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[Thailand-junkie]

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[kliome]

TJ is right.

with the age thing, it isn't really a factor, to put it pluntly, the girls are working and will take a big pay day over a pretty face, but that's not to say things will be business like at all. you very very rarely see people rejected because of age or looks, it's more likely a bad or rude attitude that gets the cold shoulder.
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Pardon the cliches but as you say, you're not getting any younger and now is the perfect time for the reasons you have mentioned, you won't regret it, I'd bet on quite the opposite reaction. You'd probably regret not giving it a go. We only live once - that was the last cliche I promise..

A vast majority of the girls on this site work in 4 of the bars in Nana plaza, so if you've been around the pay site looking at the pics you'll recognise so many of the faces when you get there, and most of them look as good, if not better, in the flesh.

It sounds like you're still a little nervous about the whole experience. I would just book a flight, get your hotel reserved and then arrange to meet a few guys off here. I should be around BKK in January, I know a few other nice guys are in town then too. Nothing beats a few cold beers and a pep talk before entering into the flashing lights on Nana plaza. You'll have the night of your life and be sitting in big dogs the next day with a cold beer in one hand, looking at your watch, waiting for it to all start again

[Surin Nix]

Hello Jaybee,

Welcome to the forum. Your questions and concerns are familiar to almost all of us here. You have come to the right place.

I wrote my first post here about 2 years ago. In that post, I expressed several of your concerns since all my experiences, prior to my first LB encounter, had been strictly hetero. (I am in my early 50's, btw). All I knew, is that I'd discovered an attraction that was quite surprising.

When I surrendered to the urge and found myself in LOS, ladyboy in my lap (and later in my bed), something happened which was at the same time intruiging, disturbing, and exciting. I wondered what it all meant, and surprisingly, found a good bit of understanding on this site.

You've obviously been reading up here on the forum. That is a great start.

Each person is unique, and experiences this life in his own way. I tend to take things more quietly and slowly, and there are others here who are true Vikings - capable of multiple conquests each and every day.

Why don't you tell us a little about what you are looking for in a ladyboy experience. Do you desire multiple shag-sessions with a great variety? Do you think you'd like to get acquainted with a LB on a personal level and have a girlfriend-experience (GFE)? Are you unsure?

With that, perhaps we might be able to offer advice which is better suited to your desires.

Again, welcome to the forum.

Nix

[dixon cox]

I figure I will either find out that this is not for me or that it is and possibly become a regular visitor to LOS.

That's exactly the right attitude to take. Nothing ventured, nothing gained

I'm glad I found this Forum and posted here.

So are we.. and welcome!

I'm sure you've read many threads here, including the Q&A's, but feel free to ask any other questions or discuss anything that's on your mind regarding your trip.

[kliome]

Just thinking back to my first experience with a TS. I was quite young at the time, about 19 I think, but still having very similar thoughts to you, going through all the same worries.

It took me a while to push myself and my first experience wasn't mind blowing, it was OK, I remember it being very weird seeing another cock let alone touching it, and all the sights and smells of being intimate with the third sex wasn't easy to get used to at the time, I walked away a bit unsure having mixed feelings. But once it sank in I had absolutely no regrets and my curiosity only grew further, eventually becoming an obsession.

Given that my first experiences were with huge Amazonian Latino shemales who liked to party hard and weren't the kind you could take home to mum, the first time I went to Thailand my secret sexual obsession changed completely, and suddenly I found myself with genuinely the most beautiful looking feminine people I'd ever met, and quite the opposite to my first experiences, I found myself really letting go sexually and having amazing fun in the bedroom, mind blowing stuff, but also enjoying hanging around actively in the scene, going out with the girls and hanging around with likeminded guys in the bars.

Saying that, more times than not now I crave a 'quiet night in with an Amazonian', but thats another story which I don't think you are ready to hear yet

FWIW if you've come this far and are thinking about it enough to join a forum and post the question, it's not going to go away and act on it, and there's nothing worse than looking back on a time and regretting NOT doing something.. Damn, I think that's another cliche.

[badpress]

Jaybee, welcome to the forum young sir. We are a decent,friendly bunch in here and I hope we can help you on your new and exciting journey. I concur with the comments others have made before me, and will add just one thing. Go ahead, make the trip to Thailand and give in to your urges.The worst thing that happen is that you discover maybe ladyboys aren't your thing. No harm done - there are plenty of GG girls about to ensure your trip was not a waste of time.

[patrick]

Welcome Jaybee, you've come to the right place, in fact forums like LB-69 are a great way of easing into the "dark side". Some good ideas from some solid guys above.
I'm 59, but can pass for 58 in low light My first LB experience was only about 6 years ago, so your never to old to start and there is no time like the present, so:
Get on the internet today, find yourself a good air fare, check the forum for suitable accommodation, consider spending some of your time in Pattaya, organise to meet up with Kliome. that's it, don't over analyse don't have a to do list, don't pine for an internet LB, no need you will be blown away by the choices available.
Good luck and keep us posted.

[Macman]

Welcome, Jaybee. Believe me when I tell you that you can't go wrong listening to the advice these guys have just given you. As Surin Nix says, we are all different. Until I entered into a relationship with a ladyboy here in SE Asia, I had only had experiences with TS prostitutes in NYC. You've been fantasizing about the 3rd sex for a while now, and so had I before I had my first experience. If you're anything like me, your first time will be one of the most amazing orgasms you've ever had. Don't worry about going the whole 9 yards for now. I had my first encounter about 25 years ago, have been in a serious relationship for over a year now, but I have yet to be topped, and most likely never will. I'm strictly a top myself, but as most of the board members have pointed out, there's plenty of room for all tastes. The smartest thing that you said was

I figure I will either find out that this is not for me or that it is and possibly become a regular visitor to LOS.

Take the plunge, buddy.

[larrylarry]

- there are plenty of GG girls about to ensure your trip was not a waste of time.

Spot on badpress-
this is a no presure situation, this is you having a good time. If the LB thing is not your thing there are loads of GGs there. You can just go to LB bars to check out the scene if your not groving it step out the GG are right next door. If you decide on a LB and take her back to your loom you don't have to do anything you don't feel comfortable with, in fact you don't have to do anything at all with her...thats the beauty of the p4p scene you get to write the script. Set your own pace. No matter what your fancy you can find it in LOS.

Read the forum, plan your trip and get ready for the time of your life.

Oh and BTW welcome to forum

[redrock]

Hi jaybee11, reading about your concerns takes me back. The fellas are giving you great advice - I wish I'd had it.

You luck, kucky man. I wish I'd never done it so I could start all over again. Treat it like an adventure. You've got some good times ahead - maybe a few weird ones too.