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[pog1701]

Thai GG's or LB's are super sexy. Married with 2.5 kids, mortgage 4*4 no thank you. Though I get the whole lonely angle, I will never marry a fat white Irish bird. I love the Asian build, skin tone and so dark eyes plus they never get as fat as their Irish counterparts (GG or LB).

I guess LB hunting for a while more, when do you think their is a cut off point any way? (I know how long is a that string again)

Guys you have no idea how many fat Irish birds exist marry no way never, never I tell you never.

[pog1701]

Excellent thread, OK not all farang birds are fat and ugly. Though somewhere along the line women thought they could carry on like guys. Drinking and smoking hence the weight, but their bodies can not take the same punishment as male bodies and then they expect you to treat them like royalty and marry them. No thank you.

Of course us guys go bald and have hair growing out of F**King everywhere.

Yes there are some good farang birds, though they do not even look in my direction anymore and the ones that do are fat, so you see I can not marry them.

[Legend]

the topic has took an intersting turn down the fat road, so allow me to elaborate.
when a fat person eats a whole box of biscuits in one sitting, it shows 2 things.
1- they are comfort eating, so therefore unhappy, and maybe slightly depressed.
2- they are greedy by nature.
GREED is the one quality i cant stand in any human.
but with fat people the greed is evident just by looking at the body size.
now your half decent fit sexy women, a few and far between, so can afford to be a bit more choosy about a male partner.
i.e does he have money?
another part of greed, but not evident at first.
the greed shows up when she constantly wants a more shoes, better car, bigger house, more exotic holidays etc........
so, most of us who have experienced this would prefer to keep it simple.
pay, play, leave.

[laptop]

I agree about the greed thing. I think it is one of the most disgusting things is a chick.

But Anthony can I ask you do you miss the companionship of a girlfirend or wife for the other 48 weeks of the year when you are not in thailand? How long can you live such a high % of your year just building up to your next trip?

Or will the ends justify the means and do you plan to live in LOS ful time some time in the future? I dont think i could hang on 25 years until i might have enough cash to retire. Hence marriage.

I am not personally attacking you. It would just be interesting to hear your thoughts.

Cheers,
Laptop

[Legend]

laptop, valid question.
maybe ive had a bad run, but in my eyes, if i was to take on a partner for long term, they have to enhance my life, same as would do to their,s. if they put limits on my life, im off.
got mates who cant do this, cant do that. thats not for me.
i dont do too bad in uk for a bit of rumpy pumpy, but i tend to back away after 2 nights, prefer to be single.
i dont miss companionship as ive got used to living alone.
i guess the bottom line is, some people cannot be on their own. they finish with a girl, and within a week they get another.
i dont NEED a partner, it would be a choice.

[laptop]

Fair answer. I guess that is where we differ. I probably enjoy getting to know a girl and building up a relationship. And i am obviously less comfortable being alone for long periods of time.

In fact even when I do go with lb's or gg's in LOS i tend to stay with them for a few days or return to them again. I have not done short times that many times.

[Legend]

i suppose its similar to when you meet a career women.
they wont let anything get in the way of their career, and some even pay male escorts to fuck them.
i wont let anyone get in the way of enjoying my life.
unless she,s an lb, six pack, good laugh........

[kliome]

I'm with Anthony. I don't want a partner in my life. I love the way my life is now..

All the money I earn is my own, I can do what I want, I never have to answer to anyone. I work freelance too which helps, but if I wake up and want to go to Barcelona for a few days or head back to LOS, or just want to go out with some friends in London, as long is it's within reason I can just go with the flow and do it.

When I go to LOS I can go wild, indulge in my fantasies and inhibitions, I socialise 24/7 and party HARD. I always return home wanting to work and get a few projects going, and I'm lucky in that I do a job I'm passionate about and when I get into something it can be 24/7 for a few weeks or more.

I go out occassionally when I'm home but I enjoy being alone most of this time, and going out with friends or meeting girls when the urge takes me, for the most I like to build it all up for the LOS or other trips and be a bit of a workaholic at home, socialise with other people in my field and get into new work.

I'm happier than most of my mates who are married or in serious relationships, and much much happier than the ones who are single but trying hard to find a partner. Some of my firneds are in a relationship and they are happy, and good for them, but a few who aren't happy think I'm lucky for being able to go away so much, when it has nothing to do with luck, some of them earn as much, if not more money than I do, they just have a partner, kids and /or a home.

Anthony nails it, the problem is a lot of people feel the NEED to be with someone, they just don't feel comfortable being alone. In essense MOST people feel this way and probably don't understand someone who prefers to be single.

I miss having a partner from time to time but it's usually just when I'm feeling bored and/or horny but I think the people I know who are partnered up miss their freedom more.

I know some people like to have a partner and swing etc.. but this just wouldn't do it for me, I can't think of a worse situation for me personally, it's like the worst of both worlds. If I started to feel differently and wanted to have a partner I'd look foward to the exclusivity and emotional attachment of the relationship, but I'm nowhere near wanting that right now. I luvs to party too much.

[tarado]

Stuart H - You have crystallized my thoughts on the subject. Well said.

regarding selfishness, which is a subject I have discussed with other single guys in my peer group - on the surface it may seem that following ones own desires and happiness is selfish.

I will refer to one of history's most quotable Irish men - Oscar Wilde:
"Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live."

Now, if I have responsibilities to others (wife and children) then spending time and money on chasing LBs in LOS would indeed be selfsih. But what if I am obligated to no one?

I think one of the highest capacities we have as unique humans - compared to the other mammals,..is that we can imagine and create a unique life, and then pursue it.

[tarado]

when it comes to the subject of being alone / lonely (not necessarily the same thing) for 48 weeks out of the year and living your fantasies for 3,..that is a valid point.

And, in my case, has been the price I have paid to live those fantasies. At times - over the last several years I have felt acute loneliness while patiently saving and waiting for the next Asian adventure.

I ask this "What worthwhile in your life is not without sacrafice, some pain and hard work? Delaying the instant gratification for a higher goal?"

At present I have a gf (born in Asia) who is 13 years younger than me. It is great and has indeed added happiness to my life. I enjoy cooking and every chef needs an appreciative audience. having a connection and regular sex is great.

However, I don't live with her. I am not in line to be the father of her babies. If push comes to shove and the ultimatum comes "marriage and kids or else!", I will opt for the freedom of the future.

My near future without the promise of those incredible trips is bleak and gray.

I will willingly trade a life of mundane comforts and sexual and spiritual frustration for those precious months every year where I am free and feel like I am living.

here is another quote for you, this time from Nietzsche
"the life is made of rarest moments of great intensity and many intervals. the greater part of the men, but not knowing the magical moments, ends with the living only the intervals."

I am willing to tolerate periods of personal loneliness / boredom for those moments of great intensity.

[philts]

Good to see all different views, just goes to prove that many people can like the same thing (LB's) but are different personalities.

Very much agree with comments made by PeterK.

When he said he feels guilty about cheating on his wife it's good that he does but at the same time occassional casual sex or paying fo sex is not "cheating" in my book.

Cheating is when you give your heart (love) to someone else, that should never be forgiven.

[Legend]

thats an interesting angle with regards to cheating.
so would it be ok if your wife payed me to give her one once a month?
or would she mind if she found out you have casual sex?

i was aware that one slip up and you are up the road, clothes in a bin liner back to your parents house.
while she decides if you get to see your kids on a saturday.