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[theseus6969]

After so many months of being a BM of this incredible forum, I finally have booked my flight for start of August to BKK. It will be my first trip to LOS of course and my second potential chance to encounter a LB meet. However there is a BIG problem

I'll be accompanied by my wife and it'll be actually our second honeymoon. Although I've only booked my flight so far I haven't booked any guest house or hotel as yet.

So now if you were at my place, what would you do to arrange a LB encounter without giving any suspicion to wife?

Thanks

Theseus

[Spyder Rocket]

Get divorced.

Seriously, get divorced, sounds obvious to me.

[rxpharm]

This is not the best circumstance for arranging your first lb encounter as you have already posted.

 

You need to arrange a time when you can be alone without suspicion - find an activity that your wife is not interested in participating.

 

Visit an lb bar and use a short time hotel - you probably have read about these in the various trip reports on the forum. If you do not want to visit an lb bar you can try an escort, but this tends to be more expensive and also a crap shoot as the photos are not always accurate. The escort will also know where a short time hotel would be.

 

Be sure to have a change of clothes so that the lb's perfume is not detected by your wife when you get back together. Also be sure to shower/shampoo thoroughly after your encounter, again to remove any scents/lipstick . Be sure you have someplace safe to put your valuables so they don't disappear during the encounter. Some lbs are light-fingered.

 

Always use a condom - better safe than sorry. There are some ultra thin Japense condoms called okamoto 0.03 which are probably the best condoms in transmitting sensation.

 

Check for chemistry as that is an important factor in the difference between an out of this world experience, vs a forgettable experience. Also be absolutely clear about what services you want and the exact amount you will be paying before hand so there is no misunderstanding. You may want the lb to repeat things and possibly record her with your smart phone (if you brought one) to avoid problems afterwards.

 

Of course Spyder Rocket also gave some practical advice, if you want to continue down the lb path.

[theseus6969]

Get divorced.

Seriously, get divorced, sounds obvious to me.

[theseus6969]

Dude to be honest I've been divorced once cause my ex came to know about by LB interest and I don't intend to go on this path again mainly due to the family and society norms and expectations from me. So the idea is to be as safe as possible for now

[rxpharm]

Ok, now you've given more of your history, clearly you are playing with fire. You will eventually be burned if you continue down this path with lbs, sooner or later your 2nd wife will find out.

[Spyder Rocket]

Dude to be honest I've been divorced once cause my ex came to know about by LB interest and I don't intend to go on this path again mainly due to the family and society norms and expectations from me. So the idea is to be as safe as possible for now

Maybe you aren't cut out for married life?

I was only half way making a wisecrack with the "get divorced" remark.

I have noticed that when I am in a happy relationship, all my LB dalliances disappear. I've only been married once, and I'm pretty sure, I"ll never do it again.

I know this sounds judgmental, but I say it with the humblest intent. What does it say about your state of mind that you are trying to arrange a tryst on your wedding anniversary trip?

Brother, you really should consider divorce, or get your head back in the game with your marriage.

I wish you luck, many of us have been there, including me.

[shyguyuk]

Hi Theseus6969

 

A dilemma indeed.

By comparison I moved with my wife to BKK fairly recently and have settled in well and find the odd (infrequent rather than strange) night out (w/o wife) when LB action often happens. Guess it's how I'm wired.

I have no reason to divorce again (at least so far as I'm concerned) so long as I find a proper balance - it's always for naughty fun and nothing more.

Do take the advice from rxpharm as a good 'working' code.

Good luck with your time here and decisions.

Maybe take her to a LB Cabaret show and see how she reacts.... never know she might respond well....?

Need a drink while you're here? - feel free to ask.

Cheers

 

SG

[Spyder Rocket]

You need to arrange a time when you can be alone without suspicion - find an activity that your wife is not interested in participating.

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Like fucking ladyboys?

Why not let the wife in on the fun?

Trust me, once you start introducing additional sex partners into a marriage, the expiration date on your marriage is probably about to expire.

If your marriage is about to fall apart, that might be a good way to get it started, get a hot amazon ladyboy to fuck the hell out of your wife.

Go down in flames of glory, rather than going out with a whimper.

I wish him the best, but I think he should get divorced and go on the honeymoon alone.

[theseus6969]

Thanks for your replies and feedback guys. Ok to clarify 2 things. First, I love my wife and won't be divorcing her at any cost. Secondly I'll be having my LB encounter on this trip at any cost

Now with these 2 things clarified, all I ask for are the tips on how to have the best time of my life on this trip?

Rxpharm dude thanks for your tips. I'll be looking to get the accommodation which is closer to the action and with my wifey being a sound and deep sleeper, that's my best chance to make it happen

[Spyder Rocket]

Thanks for your replies and feedback guys. Ok to clarify 2 things. First, I love my wife and won't be divorcing her at any cost. Secondly I'll be having my LB encounter on this trip at any cost
Now with these 2 things clarified, all I ask for are the tips on how to have the best time of my life on this trip?
Rxpharm dude thanks for your tips. I'll be looking to get the accommodation which is closer to the action and with my wifey being a sound and deep sleeper, that's my best chance to make it happen

LOL!

Good luck dude, but that sounds like a recipe for a serious collision of priorities. You are actually applying "at any cost" to two seemingly opposed things. One will have to win out over the other, when you are caught.

There is no chance whatsoever to bring your wife in on this? In my mind, that is the only good play you have in the terms you are describing.

If she wakes up to find you gone, any excuse you come up with is going to sound weak as hell.

If you are a smooth enough talker to get out of being caught coming back to the hotel room in the middle of the night on your second honeymoon, then you should just smooth talk her into fucking a ladyboy with you.

[Spyder Rocket]

If you where in another city, an unexplained absence from the hotel might not be so suspicious, but in BKK in a hotel near a world famous red light district?

She is going to suspect you were out banging a hooker immediately.