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[hankhavelock]

My fact is that I miss Liza a lot - she taught me so much and I want her back! I've never been a socalled "punter" - I may be "Mr. Ladyboy" and have had my fun, but how I miss Liza.

She is now way up north and all I want is to be with her and her family. Liza was always the kindest woman to me in Bkk - she was the kindest woman period. Luckily I already live in Asia, and luckily I can accommodate her. Liza has quite a story and so to I... we make a fairly good mix... I miss Liza so much... I could tell you guys stories, which I will spare you from, but my Liza is my Liza - and she HATED being in Jakarta... too "dangerous..." :-)

Liza is fabulous! And she is MINE!
 
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[Surin Nix]

I, for one, would like to hear some of those stories Hank.

You've been gone for a very long time. Good to see you back. Please tell us about Liza.

[hankhavelock]

I, for one, would like to hear some of those stories Hank.

You've been gone for a very long time. Good to see you back. Please tell us about Liza.

You are too kind, Surin.

Well, I have always had sort of an idea to write my entire "life story" from my socalled "Mr. Ladyboy" perspective. I think I have some unique things to share (as do many others here on this good forum, obviously), and I believe that what binds us together here is a search for true happiness.

 

It all started for me in earnest about ten years ago when I moved to Jakarta and let myself "enroll" into the realms of transsexuality, and I am glad I did. Most of my closest friends today are transwomen, and I embarked on a journey of sexuality and gender identity that has been amazing. My respect for trans-women is limitless.

 

I guess you can say, that I have become wiser. In the beginning I was vane and cocky and looked down of anything regarding prostitution - but I think I slowly wisened up and started to grasp the entirety of what seems to be going on. I learned to respect where I before neglected.

It's a long and to me very personal story. Maybe I shall share it - in due time.

 

Thank you!

 

Hank

[goodenough]

I agree she is a special one Liza. Never meet her in person though but chatted with her many many times. Well, that is until she got sour and refused to talk anymore  . From what you write I take it that you are not with her? 

 

Anyway, best luck to you! 

[hankhavelock]

Liza was on the surface very tuff and quick to write off ppl - I assume that is a rather natural consequence of what she used to do for a living - on the other hand, Liza was a tremendously kind (I wouldn't say romantic, though) woman, but always with a keen eye to "when she would get screwed the bad way".

 

I guess I cannot blame her for that - and I believe it is the natural reaction in this field, if you work as an escort, you build some kind of natural protection against men.

 

And in the end we didn't have time enuff - she has been here (she hated Jakarta) and I have visited her several times. But we parted ways. I never knew why.

 

Liza was (and still is, I'm certain) a very REAL and honest person - beneath her sorta tuff attitude Liza had emotions as well as a very high IQ. We had something VERY special going on, and in the end, I just drifted on.

 

My mistake.

 

And Liza is far from the only one - I have been worse than most when it comes to trans-women. But Liza remains in my mind as the one I TRULY miss. I could just come to her place, and everything was so simple. And then I just moved on - stupid as I am.

 

So think TWICE, gentlemen, if you are fortunate enuff. I didn't show respect - I behaved as an ass. And I fooled my self the most.

 

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[hankhavelock]

The truth is, that to me this was a playground - and I went right for their heart... and I usually got it... and then just threw it away.

 

I should have listened to wiser ppl here on this good forum - my behavior was not right.

 

I remember when my sweet Keke here in Jkt (now deceased) got angry with me and called me "yes, Mr. Ladyboy...". That started me thinking - as I don't come here as a tourist twice a year - I actually live here. Keke got angry with me, and she was right. I took things too lightly. I was just "Mr. Ladyboy", and that was NOT meant in a kind way... she tried to tell me the truth.

 

So guys, trans-women are HIGHLY vulnerable - go as punters for the escorts, that is fair, but DON*T do what I did - fooling nice ladies. That was my mistake, and I have for sure learned from it. My victims are many and innocent. My mistake. Not proud.

 

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(Getting started on my history-telling here :-)

[hankhavelock]

So, enuff self-purging shit - what am I doing to right my wrongs! Well, I'm currently living with a trans-woman (usual story, she is in love, I ain't) here in Jkt., and I'm forcing her through college. She is currently pursuing her masters degree in psychology, and I wup her behind to ensure that she gets it.

 

She will without a doubt (already is, actually) become one of the most knowledgeable ppl regarding trans-life-reality here in Asia (and as such, perhaps globally), and the knowledge that she will get can help trans-ppl here to improve their life in the face of the adversity that they meet every day.

 

It is time that transsexuals move on from being prostitutes to actually making a difference in society. Will it be easy? Hardly, but unless we all give a helping and loyal hand, then what can they do?

 

So that is what I do.

 

Tranny pover for ever!

 

I love transsexuality SO much - I find it the most HONEST way of self expression!

 

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