I beg your pardon, but are you the Pond who posted in the relationship topic?
Sound very different at least, in one you stated you're a good gal, who was cheated by your very bad bf, and here if I understand, you are close to offert quality time services to some tourists? (I know prostitution do not exist in Thailand, but it can look like that in some other countries lol).
So to complete my (our) understanding of the LB mind, can you be a little more talkative about the meaning of cheating?
It look like you do not accept your bf do what you are doing, let say flirting deeply with others.
As I am on the rebound (nice story but piteous end) maybe you will be able to explain me why things are alwyas going worst after a while. Does a ladyboy monogamously coupled can not be satisfied (emotionally and sexually)? Does the double personnality they mostly have (and sorry but I think you should have it also, both the good familly girl , and the naughty Sukkhumvit gal) make them acting like crazy when the moon is full? Is it like women periods, and noone can change that? Or is it simply the fact to see some girls who have "easy money" and can handle to get a new cellphone every month pay by the current bf (one bf per month is the average in Nana area I suppose)?
Do you use a cyber or are you at home? If cyber, then please change, you deserve to have a keyboard with 104 keys, for now it seems some are missing lol.
Sorry if I seem not politically correct, but I love to ask the real questions ... I kow it's hard to have accurate answers, because all we like to give a certain image of us to others. Some LB fairly educated, but jobless, when they meet a good guy try to hide what they are really doing (for survive, not for fun) , the problems become when the "good guy" discover the reality .... Yes he is shocked, but if he have real feelings he can handle the shock, but in more he start to refuse all what the LB will say, thinking if she have bullshit one time, she will never stop to bullshit. She say she go to meet a friend .... How old the firend? What's gender? What nationality? ... Get my point? I simply imagine your bf (the old one I mean, the so bad guy) who found some post like that, or some emails, or some SMS ? How he will think? How he will react? What will be his trust in your words after that?
Imagine 10 secs we are bf/gf, I am taking a nap, you are preparing the dinner (good houswife) and my cell phone get an SMS "Miss you, meet me tomorrow short time hotel same room 15.00" ... What will you do? OR you will start an argument (LB reaction), or you will simply say nothing because , well noboddy is perfect, it mean I just got sex with someone else, but also you are not perfect and you can you too have sex with other, at leat you will have experience and maybe satisfy more your partner (lol).
For what I know, I simply suppose your guy found some materials related to you who made him acting stupidly. Am I right? Or is it simply after you discovered he was cheating on you you started to "flirt" around? To know some LB here in Bkk, I do not think so, mostly they have one bf (and they take good care of him) but also several gigs who provide her what the bf can not (noboddy is perfect). So why the bf can not have the same???? You are thai, aren't you? So why take a foreigner as bf? Mostly the girls do so, because there is a beliefe we will never f*** around , not like thai men. Problem is basically LB are thai men, so they use to ask the bf to conside them as girls, but sometimes (and for the worst) they keep thai male behavior (what is the male counter parts of "Mia
Noi", as I have several LB friends who have regular bf but also visit me somtimes I just would like to know how I can call myself lol)
Big kiss, it's really some informative questions, nothing bad, nothing personnal..... alas .... because I am sure it must be interresting to meet you and speak with you, you look like upper the average standart.
I think I will ask Rami to give me your personnal information lol
