of your money.
I've spent, wasted, a lot of money over the years buying drinks for "friends" and don't do it anymore. Most of the time they are only interested in the commission, take a sip or two from the drink, and move on to the next customer. In many of the more dishonestly managed bars the waitresses are trained to picked up the lady drink glasses, finished or not, as soon as they think they can get away with it, so you, the walking ATM, has to buy more drinks if you want the girl or girls to stay with you. The love of your life wants you to buy her friends drinks so they make the commision on the drink. Ask the girl if she wants another drink or if she wants a tip. Bet she will take your tip instead of the drink.
There are exceptions, but it would seem most ladyboys prefer short time vs long time. There are some who want or will stay long time, but not many.
Lock everything up. Everything. Your watch, mobile phone, camera, everything. What you can't put in the safe, lock away in your luggage. Don't let her see you put anything of value in your luggage or she might slip out during the night with your suitcase. Best, as others have said, to lock up everything before you go out for the evening.
I prefer a safe in the room and while the girl is in the shower I put everything in my pockets in the safe, including her fee. The next morning while she is in the bathroom I take out enough to cover her fee and a tip if she earned it. The fee I put under or near her purse and hand her the tip as she is leaving. Use whatever technique you think best.
Good Hunting.