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[pattman69]

Gidday Mongers,

 

My names pattman69 & I,m very much a newbie. I, have been in the shadows for sometime reading & trying as to take in the wisdom & various opinions contained in this forum. .

 

I am new not just to the forum but to ladyboys.  All my life I have been into GG,s & on previous visits to Thailand largely regarded LBs as a caricature of GGs

 

Before you jump on me much to my surprise in the last couple of years I have found for reasons hard to comprehend I have become very attracted to them. If I view porn these days inevitably this is where it leads. I have not shared this with anyone as my friends have expressed their disdain for LB,s in the past. Maybe this only runs skin deep but I’m not yet about to ‘out” myself.

 

Does anyone here who preference is for GG’s find that GG’s attitude/ reaction towards them change once they know you also have a ladyboy fetish? Do they treat you differently, are they less likely to go with you or does it still come down to money no1?

 

Excellent forum. Pleased to be part of things

[Moo Yung]

Great first post, you're in the right place and in good company.

 

I'm sure your story sounds familiar to a lot of guys here. From my experience a lot of girls (in Thailand at least) won't be overjoyed to hear that you also like ladyboys, although most of this is genuinely down to jealousy. A lot of the most beautiful girls you see in Thailand are ladyboys, everyone knows it, the straightest, most homophobic guy in Thailand knows it, and the girls definitely know it.

 

I'd also estimate that the vast majority of guys who like ladyboys here also very much like girls, in fact I'd guess as much as 95% still chase after a pretty girl. Most people here are attracted to the feminine figure, perhaps so much so that they seek a kind of feminine perfection that can only be found (and available to experience) in ladyboys.  

[boomdraw]

sadfas

[pattman69]

Thanks for your insights both Moo & Boomdraw (I think...  ) Anyway I have no plans to share my lust for the occasional ladyboy with any generic girl I happen to be with. 

 

Going on what I have read the biggest problem seems to be that Ladyboys are not very discreet so I will maybe use Bangkok to play up with them & have girls elsewhere. Otherwise I think word would get around whether I like it or not.

 

I am happy within myself that I have discovered the "Darkside" but am not ready yet to share it with others except of course you guys here who understand the appeal of these sublime creatures.

[Premier]

I've told a few girls about my ladyboy fetish and I don't think they think any less of me.  Their main reaction is one of curiosity.  I have a girlfriend I catch up with once or twice a year, we generally get blitzed and more often than not I stay over.  During a pillow talk session last year I mentioned the primary reason I visit Thailand is to fuck ladyboys, she thought this was hilarious and has since offered to introduce me to a Vietnamese ladyboy she knows at a local restaurant. 

When i told my sister about my lb fetish she barely batted an eyelid.

[Surin Nix]

Which GG's are you referring to? Thai gg's or non-Thai gg's?

When in the midst of Thai gg's, a simple mention of ladyboys will often evoke the question "you like ladeeboy?". I find that being an open LB admirer in Thailand does seem to create, among the gg's an almost universal response of wide eyed "...oooh, you like ladeeboy!" It is in that moment that I feel like "that guy", and sort of become a lower-tier prospect for the gg at hand.

I remember back in my gg-only days, sitting at Malibu bar on Phuket with a gg waitress. A guy stopped streetside and looked in on the crowd. She said to me "he like ladyboy". True to form, a ladyboy waitress/dancer came outside and he kissed her on the mouth. At the time, i was shocked a bit. 2 years later, i'm walking hand-in-hand with a ladyboy, and not thinking anything of it as we eat together in a restaurant and then go dancing.

Here in the US, how the gg's respond depends on the girl. Bible-belt southern girl? Forget it. I'm not saying a thing. My business, after all. I now have a latin gg girlfriend, who knows about my LB adventures (general, not specific knowlege. I don't need the steamy details of her life, pre-moi, and she doesn't need to know specifically the details of each encounter. For both of us, knowing about this aspect of my life has been a remarkable and welcome surprise).

Finally, i think most of us here consider ourselves straight, with the darkside aspect casting a bit of a grey hue on what we probably once thought was simple black and white. You are not alone in your interest, your concerns, or your background.

...and welcome to the forum!

[Legend]

"Going on what I have read the biggest problem seems to be that Ladyboys are not very discreet "

Absolutely true.
They will cat call across the street when you are with someone else , as well as tell anyone who will listen what you did .
And exaggerating how much you actually paid .

[batman4ever]

In Thailand i dont give a flying F... about what the GG`s think...the most of the GG`s i anyhow runs into are bloody prostitutes them self *LOL* and the few times iwe been asked why i like ladyboys i always reply its because they are so strong that they can carry me home when iam drunk

[jaybee111]

Well said batman!

[fredos99]

I understand and respect the "I dont give a fuck' view but not everyone is there yet...We are working on it

If you want to fly under the radar and do not want to do the walk of shame/fame with your lb and instead ask them to meet up with you at your hotel/or the st hotel and you go there individually. What is your view on how they look at that?

Do they get hurt if you dont want to be seen with them? Do you think it impacts the 'mood' in the room? Or the dont care?

I understand that it is individual but generally speaking.

[batman4ever]

I understand and respect the "I dont give a fuck' view but not everyone is there yet...We are working on it
If you want to fly under the radar and do not want to do the walk of shame/fame with your lb and instead ask them to meet up with you at your hotel/or the st hotel and you go there individually. What is your view on how they look at that?
Do they get hurt if you dont want to be seen with them? Do you think it impacts the 'mood' in the room? Or the dont care?
I understand that it is individual but generally speaking.

trust me theh dont get Hurt they are use to shy costumers,and sometimes they proberly wish all costumers did the same as they not Always find US hansume 5-5-5-5

[RobiSLO]

I want every bar girl to know I date ladyboys and every single time I go to GG bar and am aproached by some GG. Why... easy,  I let them know I'm into LBs and they would have to do more than just extra mile to be just close to what ladyboy can give. At first they think I'm weirdo but later I can normaly talk with them, they don't ask me for barfine or lady drinks, all in all I have great time with GGs without being pestered... Why hide you like ladyboys, it is Thailand where being with ladyboy is maybe even more acceptable than being with lady, at least for us farangs.