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[Josh69]

A few years back, for my first time in Pattaya, i met a girl (gg) in WS. A really young pretty girl.
As i suddenly fell ill, she took good care of me: she bought me some food, medicines etc. So i was grateful to her for that. I decided i would stay with her another day. And quickly, she told me her mother was sick (i even talk to her)...And then, she was already arranging things for us to go and visit her family...I was wondering, fuck!!! am i so handsome and irresistible in that country . Actually, i looked like a real "stupid" newbie. (no offence to newbies!).

The plan was perfect for her but on the other hand i was thinking
"how this so young girl (she was 19 on the ID card but looked 16) can have an angel face and behave like that... It could have been so easy and tempting to just continue our love story

[kakila]

steviepsaid

I'm growing to like you DC Very Happy

well i am glad to see that someone is

be nice we all love DC

group hugs all round




cheers pela

[kakila]

What a soppy ole thread

Find Them, Fuck Em & then Forget Them,

End Of........


Oh solly.....I forgot to say pay them.

pentrie

agreed but you left out one step

move onto the next one

cheers pela

[kakila]

Take your head out of your arse and get real pal.

These gals are hardened hookers even at 18, for every farang trying to romance her, there is a dozen experienced colleagues dispensing free advice for her next move.

Guys who get emboiled in long distance sms messaging, internet chat, phone calls, not to mention wire money transfers are not simply wasting their time......they are wasting their life
That Is The Way It Is.....99.9% of the time.

shit pentire

we have to stop agreeing like this



cheers pela

[singdick]

After about 20 years in this scene, I have to admit that 90% of the time, IMHO I must add, that the ladyboy only wants your money and nothing else. Well, that in the first place is how they earn their living.
However there are some cases where they get attracted to you in an almost loving sense.
For example, I've been seeing a particular ladyboy for nearly two years and recently the affection seems more natural, the conversation seems more long term - like higher education plans. (She's already a business admin grad.) and all in all one can detect a closer relationship. She now goes around telling her friends in the bar I'm her boyfriend and actually blushes when she does it.
And lately, money isn't such a big issue.
But I'm just taking it one week at a time as I'm fully aware of her "job" and actually not too sure how to proceed. A bit embarrassing but after so many years of mixing up with "thieves" you get stuck when you meet someone different.
Any advice?

[Ericthehalfabee]

Don't spend more than you can afford, don't expect anything in return, enjoy the ride.

[Ericthehalfabee]

Btw I posted this to see if there was a different response from members from this and the other forum to the same question.

My original included the following tongue in cheek although quite truthful experiences.

1. She takes photo's of you and keeps them on her phone. Even worse if you look like Quasimodo on a bad hair day.

2. Your bathroom suddenly has enough femine beauty products to stock a small store and you haven't even asked her to move in!!!

3. She takes to wearing pj's - okok not pj's exactly but a silk slip that barely covered her ass and looked like it was painted on - but it was def clothing and worn to bed albeit briefly.

4. Enquiries are made about that gym you were going to join.

5. Enquiries are made about excessive gym use which make you completely irressistable to every LB within 500 meters - this would be a bad thing apparently.

6. Daily briefing by text on exactly what is going on.

7. Her friends start treating you like their younger brother.

8. "don't be silly man - much too expensive to buy" is heard - I had to have a small sit down to recover from the shock of it.

9. Invited home to check out the farm and family.

10. Last night tears in the bar, in front of her friends before you zoom off to make a crust so you can come back.

Any others to add?

[petesie]

Some of it is eerily familiar...........

[Starfish seeker]

I think other possible indicators might be:

1.Not working in the bar when your in town.My gal says shes off visiting family and we avoid the place like the plague.I never actually met her in the bar,and have never visited,so we never had that initial bar fine malarky to deal with.We met at an internet cafe.

2.Frequent chats on messenger via cam

3.Calls and texts

4.When you know she ain't bullshitting you.

5.When she tells you about farang customers and it don't bother you

6.When you drag her to JSB or the New England bar as its now known and she gets pissed off when you bump into your x.

7.When the payment goes on a backburner and your just enjoying each others company

But guys do heed the warnings of ohers.Avoid getting ripped off.Personally I would never send money .