First off welcome to the world of ladyboys, you will now have access to the hottest and horniest back pussies on the planet. Girls so Playboy hot you would never have a shot at if they were a genetic woman.
I find your questions a bit amusing but I get why guys do the P4P thing because "You don't pay a whore to fuck you, you pay her to leave." But for me I find it very silly to spend thousands of baht or whatever currency to fuck one of these dolls when you can just take them on a date have a great night out and GFE.
You don't have to look for whores to fuck a ladyboy. Just look on dating sites.
Every ladyboy believes she is a woman and as a woman they want love. They don't want to be seen as whore or a sex object. Because many men treat them that way, that's your advantage to not be like all the rest. But if you just want sex I would say to be upfront about not wanting a relationship.
Because of this, many are on dating sites to genuinely find a man brave enough to love them publicly and not make them feel ashamed for who they are. They are very insecure and need validation for their genetic desire to be a real woman, because of that insecurity they are also tend to be more jealous than a latina.
If you understand this simple concept then you can make any ladyboy putty in your hands and your bitch for the night. Just make her feel special and tell her she is a real girl. Hold her hand and kiss her in public, just like you would a real woman.
Some will tell you they don't want to meet for fun and some will say they are down to just have fun. Usually the younger they are the easier it is to get them in bed. Young girls don't feel the pressure to find a man like the 30 year old LB does. But the older ladyboy is seasoned, knows the game and will usually take what she can get in terms of companionship.
I think in 6 years of dating ladyboys only 2 have not let me fuck the first time we met. One of those girls became an escort shortly after. I was pissed cause she was so fucking hot and innocent but she would not let me bang her. I never managed to get a her alone again but we had a hot make out session at the mall before she went to work. Damn she was a good kisser, you always remember the ones who got away. Its been few years and I bet she is stone cold bitch now.
If you meet a ladyboy online and she agrees to meet you in your room, you will be having sex with her. That is just a given.
So why chase hookers? The risk of STD is much higher dating transexuals in general. Even more so fucking hookers. And why pay when you can get that pussy for free (besides the date cost). I have had many many LB girls just show up to my room after a quick chat, fuck me then leave without a dime spent.
I had a Pinay LB GF for 3 years and I can tell you its just as hard to keep them happy as a real woman, maybe even harder. The insecurity and jealousy thing is a big issue. Its very hard for them to find a man willing to love them openly and they really fear losing you to another ladyboy or you just fucking around.
That said I know a few guys who say they are happy in their relationship with their ladyboy but they also have the same complaints and relationship problems and there also the cultural differences you must get past.
Like Spyder, I agree with staying away from a relationships because you can just fuck hot ladyboys to your until hearts content and have no drama. But there is that basic human desire for true love that we all have to fight.