what would you do after know you have lost the most important person in your life?
Help.....What can I do ?
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, Oct 05 2010 07:02 PM
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Nick Bullseye
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Posted 05 October 2010 - 07:04 PM
Mourne three days, then try to get over it.
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Posted 05 October 2010 - 10:22 PM
Mmm...depends on the circumstances and situation...
If they have died then thats so sad to contemplate... and I 'm sure we all have been there once..
If it's relationship issues then once again we have all certainly been there....and we will get over it.
Some things are just never meant to be...thats the way it is...
If they have died then thats so sad to contemplate... and I 'm sure we all have been there once..
If it's relationship issues then once again we have all certainly been there....and we will get over it.
Some things are just never meant to be...thats the way it is...
"My advice is just thank the god that doesnt exist for the rib he didnt take to create the women thats not a women that he didnt make for the naturaly uncut cock n enjoy it, they sure are fun." - Boomdraw
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Posted 05 October 2010 - 10:53 PM
Cherish what I had..........move on.
If it fails to inflate....blow into this tube.
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Posted 05 October 2010 - 11:12 PM
get a haircut, shave your chest , and get back on the horse.
there is no sailing off into the sunset in this game.
there is no sailing off into the sunset in this game.
"im sure if u look around u can find a sunken face under caloried 10 year vet tranny bar girl, her face might not be as uniquely sunken or her ass dents so dented but just have a look, life is full of options." - boomdraw.
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Posted 06 October 2010 - 12:16 AM
Backup, as we don't know anything surrounding the circumstances of your loss, advice given can only be limited. You may not want to divulge details surrounding your relationship and we respect that maye.
So in trying to answer your question, I would have to say that losing the one how meant everything to you is difficult. Many of us have been there and some more often than others. We can empathise with you for sure. It will be hard at first to get your head round the situation and you'll try beat yourself up over if it was your fault, could you have done things differently etc.....
The bottom line is that relationships fail for numerous reasons but in Thailand the relationship is under constant strain if you live far apart and only see each other once, twice perhaps per year.
It will be difficult and at times seem utterly desolute, but as others have attested previously, when you feel the time is right for you to move on just get back over to a different part of LOS from where you normally go or where there is less chance of bumping into your ex. Remember initially why you came to LOS and try to have fun again.
That's really all I can say mate.. Take it easy and keep yer chins up
So in trying to answer your question, I would have to say that losing the one how meant everything to you is difficult. Many of us have been there and some more often than others. We can empathise with you for sure. It will be hard at first to get your head round the situation and you'll try beat yourself up over if it was your fault, could you have done things differently etc.....
The bottom line is that relationships fail for numerous reasons but in Thailand the relationship is under constant strain if you live far apart and only see each other once, twice perhaps per year.
It will be difficult and at times seem utterly desolute, but as others have attested previously, when you feel the time is right for you to move on just get back over to a different part of LOS from where you normally go or where there is less chance of bumping into your ex. Remember initially why you came to LOS and try to have fun again.
That's really all I can say mate.. Take it easy and keep yer chins up
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Posted 06 October 2010 - 01:17 AM
Depends how you lost them, if they died then thats different if they cheated then fuck em, if you cheated then accept you were stupid, not sure...
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Posted 06 October 2010 - 02:14 AM
thank you very much to all of you 
i wish i can tell you more but i dont how to strat and is might not right
by the way am verry na i just feel abit down today as he will never die from my heart
goodnight
backup
i wish i can tell you more but i dont how to strat and is might not right by the way am verry na i just feel abit down today as he will never die from my heart
goodnight
backup
life ang lb
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Posted 06 October 2010 - 02:41 AM
You take it easy...good luck for you...do not worry about it...
"My advice is just thank the god that doesnt exist for the rib he didnt take to create the women thats not a women that he didnt make for the naturaly uncut cock n enjoy it, they sure are fun." - Boomdraw
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Posted 06 October 2010 - 03:28 AM
100% of us experience loss, so know that you are not alone in this.
It would be nice in times like these to somehow fast-forward to a point where the sting is gone and you feel normal again. Time, however, and the simple understanding that accepting loss and change is healthy, has helped me a great deal.
A physical scar on the body, long-healed after the injury, serves as a reminder of what happened, but eventually that's all it is, and the scar itself does not hurt anymore. I kind of find emotional pain like that. The scar is the memory, you won't forget, but neither will you hurt.
It would be nice in times like these to somehow fast-forward to a point where the sting is gone and you feel normal again. Time, however, and the simple understanding that accepting loss and change is healthy, has helped me a great deal.
A physical scar on the body, long-healed after the injury, serves as a reminder of what happened, but eventually that's all it is, and the scar itself does not hurt anymore. I kind of find emotional pain like that. The scar is the memory, you won't forget, but neither will you hurt.
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Posted 06 October 2010 - 05:33 AM
what would you do after know you have lost the most important person in your life?
I would always keep a special place in my heart for them and remember the good times. Once a year I would drink to their memory.
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Posted 10 October 2010 - 02:02 AM
At 11.15 am I lost my pet cockatiel that I have had for 15 years. Im devastated as I always thought he would be there each day. I know he was only a pet. But he was a great companion. Del Boy RIP
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