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#1 LifeIsBlue

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Posted 09 October 2017 - 04:13 AM

Hi,

 

I have been to thailand twaice before but never been with a ladyboy. This november I will be visiting Thailand with my wife for about 10 days. I always had this fantasy of threesome, specially with a ladyboy. I am planning to fulfill it this time. 

 

We neither had threesome before nor I ever talked about this fantasy with my wife. So I am a total newbie in this aspect. 

 

It will be very helpful if anyone can share their experience or give me some suggestions for how to go about it.

 

Thanks in advance guys.

 

Cheers...



#2 Spyder Rocket

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Posted 09 October 2017 - 11:05 AM

Sounds like your first step is to talk to your wife.

You know about her personality, not us.

Do you think you have a shot of getting her onboard with the idea?

You could try getting her drunk and aroused at a ladyboy bar and see how far it goes, or you could bring up the topic when she is sober.

Frankly, I recommend using booze as way to get her to lower her inhibitions.

Every time I've got a genetic female to do something sexually adventurous, alcohol was involved.

Don't you drink too much though, you want to stay fairly sober so you can manipulate the situation in your favor.
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#3 LifeIsBlue

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Posted 09 October 2017 - 11:00 PM

I think getting her onboard with just plain talking is not going to work. Even if the idea triggers a secret desire in her, I think, she will not confess it or respond to it.

 

Let me give you some idea about us so that you can get a better picture. We’ve known each other for 3 years and been married for 2 years now. Initially she was super possessive about my ex (who was a model). Things are better now as I have stopped all communication with my ex (and her friends). Our sex life is, I’d call “just average” so far. Our sexual adventure will top out with sex in the car and on the beach a couple of times and some anal play. She is not much into partying nor into alcohol. She has a low alcohol tolerance and I’ve never seen her to take the third tequila shot. I pushed her once and she threw up and got sick and went straight to bed.

 

So those were the bad news. Now some good news. She has quite a fair amount of sex drive. During sex, she craves more than 2-3 orgasms and often complains me being quick. Recently, she even took the initiative to buy Cialis and condoms that delay ejaculation to experiment with. These are good signs right? I feel that she has kink inside her and with little help it can bloom.

 

She may not enjoy partying much. But last time when we were in Thailand for honeymoon, with some bit of encouragement from me, I found she enjoys dressing showy and sexy in public and loved the attention from other men. Though she didn’t get flirty with any of them (even when I carefully encouraged). But I could tell, she got horny and kinky whenever I teased her with something like, “Look at that man baby, he is eating you up with his eyes. I’m sure right now he is imagining you in the bed pushing his thing hard into you.” We laughed about it a bit and then I said, “Lets play him and make him even hornier”. Then I squeezed her ass cheek and pulled her short dress up to flash her panty for a moment. Ofcourse she said “stop it” laughingly, but I knew she was getting horny.  In occasions, I encouraged her, "Baby he is loathing at you, go dance and flirt a bit on the dance floor (to play the guy I said :)). She never did. But she didn’t get mad either. She would jokingly say “O, you want me to flirt with him so that you can flirt with the girls around right? Not going to happen”. I think she is too shy and a bit insecure about me but has her kink inside. Well, I worked with the insecurity for last couple of years and its much better now.

 

She loves Thailand and she thinks it’s the sexiest country in the world. I can tell for sure that she can let go of her worries, open up and feel sexy in Thailand like no other place in the world. Last time we spent most of our time in Phuket and a few days in Bangkok for shopping. The good news is, it was her who pick Thailand again for vacation. So I’m guessing she is secretly fantasizing to get showy and sexy and kinky, hopefully. From the moment we decided, I can’t get the idea of ladyboy and threesome out of my head. I think this the best shot I’ll have in a few years.

 

Okay… hope now you have a fair bit of idea about what the situation is! Few facts I thought about:

 

-        I don’t think openly taking to her about the idea will not work. I think it will work best if she finds it just happened on the heat of the moment.

-        From past casual conversations, I know she has a little bit of curiosity about ladyboys (may not be sexually). I need to somehow amplify that.

-        I totally agree with you about alcohol. I gotta make her little tipsy before even I suggest something. I also thought about suggesting her to experiment on one of those sex pill kinda stuff that supposedly make people horny. (I saw in the streets of Bangkok but not sure if those actually work).

-        I have two main challenges. First one… picking the right ladyboy. She must be focusing on my wife, not me. A good pick will make everything easy. If the ladyboy can make my wife comfortable and aroused, 50% job is done. I wish I could pre-arrange and discuss the plan with the ladyboy. It could work.

-        The next challenge is take the ladyboy upto our room. I am still not sure about how I’d approach her on that. “Lets take her to our room and lets fuck her” is the last thing I want to say to my wife. Few ideas that crossed my mind are like, “Lets take her to our room and get u a erotic massage and I'll watch” or “Let me ask her if she can give a private strip tease dance for you in our room.” But again the challenge is if I fail to pick the right ladyboy, her reply might be a buzzkill and can ruin everything.

-        Last but not the least, first experience will be the most crucial to lay the foundation for any future adventures. Say everything goes fine and the we are in our room all naked playing. I need to ensure she gets a good kinky mind blowing sexual experience from the participation of the third member. Again a dependency on the third member.

-        Another idea is to take the pick to beach or swimming pool. My wife loves wearing bikini (she almost never gets to wear bikini where we live). I noticed she gets all giggly and sexy specially when she is getting some stares from around. This one time we were on the beach (bamboo island if I can recall correctly). She walked away some distance and when she was coming back, a black dude was hitting on her complementing on her figure and bikini. He walked beside her and was using lines I guess. This is the only time I saw her getting little flirty and blushy. I saw the dudes swinging hand was touching her hand and ass check casually a number of times and she was allowing it pretending not to notice. She was rather shy and melty with the smooth talks and complements she was getting. I later teased her on this and she was all giggly and said ya the guy was hot and smooth. So yes, I think a beach or swimming pool setting could work very well. Once again the challenge is it needs active participation and pursuit of the third member, which I’ll have no control over.

 

Wow, I wrote a lot. I guess this reflects my desperation… :D. Anywayz… any input or suggestions will be very very helpful for me. I’ll admit that I am a bit nervous alongside with all the excitement. :)

 

Cheers…



#4 Spyder Rocket

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Posted 10 October 2017 - 01:01 PM

Trying to set favorable conditions for a threesome with an unknowing spouse is a tall order.

Try taking her to a ladyboy caberet while in Thailand.

It might provide you the opportunity to bring up the subject of your desires and attractions in an unforced way.

Have a couple of Long Island Iced Teas at the show and then go to a bar with ladyboys. Incrementally escalate the situation from there.

If you do your homework, you can find a ladyboy who is into fucking couples.

When it comes down to it, this is about you being unfulfilled in someway. You shouldn't be afraid of talking about that with your wife.
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