are all hotels ladyboy friendly, and if not how do they know they are ladyboys or hookers and not just a regular meet? do they stop you from entering? also whats all this Ive read about giving the ladyboys details at the font desk? what sort of details? do they have id cards?
Some hotels are guest friendly, some are not. There are lists of guest/ladyboy friendly hotels and suggestions in the Accommodation section, some are stickys at the top.
Accommodation Section
If a hotel charges a guest fee it will generally charge for any guest who is spending significant time in your room, regardless of whether they think they are a prostitute or not. If you have booked a double room and you have a regular partner you can get around this by registering your guest at reception - but obviously you can't change the guest every night!
When you do bring a guest to your room they will usually ask to see his/her ID, and often take hold this until they leave the hotel. They do this for their and your convinience.
my main concern with any visit would be STD's and specifically HIV, id never have unprotected intercourse with a ladyboy but I really want to suck one off and maybe eat there cum and for them to do the same to me without a condom, I hate condoms for oral. is there a big risk of catching something from oral?
There are several threads already listed at the start of this post regarding hiv and STDs, but as a general rule, play safe and then you have nothing to worry about.
If you do/have taken risks or want to understand these issues better, I'd advise speaking openly to your GP/Doctor about it, rather than going by threads on any ladyboy forum.