Posted 16 November 2011 - 05:04 AM
I's agree that Cebu is well worth a visit as I've spent a few months there in the last year and you have so many options, the girls are very friendly (and speak very passable English ). If you choose you can get a lot of it for free ( well if you don't count the cost of dinner and drinks ) but I'd recommend being up front and paying for it or giving them more than they would ever need for a taxi home when you want some time to yourself later. The main thing is to be be upfront as word gets around pretty quick ( it's not a massive scene there so most of the girls known each other one way or another ) and they do understand but quite a lot of the girls are looking for a way out, be that a real boyfriend who helps them out from time to time ( not a sponsor ) or a sponsor. One thing I will say about Filipino ladyboys or what ever label you want to use for them is that they're generally not as calculating as their Thail counterparts and so don't lead them on. Be honest and it will pay off big time, you'll still have a lot of fun but you won't burn any bridges and you will get introduced to a lot of their friends. That my friends for a monger like myself is gold....
Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato