Cocktails & Dreams Nov '09 - Nov '10
#4753
Posted 10 June 2010 - 06:59 PM
#4754
Posted 10 June 2010 - 07:36 PM
Actually,Pentire, it's a subject i feel very strongly about, and i agree with you 100% (yes really! Lol). Therefore i am quite happy to discuss it here, although if somebody wants to move it, that's fine by me.
I hate it when guys get hooked up with one gal. Yes, its fine in the short term, as if she has any sense she will get her man into the bar repeatedly, and stayed rooted there. But in the longer term, i know one day its going to end in tears. I then lose a valuable customer, and don't get to see somebody who has become a friend.
There's a big party coming up on the 3rd of july and there are at least 2 guys, who i consider as friends, who won't be coming because of broken relationships. Instead of having fun while they're here and then leaving the relationship at the airport, they've stayed in touch via Skype, sms, or whatever, and had the usual promises extracted out of them. When the guys break the promises, or butterfly - boom! the relationship turns sour.
I hate to think how much business Ae, for instance, has cost me. And i'm also deprived, as i said before, from hooking up with guys i think of as friends.
Just be totally honest: tell them you are a butterfly. I have a lovely relationship with Nok in Pattaya, who says i'm a very bad man, with a big smile, because she knows i want to shag around before i get to her. She's not stupid - she knows if she cuts up rough about it, i won't see her at all.
Just keep it as fun - don't go making like a big boyfriend. And best to leave it at the airport, as Pentire says.
wise words indeed Jimbo and Pentire
and thanks for saying them
cheer plea
#4755
Posted 10 June 2010 - 09:33 PM
Unfortunately when you're a newbie the bright lights are dazzling and the LB's are right there in front of your hooter....all the ones you've dreamed of (and tugged over!)....
So despite all you've read....despite wise words from friends/bar-owners/ladyboys who know better........you still fall that wee bit in Lub.......
Don't worry about the scarred and bitten friends...they'll be back...... ;-)
Yes mate...Nok is a belter..!
#4756
Posted 11 June 2010 - 12:03 AM
And don't forget the ones that stop coming to your bar because of a failed relationship AND stop talking to anyone else who spends time with the "ex".....
She's a bargirl ffs.....
"Cause if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it"
#4757
Posted 11 June 2010 - 01:39 AM
#4759
Posted 11 June 2010 - 02:06 AM
Cheers
Mardhi
#4760
Posted 11 June 2010 - 04:07 AM
#4761
Posted 11 June 2010 - 07:27 AM
#4762
Posted 11 June 2010 - 07:35 AM
#4764
Posted 11 June 2010 - 12:08 PM
We're only half-way through the year.Is that a ring through yer nose.....?
... but already there is a hot favourite for the annual prize of "King of the One-Liner" :|
I could never dream of taking your crown away...
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