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[Spyder Rocket]

In her case she has no assets such as a business, property etc, therefore in the eyes of NZ immigration she has no reason to return to Thailand.
I generalized a little this would not apply to all Thais
 
We did arrange a letter from her employer indicating she had been given time off and was expect to return to work at the end of Dec
Also a letter from her landlord confirming there was a long term tenancy agreement in place that she was committed too.  
 
 
As a sponsor I am responsible for any costs she may incur while in NZ such as medical expenses,(witch included a $9 k maternity bond), accommodation, and potential deportation costs if she overstays or breaks the conditions of a visitor visa. 
The maternity bond is not paid up front but I think I`m safe on that one !!!

Good luck on all of this, and thanks for sharing your story with us!

Have you given any thought as to how you are going to keep her occupied (other than the obvious ) during the visit?

You didn't say how long she was staying, but you can only do so much touristy stuff. Plus, if it goes well and turns out to be an indefinite stay, keeping her mind engaged and helping her adjust to New Zealand could be a real challenge.

I have a story that I might share in another thread about a Korean girl that I let shack up with me a couple of years ago, and I can tell you to expect some mood swings and frustration to enter into the equation at some point. My situation was very different than yours, but from the aspect of having a person in your life and house from another culture, there are some similarities.

In addition, her being a ladyboy might even add to feelings of isolation; even if there is a Thai community in your city, would she be able to mix with it, and have a few friends outside the home?

Sending her to school to take English lessons is an obvious thing you can do, but that probably isn't enough.

Not trying to be Mr. Negative here, but any cross-cultural relationship has challenges, and they are only exacerbated when one person is having trouble adapting to living in a new country.

If I remember correctly, you mentioned that you were considering moving to Thailand at some point, right?

That might make the prospect of living with her long-term easier in some regards, as I think that Thais don't do that well being cut off from their family and network of friends.

Then again, as I said earlier in the thread I am a cynic on relationships and romantic love. Plus, I have a tendency to over-think simplistic matters.

So filter my advice accordingly.

[Hard News]

Totally surprised !!

 

Visitor Application submitted on the Thursday....reply on the Monday....We have made our decision your passport is available for collection.

No phones calls....questions or follow ups with 3rd parties !  I thought the worst ...has to be a straight forward decline.

 

But no to my astonishment the standard 3 month visitors visa is there in her passport. (All verified by online tracking)

 

Now the big challenge....How do I entertain her for 4 weeks in New Zealand ?? Will she want to stay or return further in the future ?

 

How will my family and friends react ??  A lot challenges ahead of me come November 27th !!!

[Spyder Rocket]

Good luck @Hard News!

Big step introducing her to family and friends, hope it goes well for you.

[Surin Nix]

Please keep us informed HN. Congratulations!

There are a few ladyboys i've fantasized about bringing to the US, buying her some leather chaps and taking her on a motorcycle trip through the pacific northwest of the US.

Whatever you two do in NZ, enjoy....it's a unique opportunity.

Looking forward to hearing more.

[Hard News]

I never replied about her visit. I don`t know why ??

 

Just seemed different to being with her in Thailand. More like a normal GG relationship when she was here !!

Trouble is the age difference in NZ was more of a problem than the gender thing....Where you get away with it in Thailand, middle age gents with younger girls is more noticeable in the west !

We argued and disagreed.....both fighting for or own space.....hey like any normal relationship !!

Met my sister....went well....no questions asked....introduced as a girl and passed with flying colours

Took her everywhere...Queenstown...Rotorua ...Coromandel....Bay of Islands....just tried to do to much

But an experience I will never regret

She also had a ball and can`t wait to get back

 

Being an honorable gentlemen, and a sucker for a pretty face, she is on her way back in 3 weeks.......this time for 2 months

 

Trouble is .....it has put my travels to Thailand on hold.....for the time being

[wardmoob]

more fiber. 

[Hard News]

Sorry no fiber to report !!....

That is the reason for the late response ! No lewd sex...no pounding in nature......just a vacation as you would have with your girlfriend 

Afternoon tea with the sister......long drives.......lots of walks......and to many museums !!!

Nothing that would get the BM`s sitting on the edge of their seats !!

Sometimes an abnormal selection of lifestyle is just normal !! 

Boomdraw ......I hope u understand ?

[wardmoob]

once u take a thai out of Thailand u realize how unrefined and unpolished your thai girl is, once u realize this you soon realize how youll simply be dealing with a lb turning into a ladyman or a girl into a woman or gay man with a uterus as I call them merely decades later then your sister, auntie and mother did in the first world with all the lack of charm that that entails and how tiresome educating a old child is even though at first it was so serene and jovial,,, wereas Einstein said the reason why he was able to think so well was due to his retarded childhood, once he snapped out of it he said he had childlike enthusiasm with adult like focus,, the thais ,, bless there dim candle power are no einsteins, though they have memories like elephants its their elephant like gait speed that im speaking off....on the path to say sober reality of the global village not issan.

 

 

by fiber I mean u need to take a nice dump, one from days of eating tons of ruffage like salads, it wil take all the gas pressure of your mind and youll be able to realize that taking a thai to farangland is pointless

 

 

there is no age gap problems, the new norm is old men and young girls and older girls with young yet to be successful guys that need something to train on, were in a time of enabled boys, and bitter hard working 7s who used to be the sweeter girls cuase they needed to be who now are just gay men with uterus's, spent ones.

[rxpharm]

You are making a huge generalization that is wrong. A number of Thai lbs are well educated with university degrees and are not simple country girls as you are implying. These lbs would be fine traveling out of Thailand - and there are a number who have already settled in Australia, UK, US, Canada, and European countries.

 

The lb Hard News has sponsored to visit could well be one of these.

[Spyder Rocket]

once u take a thai out of Thailand u realize how unrefined and unpolished your thai girl is, once u realize this you soon realize how youll simply be dealing with a lb turning into a ladyman or a girl into a woman or gay man with a uterus as I call them merely decades later then your sister, auntie and mother did in the first world with all the lack of charm that that entails and how tiresome educating a old child is even though at first it was so serene and jovial,,, wereas Einstein said the reason why he was able to think so well was due to his retarded childhood, once he snapped out of it he said he had childlike enthusiasm with adult like focus,, the thais ,, bless there dim candle power are no einsteins, though they have memories like elephants its their elephant like gait speed that im speaking off....on the path to say sober reality of the global village not issan.
 
 
by fiber I mean u need to take a nice dump, one from days of eating tons of ruffage like salads, it wil take all the gas pressure of your mind and youll be able to realize that taking a thai to farangland is pointless
 
 
there is no age gap problems, the new norm is old men and young girls and older girls with young yet to be successful guys that need something to train on, were in a time of enabled boys, and bitter hard working 7s who used to be the sweeter girls cuase they needed to be who now are just gay men with uterus's, spent ones.

Could you please try a little harder to make a coherent point?

You might be thinking that your analogies about Einstein, elephants, fiber, and salads are humorous. They aren't funny because your use of the English language is so poor.

Stick to making simple comments and don't attempt to make complex analogies and jokes until you improve your writing skills.

[wardmoob]

rocket you simply cant grasp it, perhaps your not alone but with your spiddy eight legs id of thought you could keep pace with a rant that is to be read on the fly, not reflected upon and analyzed and caught in the web of your double gut.

 

 ''rxpharm'''    and yes theres many lb's with degree's, if you mean high school diploman's im nor more happy then when they graduate 8th grade void of confidence that their of the age of legality that is spoken of with such an accomplishment in life, but if u mean uni degree's then there too old for me by that time and its irrelevant to me that they have become some form of a professional clerk.

 

keep Thailand in Thailand, and while there be thankful your not thai'd down, the news may be hard buts its meant for Hard News-

[jaybee111]

Anybody else get the impression boomdraw has returned?