I was married for 8 years, 3 kids. Divorced now for 4 years. Been to LOS with then wife 3 times, and didnt look at what was on offer, in fact never had any boom boom on the side during my whole marriage. Now have a huge child support debt $800,000 over next twelve years. Been to Pattaya 3 times in last 12 months and it has changed my outlook on life. I now feel physically and emotionally free both at home and in LOS. I dont want a relationship with a western woman because I never will risk my assets again. With what I was left with after divorce, I can still just afford Los and support my kids. I get 'Loved' enough in LOS to satisfy me !
ladyboy hunting vs. marriage / kids
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Posted 25 March 2008 - 08:17 PM
, I'm no longer a spring chicken so have to take what I can get , only I wont be taking any BingoWings .
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in Denmark we say that the diff. between a Bingoparty...and a singleparty is,............... that if youre lucky at the bingo...you come home with a half pig......if youre UNlucky at the single party...you get the whole pig with you home... :evil:
A ladyboy is a kind of creature...that makes a txt saying...dont you trust me...and send it to 20 people... 
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Posted 25 March 2008 - 10:47 PM
Well a lot of different views that’s for sure. Also a lot of topics covered. But that’s to be expected with the wide age range, life experience, financial circumstances and locations of the BMs. I have always wondered when reading the different posts about the background of BM writing. So thank you all for sharing.
I live in NYC happily divorced for 15 years with 2 kids that I co-parent. Went through a lot of shit in the course of my separation and it cost me plenty. It was worth it, every penny. I seems that all my married friends are unhappy...or maybe they just like to complain. They all seem to be waiting for something..when the kids move out or retirement or a promotion etc. Its like a selfless, sexless existence. I didn’t sign up for that. I want to live and enjoy life. Shit I am coming up on 50 years old, I want to put the top down on my car and drive while I still have some hair for the wind to go through. HA! I guess I started my mid life crises when I was 25. Hey everyone goes through it, I am just trying to do it with a little style. I complain some times too but at least for the most part I do what I want, I fuck who I want, and I have piece of mind. I hurt no one, I disrespect no one.
I like being single I meet amazing women here and enjoy their company. I treat them very well they treat me wonderfully and when that changes we part. I have dated all types of women and there is no universal truth some are nice some are bitches. The last few years I have been with mostly younger Asian women. When my contemporaries ask me why I date these girls, I simply ask them.. wouldn’t you if you could?
Thailand is amazing the LB are incredible. I have been drawn to them for over 20 years. My first real exposure to TGs happen when I was leaving a Grateful Dead concert at Madison Square Garden. I was high on mescalin and qualudes and I strayed in to Eldewise a now defunct TG bar. What a scene! I went back sober a week later just make sure it was real. Now I am heading back to LOS for my second trip (maybe just to make sure it was real).
I feel some times I given up a lot for my life style. But really I have given up nothing
I live in NYC happily divorced for 15 years with 2 kids that I co-parent. Went through a lot of shit in the course of my separation and it cost me plenty. It was worth it, every penny. I seems that all my married friends are unhappy...or maybe they just like to complain. They all seem to be waiting for something..when the kids move out or retirement or a promotion etc. Its like a selfless, sexless existence. I didn’t sign up for that. I want to live and enjoy life. Shit I am coming up on 50 years old, I want to put the top down on my car and drive while I still have some hair for the wind to go through. HA! I guess I started my mid life crises when I was 25. Hey everyone goes through it, I am just trying to do it with a little style. I complain some times too but at least for the most part I do what I want, I fuck who I want, and I have piece of mind. I hurt no one, I disrespect no one.
I like being single I meet amazing women here and enjoy their company. I treat them very well they treat me wonderfully and when that changes we part. I have dated all types of women and there is no universal truth some are nice some are bitches. The last few years I have been with mostly younger Asian women. When my contemporaries ask me why I date these girls, I simply ask them.. wouldn’t you if you could?
Thailand is amazing the LB are incredible. I have been drawn to them for over 20 years. My first real exposure to TGs happen when I was leaving a Grateful Dead concert at Madison Square Garden. I was high on mescalin and qualudes and I strayed in to Eldewise a now defunct TG bar. What a scene! I went back sober a week later just make sure it was real. Now I am heading back to LOS for my second trip (maybe just to make sure it was real).
I feel some times I given up a lot for my life style. But really I have given up nothing
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 12:56 AM
This weekend I have been watching a lot of "2 and a Half Men" with Charlie Sheen and Jon Cryer.
Charlie certainly makes the "no marriage and kids life" look a lot more fun.
Charlie certainly makes the "no marriage and kids life" look a lot more fun.
As kids we're not taught how to deal with success; we're taught how to deal with failure. If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. If at first you succeed, then what?
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 01:00 AM
my ex girlfriend knows all about my lb trips. 2 and half years later, she still dont get it.
but she once said to me "you are missing out".
racked my brains on this one.
never got chance to ask her what she meant.
can anyone one of you fellas tell me what im apparently missing out on?
but she once said to me "you are missing out".
racked my brains on this one.
never got chance to ask her what she meant.
can anyone one of you fellas tell me what im apparently missing out on?
"im sure if u look around u can find a sunken face under caloried 10 year vet tranny bar girl, her face might not be as uniquely sunken or her ass dents so dented but just have a look, life is full of options." - boomdraw.
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 01:13 AM
If she is is farang maybe you are missing out on some of the following:
Will ya make me tea?
Will you not drink tonight?
I want to go shopping. Will you come?
Why dont you like my friends?
Why are your friends assholes?
Will you lick out my massive growler?
Moan, moan, moan, bla, bla, bla!
Dont really get this with a thai girl. But i presume syour ex "THINKS" you are missing out on herself and all she has got going on. She wants you to be jealous of her possibly
Will ya make me tea?
Will you not drink tonight?
I want to go shopping. Will you come?
Why dont you like my friends?
Why are your friends assholes?
Will you lick out my massive growler?
Moan, moan, moan, bla, bla, bla!
Dont really get this with a thai girl. But i presume syour ex "THINKS" you are missing out on herself and all she has got going on. She wants you to be jealous of her possibly
As kids we're not taught how to deal with success; we're taught how to deal with failure. If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. If at first you succeed, then what?
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 01:22 AM
my ex girlfriend knows all about my lb trips. 2 and half years later, she still dont get it.
but she once said to me "you are missing out".
racked my brains on this one.
never got chance to ask her what she meant.
can anyone one of you fellas tell me what im apparently missing out on?
The whole kids and family thing at a guess.
Not for me thanks...
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 03:40 AM
personally,.. I don't understand getting married and being a prolific cheater. There is nothing wrong with wanting to have multiple sexual experiences - whatever your pleasure happens to be.
Why get married then?
You may say it is only cheating, but I doubt you would feel the same way if the wife were getting boned by Jamaican beach bums (like I say on one news story).
I didn't grow up dreaming of a family and marriage. I grew up dreaming about traveling the world and sexing many, many hot ethnic women (and LBs as it turned out)
Why get married then?
You may say it is only cheating, but I doubt you would feel the same way if the wife were getting boned by Jamaican beach bums (like I say on one news story).
I didn't grow up dreaming of a family and marriage. I grew up dreaming about traveling the world and sexing many, many hot ethnic women (and LBs as it turned out)
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"We were both pissed and he said 'sod it, Im going to do a ladyboy tonight'. We had drank all our money and he couldnt do it. "
"We were both pissed and he said 'sod it, Im going to do a ladyboy tonight'. We had drank all our money and he couldnt do it. "
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 04:38 AM
hear hear tarado.
i think you,ve hit a subject there.
some girls grow up with the whole intention of having the "big day".
they plan it for years before they meet a bloke.
i dont know any bloke who couldnt wait for his "big day".
so most blokes go along with it, keep em happy.
dress up like a penguin, and dance with the mother in law.
but is she really "the one".?
for me , theres far more countries to be seen, and things i want to do, without someone telling me i cant.
seriously with regard to cheating, i never thought exploring sexualy with the same or third sex as being cheating, as you are experimenting with something a women cant provide.
but once that line has been crossed, i dont think anyone could live a straight 9-5 life, washing the car on a saturday.
or could they?
i think you,ve hit a subject there.
some girls grow up with the whole intention of having the "big day".
they plan it for years before they meet a bloke.
i dont know any bloke who couldnt wait for his "big day".
so most blokes go along with it, keep em happy.
dress up like a penguin, and dance with the mother in law.
but is she really "the one".?
for me , theres far more countries to be seen, and things i want to do, without someone telling me i cant.
seriously with regard to cheating, i never thought exploring sexualy with the same or third sex as being cheating, as you are experimenting with something a women cant provide.
but once that line has been crossed, i dont think anyone could live a straight 9-5 life, washing the car on a saturday.
or could they?
"im sure if u look around u can find a sunken face under caloried 10 year vet tranny bar girl, her face might not be as uniquely sunken or her ass dents so dented but just have a look, life is full of options." - boomdraw.
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 05:01 AM
i dont think anyone could live a straight 9-5 life, washing the car on a saturday.
or could they?
Thats what I am attempting. Ill let you know if i return to Charlie Sheen mode again.
Currently bored out of my skull waiting for her to return from LOS. 
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Posted 19 March 2008 - 11:03 AM
I came across an article on Puer Aeternus or Peter Pan Syndrome (for those of you into psychology)
For my own pursuit and enjoyment of ladyboys, part of the enjoyment is the lack of emotional entanglements with the GG and chance to enjoy the pleasures into perpetuity - as long as I avoid the clutches of the marriage to a GG.
Am I immature for wanting my life to remain without the responsibilities and burdens of conventional life of kids and marriage?
I see myself as intelligent enough to avoid a life of financial servitude to a wife and kids and sexual frustration.
from Wikipedia:
"Puer Aeternus is Latin for eternal boy. In Jungian analytical psychology, examples of the puer archetype include the child, young boy or adolescent. The term can also be applicable to females in which case the Latin term is puella aeterna.
Analytical psychologists suggest that some of the signs of the expression of the puer archetype in a person's life can include immaturity, narcissism, and a desire to escape into fantasy or idealism in preference to remaining with the reality of a situation."
what about you? is chasing ladyboys a lifestyle or a phase?
For my own pursuit and enjoyment of ladyboys, part of the enjoyment is the lack of emotional entanglements with the GG and chance to enjoy the pleasures into perpetuity - as long as I avoid the clutches of the marriage to a GG.
Am I immature for wanting my life to remain without the responsibilities and burdens of conventional life of kids and marriage?
I see myself as intelligent enough to avoid a life of financial servitude to a wife and kids and sexual frustration.
from Wikipedia:
"Puer Aeternus is Latin for eternal boy. In Jungian analytical psychology, examples of the puer archetype include the child, young boy or adolescent. The term can also be applicable to females in which case the Latin term is puella aeterna.
Analytical psychologists suggest that some of the signs of the expression of the puer archetype in a person's life can include immaturity, narcissism, and a desire to escape into fantasy or idealism in preference to remaining with the reality of a situation."
what about you? is chasing ladyboys a lifestyle or a phase?
The Canadian Ladyboy Hunter
"We were both pissed and he said 'sod it, Im going to do a ladyboy tonight'. We had drank all our money and he couldnt do it. "
"We were both pissed and he said 'sod it, Im going to do a ladyboy tonight'. We had drank all our money and he couldnt do it. "
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Posted 19 March 2008 - 02:41 PM
If you've done the conventional marriage, in my case twice with no kids and take a close look at what is on offer to your average 40 something male then it's a pretty simple choice.
When I talk to all my male friends who are married with kids of my age they are all irritable, sex starved, bored and pissed off. They all adore their children though and for that reason stay married.
When given the choice of putting up with some 40 year old frump who thinks she's doing you a huge favour by having sex once a month or having a month or so of some gorgeous creatures who look like freaking super models and actually start pouting if you don't let them suck your dick and fuck them senseless on a daily basis the choice is a no brainer.
On the p4p thing - I make shit loads of money and what I spend I get back 100's of times more - I actually owe these girls far more than I pay them so if when I'm on holiday I spoil them a little.
On the health aspect - yes it is risky behaviour but as far as possible I am careful, the benefits in terms of being a happy realaxed person who actually lives a very healthy lifestyle in terms of diet and exercise - hey if they can make a huge effort the least I can do is be in decent shape too!
If my married mates knew what they're missing out on they'd be boarding planes en masse for Pattaya waving their dicks in one hand and their credit cards in the other.
When I talk to all my male friends who are married with kids of my age they are all irritable, sex starved, bored and pissed off. They all adore their children though and for that reason stay married.
When given the choice of putting up with some 40 year old frump who thinks she's doing you a huge favour by having sex once a month or having a month or so of some gorgeous creatures who look like freaking super models and actually start pouting if you don't let them suck your dick and fuck them senseless on a daily basis the choice is a no brainer.
On the p4p thing - I make shit loads of money and what I spend I get back 100's of times more - I actually owe these girls far more than I pay them so if when I'm on holiday I spoil them a little.
On the health aspect - yes it is risky behaviour but as far as possible I am careful, the benefits in terms of being a happy realaxed person who actually lives a very healthy lifestyle in terms of diet and exercise - hey if they can make a huge effort the least I can do is be in decent shape too!
If my married mates knew what they're missing out on they'd be boarding planes en masse for Pattaya waving their dicks in one hand and their credit cards in the other.
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