Ok ....about 7 years ago developed an interest in LB. Not sure whether its the slutty, aggressive, sexy raunchy style that most have but it gets me going. The trouble is the prelims are good but when it comes to the backdoor stuff it seems to go a bit pear shaped and I usually loose my erection etc.
Had about 12 or so encounters but nothing memorable.
Now I have had lots of sex in my life with straight girls and I think my skills are pretty good but any suggestions ??? For some reason missionary seems more acceptable for me and doggie ( esp first up) seems "unnatural" if you know what I mean.
Also the time it takes to loosen up the sphincter and issues with getting it in ( no I'm not that big) seems to spoil the moment.
My thinking is it is either psychological or I just need to spend more time with the loosening up procedure with fingers, toys, lube etc
Anyone had issues like this and solutions or advice.