Welcome aboard to the new members! Glad to have you join the forum and look forward to reading more from you in the future! For those new to the Thai lb scene there is plenty of information here to help you plan your visit to Thailand, which is the best way to meet a Thai lb.
A good place to start is this thread: Common Questions and Answers. You can also get a lot of information from reading the various trip reports. It's easy to fall into the routine of making your "fantasy" to do list, especially if you have been viewing any of the pay lb sites - while that is good motivation, there are hundreds of lbs in Thailand who are more beautiful than your fantasy lb - who has never had their photos posted on a forum or reviewed on a trip report. So having a set to do list may actually distract you from the lovely lb who can give you a mind blowing experience, whereas the fantasy girl you meet may end up being a forgettable one, if the chemistry is not there.
Feel free to ask questions if you can't find the information you are looking for.