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[Recoil111]

Since then I see no end in sight. Working each day for the goal of returning to Nana Plaza, Angeles City and the white sand beaches with sexually eager 21 year old honey gets me out of ebd and at it.

Yes, i do exactly the same. Working like a horse with the goal to spent 2-3 month during the winter in LOS.

And every year some of my friends tell me that they want to come over to visit my in LOS to have some fun as well. But the most never show up anyway.

Its funny to see their faces when i show them the pictures i took there.

[batman4ever]

i fully goes with Anthony70 on this matter...

why the heck should i spent my hard earned cash on some fat cow back home..... :?

i work like shit to when iam home,make some decent cash, but hey...then i certanly think iwe got the right to spent them on myself...

i have many of my friends back home telling me iam crazy for working so hard....and spend all that money on LOS trips..but every times my flightdate is approaching...they all fucking envius...

a few times some of the few who are singles, said that they want to go with me... bloody hell no.... :? iam not interested...and thankfully....they are not big economists...so they never made their savings..

the only bloody problem is, that they expect some girlie-pics to see when iam back home...so polite as i am.. i take some pictures of some GG bartenders (the pretty ones of course) show them to my friends...and tell how good she was in the sack...

[dixon cox]

A lifestyle or a phase...?
I try not to analyse my life too much, I just do what makes me feel good, but I consider it a lifestyle choice.

Particularly since the loss of a good friend of mine, who died before he reached 40 years old (not accidental), has made me reconsider what I was doing with my life. I live for the short-term now and ensure I get some pleasures included before it's too late and before I'm too old or die.

Western women drifted off my radar long ago and I haven't had a relationship with a white woman for over a decade and I don't want one anymore.

I am extrememly happy with my lifestyle right now and guys in the UK who I choose to talk to about it listen with envy and find it hard to believe I can return again and again to LOS for my regular fixes.

I really don't care to hear any negative comments about my lifestyle choices or my sexual preferences from anyone. This is my life and I'll live it how I like and not harm anyone along the way.

I am totally and absolutely absorbed by ladyboys, even GGs maintain only a negligable interest for me, I've had maybe 2 GG fucks since I got divorced 2½ years ago, it's ladyboys exclusively on every trip now.

My plans, work and thoughts are all based around my next trip to LOS and my future availability and plans to retire in Thailand.

Long may my lifestyle continue, I'm divorced with no kids, wonderful.

2 months in LOS in less than 2 weeks from now.

This is the best time of my life.

[tarado]

It is difficult for others to gain any appreciation for ones lifestyle (if we omit the mention of LB preferences).

I think it is too far out of the 'normal' way of living for most people to contemplate eschewing the consumer-driven lifestyle of domesticity. it seems like something they could never fathom doing themselves.

And, if you are like me,..you have been greeted by blank, unbelieving stares as I describe how many girls there are and how it is Disneyland for adults.

I may as well be describing life on Mars in ancient Hebrew language.

dixon cox: "My plans, work and thoughts are all based around my next trip to LOS and my future availability and plans to retire in Thailand.

Long may my lifestyle continue, I'm divorced with no kids, wonderful.

2 months in LOS in less than 2 weeks from now.

This is the best time of my life."

HERE! HERE!!

[philts]

Very interesting thoughts and views expressed but surely it just comes down to the fact that everyone is different.

I know many (yes many) people with wife and children who are very happy and fulfilled.

Most LB hunters, myself included, are quite self centred and not "family types" that's why we go LOS and other cheap sex tourst places.

Enjoy what you do but don't knock others for what they like.

[dixon cox]

Very interesting thoughts and views expressed but surely it just comes down to the fact that everyone is different.

I know many (yes many) people with wife and children who are very happy and fulfilled.

Most LB hunters, myself included, are quite self centred and not "family types" that's why we go LOS and other cheap sex tourst places.

Enjoy what you do but don't knock others for what they like.

I agree with you there philts, but I don't consider myself a sex tourist, but unfortunately others might.

[Legend]

i was hoping this thread wouldnt head down the sexuality road.
i may be classed as a sex tourist, but now ive tasted lb sex, its a hard ride to get off.
if i had a steady lb partner in uk ? maybe i wouldnt have to visit LOS ?

the wife and kids thing is not for me, not interested in male partners, and as we know, once you,ve had lb sex, things are different.

it is an each to his own situation.
if only the the average couple with 2 kids could see life outside of the black and white world that they live in, they would see the rest of the world are having a great time.
but when they stare and judge me for my preferences, i think im in my right to judge them also.

a favourite of mine i like to say to couples.........
"there is 200.000 single men in thailand, and not one of us is wishing we were back with our ex.!"

the day i said adios to my ex, my life got easier and better.

[tarado]

philts:

"Enjoy what you do but don't knock others for what they like."

I think those are wise words. The thing that makes this life so incredible is that we each may choose to make our own expression of life.

Personally, I can't say that I know many married guys - when lubricated with a few drinks - that will not confess how miserable they are. No sex, no time, no spare spending money.

If you know tons of deleriously happy couples,..great. I ain't seeing them.

[batman4ever]

the day i said adios to my ex, my life got easier and better.

you forgot Cheaper...

[oze]

I'm a little confused by some of the responses in here, maybe it is because I am only 22, in Univesity and haven't really experienced life the same way you guys have.

However, I do believe some of the responses posted here do come across as ridiculously selfish.

I'm not really going to elaborate on that, but that is my impression. I'm not judging, you guys are your own people, you do control your own money and sexual relations, but the way you guys talk about it (maybe it's just because you're on this message board with other like-minded people) seems really low. Maybe it's like some kind of 'jaded old working man' syndrome

Anyway, I'm not too sure what this TranSexual/LadyBoy 'faze' is for me, I know that I have been into them for a long, long time and have several encounters and believe it's the best sex on Earth. However, I still want a wife and kids, and believe those two can offer things that a ladyboy and the sex they give cannot, so I'm not thinking too much into it and am just enjoying my life as is

Sorry if I've offended some of you guys, but that wasn't my intent, it was just a 3rd person's perspective

Party on! :twisted:

[peterk]

Very interesting thoughts and views expressed but surely it just comes down to the fact that everyone is different.

I know many (yes many) people with wife and children who are very happy and fulfilled.

Most LB hunters, myself included, are quite self centred and not "family types" that's why we go LOS and other cheap sex tourst places.

Enjoy what you do but don't knock others for what they like.

I agree with you mate. I have a wife and 3 kids and i am happy i wouldn't swap them for anything. I have been to LOS 3 times shagged quite a lot of girls but only a few LB's on the last 2 trips and liked the experience. You must be thinking what a hypocrite!. I even have a good sexual relationship with my wife we have sex 2 or 3 times a week on average. My wife is good looking ,not fat and 42 can easily pass for 32(has less strechmarks than some much younger bar girls). She is also a very good person at heart. Every time i cheat on her i do feel guilty but my problem is i am hooked on sex with different partners i get bored very easily.
I think that because people are different they have their own views on what is best for them. However we must not force our opinions on others or disrespect the feelings of others. There seems to be too much anti-falang women, marraige,kids views on this board while i can understand people are speaking from their own experiences or frustations it doesn't mean all falang women are fat,greedy, don't like sex and nagging bitches!. I see a lot of falang guys in LOS who are fat, beer bellies untidy, loud mouthed and drink all day and pissed almost every night the bar girls love them easy money for them. Now obviusley ALL falang men are not like that. We can't stereotype everything. I don't mean to offend anybody . Cant wait to get to Patts next JANUARY.

[Legend]

gentlemen,
you dont have to apologise in case you offend anyone.
this is a discussion forum, it is good to hear everyones views.
we are not forcing our opinions on others. we are having a dicussion about a topic that is familiar to us all.
i would like to respond to oze.
wait till your past mid thirties, and the cute pretty birds dont give you a second look anymore.
its all single mums with bingo wings and 20 benson and hedges.
or money hunters. "she,s landed on her feet"
and i for one, would not take on someone elses rubbish.(i.e kids)

interesting to hear the man who said the vows in front of everyone, thinks its ok to fuck about.
isnt the point of marriage to be faithfull to your chosen one?
better or worse etc?
im not judging you personaly. you all do it. to me it shows that the marriage thing is bullshit.

and not all falang women are fat and greedy, just 99% of em.