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[Ericthehalfabee]

Just what are they?

[RobiSLO]

There are many signs like personal messages, gifts for occasions... but at the end 99,99% just love you because they love color of your money. Sad but true & no insult meant.

BR

p.s.
Up until now my percentage is 100%, maybe there is some other guy who has more luck.

[filbert]

Well said RobiSLO, the surest sign is the reduced tendency for shopping, reduced incidence of indiscriminate and random misfortune such as sick buffalo and sick car/motorbike/family member needing expensive fix. Basically they can fall in love but it’s never on our terms, remember they think differently to us so never judge them on our terms.

[dixon cox]

...but it is true all ggs, lbs are bothered about is the colour of your money, there is a t shirt always doing the rounds in patts, saying no money, no honey. too true

So it must be true then

Based upon a t-shirt and all the GG's and LB's you've met... or were you just generalising?
... maybe there's more scientific analysis to follow

[Brit]

Interesting topic....

IMHO there is no reduction in gift/contributions (that is an inherent expectation in love or not). Very difficult to spot and minor behavioural changes only.... because they already behave like you are their loved boyfriend from day one.

Jealousy is one aspect - which I have found is concentrated in LB's

And future planning - rather than living in the moment.

Finally if they are willing to work (normal job i mean) and hand over the weekly wage packet for you to administer.

[triat45]

From my limited experience - one of the signs that your LB has fallen for you is that they stopped (or never) asked for gifts ... or excuses for money (in fact, refused offerred money, or repaid a loan).

But the real sign?
When they sit there looking at you like this ...

[Starfish seeker]

It's difficult to decipher the signs and is dependent on the individuals.Some indicators might be totally bogus.You need to tread carefully as some of them are very clever and calculating.The bottom line has to be money.Don't want to sound cynical,because there are honest individuals out there.They seen to equate love to been taken care of,which basically means you pay.

Constant texts and chats might be a sign
Not working when your in town
visiting family
moving out of the p4p scene
finding alternative work
avoiding the cut at your request!!

But its best to keep it as a fantasy and avoid the love thing

[Starfish seeker]

I think the longer they are in the p4p scene the more difficult they are to analyse.Many become very untrusting of farangs and just see them as walking atms.Gals new to the game are still on the learning curve.You find a gal who is not a hardened pro,you have got a chance.Farangs treat some of them like dirt so they toughen up and become totally calculating and mistrusting.This is when you need to be careful of the bogus signs.

There are novices out there,who are relatively new to the scene.You treat them well and they treat you well.My lady don't ask for gifts and pays for me from time to time.

[Starfish seeker]

And thats the sort of attitude I am referring to.But the gals are savey enough to pick up on this attitude.And many farangs with this view are treat accordingly by them.What goes around comes around.