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#133 pacman

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Posted 13 August 2012 - 09:36 AM

Jarhead, there is some excellent advice in the Newbie Zone where many questions have been asked & answered. Oftentimes you'll find answers to questions where you didn't know there was even a question.

I have been thinking about responding to you but hesitated as this is in the middle of Flexxy's trip report & there are differing views about hi-jacking another's thread. Not that that ever stopped me before... :D

If a Mod wants to move this conversation over to a dedicated thread, you can ask all the questions you want. Don't expect a consensus with the answers because there never is one answer. Our individual experiences are like that line from Forest Gump - "life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get".

One thing that raises warning bells from your posts is you mention meeting a Filipina LB & then thinking out loud about her joining you in Thailand for some mutual fucking with local LBs. From your perspective that must seem perfectly reasonable, they are all in the sex business & they are all sexual athletes who will do anything for money. Right?

Umm, wrong! It is unlikely that this could ever go well. There are just too many potential obstacles which would cost you a king's ransom to smooth over. And if you imagine that this will give you the ultimate sexual experience, that too is a vision that is not supported by the reality. I must add that anything is possible & I would not stop you from giving this a go if you really hit it off with her. But forewarned is forearmed.

Better I mention something now than have you waste a holiday & a lot of cash chasing a utopian dream of what you have been missing. This girl Ice may be able to get through the language & culture barrier & be a sexual magician able to conjure up a great time for you... possible but not likely. And the demands on you for cash to keep everyone happy, it just goes on & on.

And you should also know that at least one of the girls will be happy to be part of a threesome, while you are busy with the other one, all the more easy it is for her to steal from you. Not saying they will all do that but ask how many guys here have had that happen.

I'm guessing you met Ice online, there are 1000's of them online every day hoping to meet someone like you. And she won't want to let you out of her sight because she will see you as a big fish she has landed. Many of the good PI girls are let down by the bad ones & if she is a gold digger, you will face a lot of pressure for money. But some of the good girls are marvellous & you might get lucky.

It would be too bad if you find there is no chemistry between you, go & visit her by all means but have an escape plan ready. You can then decide how long you want to hang around. And I know some PI girls have visited Thailand but I would suggest that this idea is worse than taking coals to Nescastle. Or Ice to the Arctic.

In the end, it is all up to you. You know the saying about fools & their money & no one here is suggesting you fall into that category but your enthusiasm may be blinding you to the dangers. Good luck with whatever you do, it is your holiday & your money, we would all like to see you happy.

#134 Jarhead1

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Posted 13 August 2012 - 04:47 PM

Pacman,

I already nixed the idea. I will be going by myself. I agree too many potential pitfalls. As if I needed another.

My apologies for the possibility of "hijacking" a thread.

Semper Fi

Hal



Jarhead, there is some excellent advice in the Newbie Zone where many questions have been asked & answered. Oftentimes you'll find answers to questions where you didn't know there was even a question.

I have been thinking about responding to you but hesitated as this is in the middle of Flexxy's trip report & there are differing views about hi-jacking another's thread. Not that that ever stopped me before... :D

If a Mod wants to move this conversation over to a dedicated thread, you can ask all the questions you want. Don't expect a consensus with the answers because there never is one answer. Our individual experiences are like that line from Forest Gump - "life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get".

One thing that raises warning bells from your posts is you mention meeting a Filipina LB & then thinking out loud about her joining you in Thailand for some mutual fucking with local LBs. From your perspective that must seem perfectly reasonable, they are all in the sex business & they are all sexual athletes who will do anything for money. Right?

Umm, wrong! It is unlikely that this could ever go well. There are just too many potential obstacles which would cost you a king's ransom to smooth over. And if you imagine that this will give you the ultimate sexual experience, that too is a vision that is not supported by the reality. I must add that anything is possible & I would not stop you from giving this a go if you really hit it off with her. But forewarned is forearmed.

Better I mention something now than have you waste a holiday & a lot of cash chasing a utopian dream of what you have been missing. This girl Ice may be able to get through the language & culture barrier & be a sexual magician able to conjure up a great time for you... possible but not likely. And the demands on you for cash to keep everyone happy, it just goes on & on.

And you should also know that at least one of the girls will be happy to be part of a threesome, while you are busy with the other one, all the more easy it is for her to steal from you. Not saying they will all do that but ask how many guys here have had that happen.

I'm guessing you met Ice online, there are 1000's of them online every day hoping to meet someone like you. And she won't want to let you out of her sight because she will see you as a big fish she has landed. Many of the good PI girls are let down by the bad ones & if she is a gold digger, you will face a lot of pressure for money. But some of the good girls are marvellous & you might get lucky.

It would be too bad if you find there is no chemistry between you, go & visit her by all means but have an escape plan ready. You can then decide how long you want to hang around. And I know some PI girls have visited Thailand but I would suggest that this idea is worse than taking coals to Nescastle. Or Ice to the Arctic.

In the end, it is all up to you. You know the saying about fools & their money & no one here is suggesting you fall into that category but your enthusiasm may be blinding you to the dangers. Good luck with whatever you do, it is your holiday & your money, we would all like to see you happy.






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