I've read about her emotional trappings and getting attached and although that may be a weakness in this biz, i largely blame the BM who may lead her that way then end up dissing her for another.
Personally before spending a second night with her I told her I had a girlfriend and didn't want another. I liked her and wanted to be with her and others while on my holiday. After 5 days total I told her I was going out alone and no tears, no anger, and in her words no problem. I saw her at work 2 nights later working for a barfine while I was with a colleague of hers and felt no guilt as.
Right. Bit lop-sided story on
Aum there Boardhog IMHO. V.good to hear you had a positive experience. Here is yet another perspective based on 3 encounters with
Aum.
I had a polar opposite experience. On the first night I met her I told her explicitly it being my first trip I was not in any way looking for GF, taking up on Jimbo's rules of play (as described on his site). She still decided to mention the GF thing too many times IMHO, on that same night.
Did say I would possibly spend more time with her, yes ofc, mainly out of courtesy. In my world a 'maybe' is not synonumous with a 'yes,' and definately not a lead on. After she 'dropped in' unexpectedly on a quiet night in, which turned out not so quiet, where I literally walked into a v.emotional situation with her, I decided against spending more time with her. This is P4P not a soap opera. Cant do anything else but agree with TheDeno.
Week or so later I met up with her as she had invited me to the Soi Croc beauty contest. That night nothing happened, we just chatted, me bearing in mind the occurance described above. Told her to leave my hotel, told her I had to go see about a girl. She reacted cool. Really, you can be as honest as possible without being blunt, people still give there own swing to things. Again, this is a P4P setting with, in my noob experience, lots of empty, meaningless flirts and words.
Right, that was my
Aum experience. Will she be an asset to a bar? I prolly wouldn't hire her no. Then again, I dont know enough about her nor her history to make that call. Sorry to hear Aim is on the streets. Wonder what was the root cause.
P.s.: And about that dress Boarhog, bought especially for you... as mentioned on one of your photos ... here is what I experienced, after the Soi Croc beauty November last year, we dropped by her loom so she could take off the show dress, guess what dress she put on ...
^ Now thats funny!
