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[scottieM]

yup, do I give a flying fuck if he has an interest? .

instead, IMHO this is the essence of the issue.
Once you know that somebody is an owner or has a clear interest, maybe just to please his mistress owmingormmsnwging the bar, or ownership, his comments on the bsr(s) will new read in s different than those of a normal customer.
Especially when these comments are praising the one bar and maybe putting bad light on other.
It is for the good sake of the forum itself as it has to give a wide range of honest information,
It is inevitable BM have preferences and will toast to one bar more than others, or bring up one girl vs. the others. Still these are honest comments and not induce by ownership or interests.
There are bar owners here making clear who they are and still not making partial comments.
When I read posts from the lady managing the bar I know who she is and I read her knowing it is an advertorial.
In that case his comment being.partial, a new reader will be taken by such a classified appearing as a normal punter comment.
This does not good to the forum and to the other bars, being more fair and honest.
So the bar should post as the bar, and the bar owner should abstain from commenting on is own bar and preferably avoid smashing other bars....

[duke007]

Take your arguments off here and don't come back until you have sorted them

 

Thats me told 

[ASJ]

But posts have reduced since ask started his assault, I rest my case.

 

 

But your posts have increased. Over 10 % of your whopping 30 posts (In 9 years) have been on this thread! 

 

Assault?  If you bothered to read back on this thread you would have read where I called Mardhi out when he alleged a rival bar (Chaos 9) wanted to be a GG bar, but was letting ladyboys freelance.  Not everyone buys into his deception. 

[duke007]

But your posts have increased. Over 10 % of your whopping 30 posts (In 9 years) have been on this thread! 

 

Assault?  If you bothered to read back on this thread you would have read I called Mardhi out when he alleged a rival bar (Chaos 9) wanted to be a GG bar, but was letting ladyboys freelance.  Not everyone buys into his deception. 

 

Bloody Hell ASJ, I thought you had died 

[rxpharm]

There will always be disagreements on lb forums, and vigorous discussion generates interest. However, carrying on grudges is something else and does not generate positive feelings on forums.

 

ASJ you may have missed or ignored this post from Mardhi on the Chaos9 thread: it is pretty clear he is no longer trying to run the bar down.

 

 Quote: mardhi, on 11 May 2015 - 12:41 AM, said;

 

mardhi, on 11 May 2015 - 12:41 AM, said;

 

I popped into Chaos last night to wish a happy Birthday to Kanjana.     Great night and plenty of fun.    Kanjana was on good form and very chatty despite a room full of her friends.     The GG's in Chaos are also great fun.  Nice to catch up with some of my old employees such as Tong, Mint and Jak.

 

I think Chaos will do well and with such a motivated owner, I am sure success is not far away.

[mardhi]

There will always be disagreements on lb forums, and vigorous discussion generates interest. However, carrying on grudges is something else and does not generate positive feelings on forums.

 

ASJ you may have missed or ignored this post from Mardhi on the Chaos9 thread: it is pretty clear he is no longer trying to run the bar down.

 

Just to clarify, I never have the run bar down since it has changed ownership.    Based on the following info, I suspect anybody would have come to the same conclusion:-

 

The first time I went into Chaos9 was with another BM who no longer posts. This was mid January 2015 and we entered the bar circa midnight to find 3 GG's, no LB's and no other customers.   The GG's did not know who I was. Very welcoming reception as we sat at the bar.      One GG specifically said this not LB bar now, it is a girl bar and new name of bar and new owner.    After about 15 minutes of chat, in walked Mint.   When Mint saw me she Wai'd and greeted me by name.   

 

After more drinks all round the guy I was with had moved to the pool table with one of the 3 GG's.    2 remained by me plus Mint.   The two gg's were looking more and more confused as I carried on talking to Mint. I asked Mint, 'how you can work in GG bar if you ladyboy?'. Her reply "I tell them I lady".      Fast forward another 30 mins and Emmy walked in.   FYI, both Emmy and Mint worked for me at Guess Bar and Anaconda in Pattaya for perhaps 2-3 years each.   I joked with Emmy about does she claim to be a GG as well.   She replied, no, she just comes in sometimes, Freelance was the exact word she used.      At no point did any other GG's or LB's enter the bar and we both left about 2am.  

 

Keeping in mind this was January 2015, some 6 months ago.  I believe what I stated at that time was the correct summary of what I experienced first hand in the bar.    On a subsequent visit I met Kanjana and have done so on numerous visits since then.  My last visit was as recently as three weeks ago during the white dress party.

[jnrawdon]

Mardhi, you retain my respect!

[ASJ]

Just to clarify, I never have the run bar down since it has changed ownership.    Based on the following info, I suspect anybody would have come to the same conclusion:-

 

 

Keeping in mind this was January 2015, some 6 months ago.  I believe what I stated at that time was the correct summary of what I experienced first hand in the bar.    On a subsequent visit I met Kanjana and have done so on numerous visits since then.  My last visit was as recently as three weeks ago during the white dress party.

 

Except for the fact you went back in late January, when there was about 5 ladyboys and two GG's.  I know that, because I was in the next night and was told that you asked where I was (by name). Nice back tracking though.     You forget I was in BKK at that time.  Kanjana the sole owner of Chaos 9 told me that you told her that she would never make it as a ladyboy bar on that visit when you first met her.  It must have been a huge disappointment for you that someone would actually try to make a go of a LB lounge bar in BKK besides yourself. 

 

Numerous visit's since? Have that had that many parties?  Seems like that is only time you show up from what Kanjana tells me.  

[mardhi]

Except for the fact you went back in late January, when there was about 5 ladyboys and two GG's.  I know that, because I was in the next night and was told that you asked where I was (by name). Nice back tracking though.     You forget I was in BKK at that time.  Kanjana the sole owner of Chaos 9 told me that you told her that she would never make it as a ladyboy bar on that visit when you first met her.  It must have been a huge disappointment for you that someone would actually try to make a go of a LB lounge bar in BKK besides yourself. 

 

Numerous visit's since? Have that had that many parties?  Seems like that is only time you show up from what Kanjana tells me.  

 

In your desperation to be right ASJ you have overlooked some pretty simple facts on dates:-

 

Mid Jan 2015 I went into Chaos and saw what I what I reported on the 28th Jan in answer to a question. My reply is the 2nd post on this very thread. 

 

I subsequently went back into Chaos on the 12th February with another BM from the forum you sort of moderate.   He posted about it on  13th February and talking about that night before on your very forum.    So, you have your dates wrong - I was not there at the end of January.

 

The rest of your post is not even worthy of a response as is so often the case with you, you create words that were never used, in a conversation you were not even present at, which had nothing to do with you.    

[JustSumGai]

I like to read what the average bar goer has to say.  Don't much read the forums anymore, it's all touts. ASJ being one of the biggies. I miss the days when they were filled with trip reports and guys talking about good times in this or that bar with this or that girl.  Now some may say the heroes have killed the trip reports. Maybe so, tho no has explained how even not so regular visitors don't even post em.  If *I* had a hell of a time I'd post it.  Might not post pics of me spewing on a girl I'd told "just for me", but I'd post em. MAYBE the new "girls are all online and Line and TF" thing keeps some from reading here or posting, dunno. But I do know one thing everyone says they like about their trips is seeing old pals and making new ones, and I don't think that's gonna happen in the one on one with the girls online.

 

It's bad enough that most of all the new posts are touts. But slaggin each other over differing style brings even fewer new posters onto the board.

[Shining-Path]

Wherever Boarhog goes, the fun dies. Di a search for his username on a few forums to see what I mean.

He has to be the absolute authority on all things "LB" and will fight and bitch and attack anyone who doesn't bow down before his almighty knowledge.

The thing is, as all the guys living in Thailand know well, is that he is completely clueless. His "expertise" is level 1 stuff and his advice is usually misguided and often hilarious.

He likes to think of himself as a smooth, savvy operator, but he comes across like a penny pinching Scrooge figure.

Read his account of when he got stabbed by a drugged up LB for a text book example of cluelessness.

[Shining-Path]

The truth has always struck a nerve with you.

You wouldn't see my posts on that forum because you aren't in the advanced section, by request of other advanced members. In fact because of you sharing information in that section no bar owners are allowed access to the advanced area.

As someone who used to be a member of the Advanced forum at your site (until I was kicked off for disagreeing with Boarhog) I can safely tell people they are missing nothing.

It's full of threads about other members and is just a big ego trip for 1 man.

The reason people don't post as much is because there are some people around who just take the fun out of everything.