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[dixon cox]

Nice thread topic.

I enjoyed reading all of the above posts as it makes things easy for me

I agree with pretty much everything that everyone above has said
... with the obvious exception of the village idiot.

[Legend]

tarado, you are speaking my language here bro.
i too had a 9 year thing, that ended with me having to book an appointment for a fuck . usually on sundays.
so i too sought out extra sexual activity. ok might not have been straight, but exciting all the same.
and having kids for me would be the biggest ball and chain possible.
spending the rest of my working life supporting others? why. ?

over wieght women your age. damn right.
and i am supposed to work my bollox off to pull them.?
should be the other way around.
now i wonder what they could possibly have to enhance my life, when they live by the 3 date rule, and you cant lick out the back doors.
i find that women dont like it when you say you go to thailand. and why? because they know the women are beautiful, slim, and know how to look after men.
i sometimes wonder if the attitude of women had pushed me into this lifestyle?

i too dont beleive its all going to end with me sitting in a light grey cardigan,checking the lottery ticket while my wife makes jam in the kitchen.
not when i know what is waiting at the end of a 12 hour flight.

:wink:

[laptop]

I understand all of what has been said and I agree with much of it. Specifically bloody farang chicks. Particularly Irish birds in my case. Really Dublin is a horrible state of affairs. Especially in many of the clubs and bars around temple bar. Fat lumps of lard shouting their heads off and drinking beer. Not many ladies to be found. Then if you do want to try it on with one of them you are expected to jump through hoops for them. Well fuck that. I wont do it.

I had fully intended to live here in Ireland and then hit LOS 2/3 times a year and live the single life with no kids. I could go to the gym, play sports and booze whenever I wanted.

But then I meet a Thai girl. She is well educated and I have great fun with her. And IMO she is hot. She couldnt be more different than the fat irish birds. So I am happy with my situation.

BUT...... the fun in thailand can and will still happen. I like the companionship I have now and the sex is amazing too. And she takes good care of me. In the future I can transfer to South East Asia with my Job. So like other members on this forum i will have my cake and eat it. The wife at home and visits to LOS as much as possible.

If it works then grat. If it doesnt fuck it. I am young and everyone makes mistakes. But ill NEVER even date a farang girl again let alone marry and have kids with one of the lazy swines. :evil:

[patrick]

Agree with others, a good topic and some interesting responses, with the obvious exception that has already been referred too.
Perhaps just one word of support for all those farang housewives...I'll bet there's just as many of them bored shitless with useless husbands, it's not all one way traffic guys :?
Well I was one of those unhappy married guys at 40 so separation and divorce. Unfortunately I met another lady and was soon married to her,actually we are very happy, but if I had have discovered my love of LB's then instead of some years later, I could very well imagine I would not have married again, rather I would have spent lengthy periods in LOS each year like some of you guys. Rather than a few, well 5 last year, shorts stops en route from somewhere to somewhere.
Actually a life with a great wife here in Australia, multiple visits to my "Thai wife", well she made me buy her a 300 baht ring last week is not too bad, couldn't be better really, reckon I'm one lucky bastard

[Recoil111]

Since then I see no end in sight. Working each day for the goal of returning to Nana Plaza, Angeles City and the white sand beaches with sexually eager 21 year old honey gets me out of ebd and at it.

Yes, i do exactly the same. Working like a horse with the goal to spent 2-3 month during the winter in LOS.

And every year some of my friends tell me that they want to come over to visit my in LOS to have some fun as well. But the most never show up anyway.

Its funny to see their faces when i show them the pictures i took there.

[batman4ever]

i fully goes with Anthony70 on this matter...

why the heck should i spent my hard earned cash on some fat cow back home..... :?

i work like shit to when iam home,make some decent cash, but hey...then i certanly think iwe got the right to spent them on myself...

i have many of my friends back home telling me iam crazy for working so hard....and spend all that money on LOS trips..but every times my flightdate is approaching...they all fucking envius...

a few times some of the few who are singles, said that they want to go with me... bloody hell no.... :? iam not interested...and thankfully....they are not big economists...so they never made their savings..

the only bloody problem is, that they expect some girlie-pics to see when iam back home...so polite as i am.. i take some pictures of some GG bartenders (the pretty ones of course) show them to my friends...and tell how good she was in the sack...

[dixon cox]

A lifestyle or a phase...?
I try not to analyse my life too much, I just do what makes me feel good, but I consider it a lifestyle choice.

Particularly since the loss of a good friend of mine, who died before he reached 40 years old (not accidental), has made me reconsider what I was doing with my life. I live for the short-term now and ensure I get some pleasures included before it's too late and before I'm too old or die.

Western women drifted off my radar long ago and I haven't had a relationship with a white woman for over a decade and I don't want one anymore.

I am extrememly happy with my lifestyle right now and guys in the UK who I choose to talk to about it listen with envy and find it hard to believe I can return again and again to LOS for my regular fixes.

I really don't care to hear any negative comments about my lifestyle choices or my sexual preferences from anyone. This is my life and I'll live it how I like and not harm anyone along the way.

I am totally and absolutely absorbed by ladyboys, even GGs maintain only a negligable interest for me, I've had maybe 2 GG fucks since I got divorced 2½ years ago, it's ladyboys exclusively on every trip now.

My plans, work and thoughts are all based around my next trip to LOS and my future availability and plans to retire in Thailand.

Long may my lifestyle continue, I'm divorced with no kids, wonderful.

2 months in LOS in less than 2 weeks from now.

This is the best time of my life.

[tarado]

It is difficult for others to gain any appreciation for ones lifestyle (if we omit the mention of LB preferences).

I think it is too far out of the 'normal' way of living for most people to contemplate eschewing the consumer-driven lifestyle of domesticity. it seems like something they could never fathom doing themselves.

And, if you are like me,..you have been greeted by blank, unbelieving stares as I describe how many girls there are and how it is Disneyland for adults.

I may as well be describing life on Mars in ancient Hebrew language.

dixon cox: "My plans, work and thoughts are all based around my next trip to LOS and my future availability and plans to retire in Thailand.

Long may my lifestyle continue, I'm divorced with no kids, wonderful.

2 months in LOS in less than 2 weeks from now.

This is the best time of my life."

HERE! HERE!!

[philts]

Very interesting thoughts and views expressed but surely it just comes down to the fact that everyone is different.

I know many (yes many) people with wife and children who are very happy and fulfilled.

Most LB hunters, myself included, are quite self centred and not "family types" that's why we go LOS and other cheap sex tourst places.

Enjoy what you do but don't knock others for what they like.

[dixon cox]

Very interesting thoughts and views expressed but surely it just comes down to the fact that everyone is different.

I know many (yes many) people with wife and children who are very happy and fulfilled.

Most LB hunters, myself included, are quite self centred and not "family types" that's why we go LOS and other cheap sex tourst places.

Enjoy what you do but don't knock others for what they like.

I agree with you there philts, but I don't consider myself a sex tourist, but unfortunately others might.

[Legend]

i was hoping this thread wouldnt head down the sexuality road.
i may be classed as a sex tourist, but now ive tasted lb sex, its a hard ride to get off.
if i had a steady lb partner in uk ? maybe i wouldnt have to visit LOS ?

the wife and kids thing is not for me, not interested in male partners, and as we know, once you,ve had lb sex, things are different.

it is an each to his own situation.
if only the the average couple with 2 kids could see life outside of the black and white world that they live in, they would see the rest of the world are having a great time.
but when they stare and judge me for my preferences, i think im in my right to judge them also.

a favourite of mine i like to say to couples.........
"there is 200.000 single men in thailand, and not one of us is wishing we were back with our ex.!"

the day i said adios to my ex, my life got easier and better.

[tarado]

philts:

"Enjoy what you do but don't knock others for what they like."

I think those are wise words. The thing that makes this life so incredible is that we each may choose to make our own expression of life.

Personally, I can't say that I know many married guys - when lubricated with a few drinks - that will not confess how miserable they are. No sex, no time, no spare spending money.

If you know tons of deleriously happy couples,..great. I ain't seeing them.