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#1 nah6969

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Posted 09 April 2022 - 04:10 AM

Well I'm new here and one of the reason why i m here is to know..is there any Indonesian ladyboys/trans that only looking for dating (not sex) / relationship?
Cuz as my short experience, mostly they are only available as doing prostitutes (sorry if it's so offensive) *dunno how to choose the right term lol

Thanks and pardon my English

#2 Escierto

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Posted 09 April 2022 - 06:46 AM

Why Indonesian? It is possible to have a long term relationship with a transgender woman. My Filipina girlfriend and I have been together for over three years. She works as a hairdresser. Here she is in her salon.Attached File  C936E5A1-6F53-4625-AC25-5D1AFD296CC8.jpeg   88.38KB   1 downloads

#3 kliome

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Posted 09 April 2022 - 12:22 PM

I am sure most Indonesian transgender people who work as prostitues do so as a means to earn a living, rather than a desire. It's an easy stereotype to make. It's more common for a trnas person in Aisa to be working as an escort due to having more limited career options, so you have to look past that and judge the person.

 

Your best bet is to go to a TS specific dating site, there are plenty around. My Ladyboy Date is one of the best globally, or ThaiFriendly in Thailand, and PinaLove in Philippines. There are several others, you have the options just need to put in the work.


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#4 nah6969

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Posted 09 April 2022 - 02:00 PM

Thx u so much for your answers and advices 😊 i really appreciate. But i just want to know and having relationship with local lady. Just simple as that.

I ve tried to using my ladyboydate aand there are some Indonesian but yea they only looking for "costumer". So now I'm trying to find local forum or group etc to find them. But still have no result yet

I'm also using thaifriendly and pinalove but they're not Indonesian.

So maybe do you have any information about any sites or online group about it.
Thanks 😊

#5 Escierto

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Posted 09 April 2022 - 07:56 PM

You can also try Tinder and Grindr to find some local girls. My girlfriend used to use Tinder and one of her employees uses Grindr. Are there any local Indonesian dating sites? You might find one there.

#6 kliome

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Posted 10 April 2022 - 10:18 PM

You can also try Tinder and Grindr to find some local girls. My girlfriend used to use Tinder and one of her employees uses Grindr. Are there any local Indonesian dating sites? You might find one there.

 

That's a good call. Grindr is usually a good shout for meeting TS.  A lot of trans fans don't give it a try. Although there is a filter for 'trans' in the app, it's best to also search without the filter, as a lot of peopel don't fill this out on their profile.


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#7 Escierto

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Posted 10 April 2022 - 10:53 PM

That's a good call. Grindr is usually a good shout for meeting TS. A lot of trans fans don't give it a try. Although there is a filter for 'trans' in the app, it's best to also search without the filter, as a lot of peopel don't fill this out on their profile.


True. A lot of trans like to slide under the radar but they are there if you look for them especially on Tinder.

#8 rick78

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Posted 11 April 2022 - 04:20 AM

Wechat could be an option as well. I have met some nice ladyboys in Indonesia via that. Use the "people nearby" function. Some are professionels and others just want to meet foreigners



#9 P&G

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Posted 22 April 2022 - 03:09 AM

I found a few warias in Twitter. You will also find Indonesian transgenders in dateinasia.com (free dating site) . 

 

If you are sincere in having a relationship, you might interest someone. Be carefull though. I don't know about warias but in many Asian countries, "having a relationship"  means sending a ladyboy on a regular basis. If you stop "helping" or sponsoring your friend, then they take it as a decision to end the relationship. 


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#10 Kurtzkafka

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Posted 29 April 2022 - 01:42 PM

I second trying wechat and tinder. It is good for all cities. Jakarta. Java in general and Bali are swimming with lbs who are much less jaded compared to their Thai and Pina counterparts.
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