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  1. Thai ladyboys Vs Filipina ladyboys

    Both are attractive in their own way and both are incredibly affordable countries with large ladyboy populations, and while you can find ladyboys in many parts of Asia, and Southeast Asia in particular, nowhere seems to have as many transsexuals as Thailand and the Philippines.

    While Thailand and the Philippines do have similarly large ladyboy populations these two Asian countries are in fact quite different, and you’ll find some noticeable differences in the kind of ladyboys and culture you’ll experience in each. This is not to say that one is better but depending on who you are, what you like, and what you are looking for, you may find your prefer one over the other.

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    Physical attraction

    When it comes to physical attraction and femininity the Thai ladyboys arguably have the edge. This is not to say that the Thai ladyboys are naturally more beautiful than their Filipina sisters, but the Thai ladyboys certainly have easier and cheaper access to hormone treatment with many taking hormone pills from a pre-pubescent age. Hormone treatment in the Philippines is definitely improving but it’s still too expensive and inaccessible for many Filipina ladyboys; very few get to start taking hormones in their early teens.

    Thailand is well known for its cosmetic surgery and specialist transgender surgeons, with transgendered persons traveling to Thailand’s famous clinics from around the world. While implants and transgender surgery is not cheap, Thai ladyboys have access to some of the best surgeons in Asia and are given heavily discounted costs. The Philippines on the other hand is not known for its quality transgender surgeons. Filipina ladyboys who want to have surgery often travel to Thailand to get it done which comes at great expense, with many Filipina ladyboys never able to realize their dreams of having breast implants , SRS, or even small cosmetic enhancements.

    A high percentage of the Thai ladyboy community will take hormones from a very young age and by their late teens many will have surgical enhancements and even breast implants. As a result, Thai ladyboys tend to look very naturally feminine from a young age and develop a very accomplished female look, with many visitors to Thailand realizing that the most attractive women in the country are ladyboys!

    Filipina ladyboys do have their own look and attraction. Through a history of Spanish colonialism and more modern American and European migration, Filipina ladyboys do tend to have unique look and some exotic Asian/Western mixes, which some people find incredibly attractive.

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    Culture and attitude

    Despite being two Southeast Asian countries Thailand and the Philippines have very different cultures.
    Thailand is by far a more exotic culture to Westerners built around strong Buddhist traditions and beliefs. While its exoticism can be incredibly attractive for tourists it can also be somewhat alienating for non-Thais looking to build a life within Thailand or grow a relationship with a Thai.

    European roots are very evident in the Philippines; it is a culture built strongly around Catholicism and Western values. The vast majority of Filipinos speak near perfect English and are brought up on Western culture, having a preference for Western music, movies, and even cuisine.

    Ladyboys are a big part of Thai culture and have been for some time. While ladyboys are not accepted as total equals they are most definitely tolerated and have a role to play in Thai communities. Thai ladyboys can achieve important roles and careers, and can even become national icons. Thailand’s ladyboy cabaret shows are not only among the biggest tourist attractions in the country but they are also treasured by the locals and ladyboy shows and pageants play a major role in community celebrations and national events.

    While ladyboys are predominant in Filipino society they are somewhat less accepted than their Thai counterparts. Finding a place in Filipino communities as a ladyboy is a much harder task and one that discourages many ladyboys from going through with their gender transitions, with many ladyboys choosing to take on a more androgynous look and style. Ladyboys are not as well celebrated in Filipino culture, and while there is a culture of ladyboy cabaret shows and pageants in the Philippines, they are often seen more for their comical and entertainment value rather than a celebration of beauty and transition.

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    Dating a Thai ladyboy

    Dating a Thai ladyboy is not exactly admired and celebrated but it’s certainly not a taboo and you can quite easily walk hand in hand through the mall with your Thai ladyboy date without drawing stares. It’s also not difficult to meet Thai ladyboys, you’ll find them in every major and minor city and resort in Thailand, and there are several good dating sites where you’ll find many Thai ladyboys active.

    READ: The best online ladyboy dating sites

    While you can find ladyboys of all ages, looks, and social levels one problem many guys find when looking for a ladyboy date is that many are working as escorts or looking for a partner to support them financially. While this is certainly not the case of all ladyboys in Thailand, it is an issue for those looking to start a lasting relationship.

    READ: Dating a ladyboy sex worker

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    Dating a Filipina ladyboys

    It’s a little less easy to meet Filipina ladyboys in person, that’s not to say they are hidden, you’ll find them everywhere in Filipino society, but it’s not quite as easy as in Thailand where a high percentage of the county’s ladyboy flock to the major resorts and tourist hotspots. If you want to look for Filipina ladyboys then you should spend a lot of your time searching online where you’ll find a plethora of dating sites and Filipina ladyboys looking for love.

    In the Philippines you will find many of the same issues as with the Thai ladyboys. Many Filipina ladyboys are looking for a Western boyfriend to support them financially and ultimately change their life (and the life of their family). There are less Filipina ladyboys working directly as prostitutes and much less of a ladyboy bar scene, but you will find far more Filipina ladyboys working on cam sites and active on dating sites.

    While it is a little harder to meet Filipina ladyboys it’s arguably easier to build a lasting relationship. As already noted, Filipina ladyboys speak excellent English and are literally raised on Western culture. Dating a ladyboy in the Philippines is generally more of a taboo than in Thailand, and while that will make it a little harder to be open about your relationship it often helps relationships build a stronger bond.

    Ultimately these are generalizations and while to the most part they are true, it all comes down to the individuals you meet. The only way to really know where your future date or lovers lie is to get out there and experience it for yourself.

    Written by: Moo Yung

    For the dating ladyboys in Thailand we recommend joining Thai Friendly which has hundreds of Thai ladyboys listed.

    For dating ladyboys globally we recommend joining My Ladyboy Date which has attractive ladyboys in many Asian and Western countries.

    • Jan 12 2016 01:51 AM
    • by Moo Yung
  2. Your first ladyboy encounter

    You have a feeling inside that you may be attracted to ladyboys; you have searched and searched on the internet looking at photos and videos, reading trip reports and stories from those who have met them in the flesh, and you have even found and joined a forum which discuss in vivid detail what it’s like to be with a ladyboy. You don’t quite feel part of that community, more an outsider peeking in with curiosity, you have concerns and doubts about whether this is ‘right’ or ‘normal’, which is perfectly OK, of course, and yet despite those strong moments of doubt, denial, and repression, something inside causes you to keep coming back for more..

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    Confronting your attraction

    Whether your curiosity stems from seeing beautiful ladyboys in the flesh or a snowballing fascination that started with clicking on one too many porn categories, if those urges and feelings won’t go away it’s something you may be battling for some time, ultimately leaving you having to explore your feelings and sexuality, or making serious efforts to ignore and repress your emotions.. OK maybe that’s a bit dramatic, but there are choices to be made as to how far you are willing to go with this.
    I’ve always gone by the belief that you should regret the things you never try, but never the things you try and didn’t like, and while many curious ladyboy lovers try to ignore urges towards ladyboys because of existing relationships, or a genuine fear of breaking a taboo and being looked at differently by their family, friends, peers, or colleagues, for those more adventurous, or those finding it too hard ignoring their attraction, there are plenty of ways to meet a ladyboy and have that first real experience.

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    Finding that first ladyboy.

    Once you’ve come to terms with the fact you are obsessed with ladyboys then why not meet one? Of course there are Asian ladyboys all over the world, and you may even be able to find one right in the city where you live, but you might not feel quite comfortable enough yet to explore this new attraction so close to home..

    Alternatively you may want to head out to a big city, one of the big European capitals like London or Paris, where you should be able to find a few Asian ladyboys in the backpage ads or escort directories. However this will end up being a very expensive night and a typically rushed experience, that’s not the way you want this adventure to begin.

    If you are single and have enough time and money for a small (or long) vacation, the most obvious option is to be courageous and head to Asia, and perhaps more specifically, Thailand, and meet those amazing ladyboys in the land where they are plentiful..

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    Why Thailand?

    Thailand, by far, has the largest number of available ladyboys and they are very easy to find. There is a large bar scene, as well as several social media and dating websites where you’ll find them in number. ThaiFriendly.com and MyLadyboyDate are all great places to start, and they have available ladyboys in virtually every city in the Thailand (even several in Europe and beyond), you can even lineup dates before you arrive.

    There are also hundreds of available “freelancers” who would be happy to help you enjoy your first experience with a ladyboy; many of them enjoy meeting with a newbie and will treat you accordingly to make you comfortable and relaxed for your first time. Or if you really need a discreet and professional service, why not try an escort service such as www.ladyboysbangkok.com, where you can make special requests and plan you meetings in the finest detail.

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    What to expect

    First of all, there is no reason to be nervous. Thai ladyboys are usually very friendly and aim to please, and will generally treat you well. Escorts and prostitution services are looked at in a far more accepting way than in the west, and experiences with bar girls and escorts are generally an unrushed and friendly experience, as well as being much cheaper.

    Most ladyboys are incredibly feminine, they look, act, and smell like a woman. Once you are alone in your room with a ladyboy, behind closed doors, you will then have the freedom to finally go with your true desires and explore her body and your sexual desires. It is likely to be an incredibly enlightening experience.

    The odds are that if you are reading this article you are already attracted to ladyboys, even if you have yet to act on your urges. Most people who has been with a ladyboy were once in the exact same position you are in right now, and after building up the courage to make that first move they have never looked back. You are now in the same boat, so take that all-important first step and welcome to the club!

    So how was your first experience with a ladyboy? We'd love to hear your stories!

    Written by: Moo Yung

    If you want to meet ladyboys online we suggest joining Thai Friendly to find ladyboy based in Thailand, or My Ladyboy Date, for ladyboys located around the world.

    • Jan 12 2016 01:54 AM
    • by Moo Yung