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#1 jimmy_switch_8887

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Posted 05 April 2017 - 06:41 AM

I apologise if this topic has been worn out etc etc. 

 

But here are my thoughts..... and interested in other opinions, stories, etc. 

 

The generalisation of ladyboys, in regards to relationships, is not good, IN GENERAL they lie, cheat, are prostitutes etc for a particular motive for example wanting UK citizenship etc. There are many stories of Ladyboys, cheating on there partners for various reasons, selling sex for money, for a passport and so on. We can go absolute deep regarding this conversation, but lets keep it simple. 

 

I'am interesting to hear, if anyone has actually found, and has a 'real love' relationship with a ladyboy, both ladyboy from abroad, and maybe from the UK? 

 

Or on the flip side....... any stories of being fooled..... 

 

 



#2 Spyder Rocket

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Posted 05 April 2017 - 08:22 AM

Why are you so interested in anecdotal accounts of relationships with ladyboys?

Do you just want salacious stories?

Maybe you should just go read the book Private Dancer. It isn't about a ladyboy, but it is about a female Thai sexworker that a farang becomes infatuated with.

Are you trying to figure out if you should become involved with someone?

Any relationship is difficult. When you add in cross cultural issues and the possibility that one, or both parties have become irreparably jaded by the sex industry, then you should have a pretty good idea of what you are up against.

And speaking of "the flip side" I am sure that there are legions of Thai ladyboys that have stories of being lied to and cheated on by farangs who just want to use them for sex.

What is your point with all of this?

#3 jimmy_switch_8887

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Posted 05 April 2017 - 08:53 AM

Hi Mr,

 

If I'am honest, I'am in contact with one I met when I was over there, and it seems I'am developing some feelings. 



#4 Spyder Rocket

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Posted 05 April 2017 - 10:21 AM

Hi Mr,

If I'am honest, I'am in contact with one I met when I was over there, and it seems I'am developing some feelings.

I understand, and it is natural to develop feelings for another person. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

If you see red flags, then there is reason to proceed with caution, or better yet, let those feelings die on the vine.

Forget about the fact that you are talking about a transgender sex worker from another culture and country for a moment.

Just think about a long distance relationship with a female from your own country, and your own socio-economic demographic.

That would be a challenge on it's own, right?

Now add in all the other things you seem to be concerned about.

Sit down and think it through using your own logic and critical thinking skills. You don't need a bunch of tales of woe from punters on a website.

In my opinion, it will only stir your emotions and make the thought process more difficult.

Only you can assign value to the feelings you are having. Only you can assess the amount of risk you are willing to take.

Love and relationships are always tough. It is always a gamble when you get involved with another person, and a good analogy is like going to a casino.

The odds are stacked against you no matter what game you play.

What it sounds like you are grappling with is to play with a slot machine or go to the blackjack table.

Slot machines are the suckers bet, and while blackjack has better odds, chances are you'll still lose.

Then again, people do hit jackpots and go on tremendous streaks at the blackjack table.

Figure out what you are prepared to risk and you will have your answer.
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#5 Abba123

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Posted 07 April 2017 - 05:39 AM

Sit down and think it through using your own logic and critical thinking skills. ...
In my opinion, it will only stir your emotions and make the thought process more difficult.
 

 

For many, critical thinking skills go offline for months (or even years) at a time, when feelings are developing.

 

Usually there are two people blowing sunshine up the ass of the punter:

The ladyboy blows sunshine, and the punter blows even more sunshine, up his own ass.

 

I am not sorry for never having sent money to a ladyboy or gg.

I am not sorry for not having paid for sick buffalo or uncle's broken leg.

However I have paid a few times when i liked a story, and the sob factor was low.

 

Do you feel that you need to make any other plan, than to plan when to go back to meet the ladyboy, in the same city that you met her the first time?

(Regarding meeting the family: That the ladyboy is sending money (that she has earned in your bed) to her family, is likely more important for the family, then actually meeting you.)

 

Some punters send money from farangland, some don't. You might be a sap, or a soft touch, or you might justify sending money for other reasons.

 

The smooth operators will not lose time in explaining to you how "the Western Union thing, works".


I've had a few hardships in my life, but the low point must have been when I was accused of breach of protocol on a website for worshippers of sex with barely legal (18+ teenager) transsexuals of Asian appearance. And not enough with being accused of being a fuck-up; implication was made that I could only be given half credit for fucking-up. How dare they say, that I was not able to fully achieve a certain act of fucking-up!  "... attempts to name drop forum members are cringe worthy and a little creepy". Clearly I was not able to name-drop; my stutter must have been worse than ever, on that day.

 

I heard a funny story once: Two guys in a Pattaya bar, told me about going to Guess Bar. They met a group there by chance; my take on what went down at Guess Bar was that the mentioned group were siting pompously in lounge chairs, and part of their claim to fame, were being senior board members-, i think it was, on The Ladyboy Forums (around 2008). Stalking of Wall Street Journal and The Economist are a thing of the past. The creeps are clearly moving up the food chain. And here we are. Lol.

 

Some of my best friends are ladyboys: Number 34 What's-her-face at Nana Plaza, and My Brown Fu_k Machine from Beach Road.

 

"You don't have to spend long in Udo_ to see it has its share of white trash." (Stickman - 2016)

 

There was some mention back in the day, about the water volleyball competition: The soundbyte was that It is for those who want to look at ladyboy cock, for free. Whatever, as long as the girls are having fun, i guess, each year.

 

I am not gay, but the jury is out on my ladyboy girlfriend and her favorite porn.

 

Overheard in a Thai-owned night club in Europe, when one Caucasian acquaintance said to another: "No, no, no - she is too light-skinned to be a looker".

 

An ex-girlfriend (GG) worked in a gogo bar. One co-dancer told me in a quiet moment (one-on-one) at the bar: "Falangs only like tall girls, so business is not so good now". My girlfriend said a few minutes later (one-on-one) "Falangs only like short girls". Maybe it was an act, then again maybe not; in warfare, one can provoke small reactions, to give indications of how to paint the bigger picture.

 

When I see you two guys with the "pompous" story, I want to hear the story again in all its glory. I remember the names of you two, but i will not name-drop any of you two.


#6 mikel1

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Posted 07 April 2017 - 04:26 PM

It can work but you will go through many kinds of hell to get there. Trust me.





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