For the last few years I have been one of these people who has visited this forum and enjoyed reading holiday reports / articles on every thing about ladyboys.
I think as a forum goes, it is definitely the friendliest and I have laughed at the good sense of humour and banter.
I have always found ladyboys a turn on, but never done anything about it. I am married and thought I was happy, untill about 6 months ago. I woke up one morning and thought – I can carry on like I am, then when I’m on my death bed someone will say ‘ Is there anything you regret not doing ?’ I will say ‘no’ but think straight away ‘yes I never slept with a ladyboy’.
Something had to be done – I booked a TS escort for one of the highly priced London agencies. I had to know if it was just in my head or was the attraction to ladyboys for real.
I booked the escort for 2 hours !! Went round her flat, kissed and straight away knew it wasn’t in my mind. It just felt ‘right’, this is who I was. Spent the next 2 hours ‘sucking and fucking’, best sex I have ever had.
Problem now is I’m sleeping with a different one every month, can’t get enough of them, and you can imagine the money I’m getting through !!
Because I’m married I can’t just fly off to Thailand or find a ‘fuck partner’ on TS dating etc.
My question is – who else is in a position like mine ? Or do I just divorce the wife ?
Help it is doing my head in………….
Married but adicted to ladyboys
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zaney1
, May 21 2012 08:15 PM
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Posted 21 May 2012 - 08:43 PM
Take the Mrs on a trip to Thailand, book her in for the spa treatments etc...then get up to some serious ducking & diving. 
A swift visit round the usual haunts will furnish you with plenty of phone numbers and a quick 2 hours of afternoon delight can be had for a fraction of the price.
Good luck mate and welcome to the Forum you Ladyboy shagger you...
A swift visit round the usual haunts will furnish you with plenty of phone numbers and a quick 2 hours of afternoon delight can be had for a fraction of the price.
Good luck mate and welcome to the Forum you Ladyboy shagger you...
"My advice is just thank the god that doesnt exist for the rib he didnt take to create the women thats not a women that he didnt make for the naturaly uncut cock n enjoy it, they sure are fun." - Boomdraw
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Posted 21 May 2012 - 09:30 PM
when the wife finds out youve been sneaking behind her back and to suck cock ! you done ! you will be taken to the cleaners ! just break up and split what can be split before she finds out, that way your at least get something, No turning back now youve found something to scratch that itch !
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Posted 21 May 2012 - 11:30 PM
Depends how much you value your marriage, relations and kids etc.
I'd thought sexually about ladyboys in secret for ages but would never have dreamt of going any further until life took over and forced my hand.
Now happily divorced and getting on better with my ex than ever before I get to do the things I never thought I should or even could.
You have a lot to think about but going behind your wife's back will some day end in tears as this will impact on your current relationship without a shadow of a doubt.
Rest assured though there is nothing to beat being in your hotel in Pattaya snuggled up ball deep in a beautiful young ladyboy squeezing her tits, giving her a hand job and biting her fucking neck...yee-har! :twisted:
Sorry, sometimes I just can't help it...
I'd thought sexually about ladyboys in secret for ages but would never have dreamt of going any further until life took over and forced my hand.
Now happily divorced and getting on better with my ex than ever before I get to do the things I never thought I should or even could.
You have a lot to think about but going behind your wife's back will some day end in tears as this will impact on your current relationship without a shadow of a doubt.
Rest assured though there is nothing to beat being in your hotel in Pattaya snuggled up ball deep in a beautiful young ladyboy squeezing her tits, giving her a hand job and biting her fucking neck...yee-har! :twisted:
Sorry, sometimes I just can't help it...
"My advice is just thank the god that doesnt exist for the rib he didnt take to create the women thats not a women that he didnt make for the naturaly uncut cock n enjoy it, they sure are fun." - Boomdraw
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Posted 22 May 2012 - 12:43 AM
My advice.
start to squirell away your finances with your family , sell your house to your brother and fuck her right off.
she can stay in the house but pay rent to your bro.
life is for living man, you got to ask yourself are you living YOUR life, or the life you are expected to in order to keep others happy.
theres many a divorced bloke in thailand who wouldnt look back for one minute. they all say they should have done it earlier.
failing that, you will have to continue the sneaky life.
its not impossible if you meet a wingman from round your way and get your arse to wayout club and stunners.
start to squirell away your finances with your family , sell your house to your brother and fuck her right off.
she can stay in the house but pay rent to your bro.
life is for living man, you got to ask yourself are you living YOUR life, or the life you are expected to in order to keep others happy.
theres many a divorced bloke in thailand who wouldnt look back for one minute. they all say they should have done it earlier.
failing that, you will have to continue the sneaky life.
its not impossible if you meet a wingman from round your way and get your arse to wayout club and stunners.
"im sure if u look around u can find a sunken face under caloried 10 year vet tranny bar girl, her face might not be as uniquely sunken or her ass dents so dented but just have a look, life is full of options." - boomdraw.
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Posted 22 May 2012 - 01:00 AM
For the last few years I have been one of these people who has visited this forum and enjoyed reading holiday reports / articles on every thing about ladyboys.
I think as a forum goes, it is definitely the friendliest and I have laughed at the good sense of humour and banter.
I have always found ladyboys a turn on, but never done anything about it. I am married and thought I was happy, untill about 6 months ago. I woke up one morning and thought – I can carry on like I am, then when I’m on my death bed someone will say ‘ Is there anything you regret not doing ?’ I will say ‘no’ but think straight away ‘yes I never slept with a ladyboy’.
Something had to be done – I booked a TS escort for one of the highly priced London agencies. I had to know if it was just in my head or was the attraction to ladyboys for real.
I booked the escort for 2 hours !! Went round her flat, kissed and straight away knew it wasn’t in my mind. It just felt ‘right’, this is who I was. Spent the next 2 hours ‘sucking and fucking’, best sex I have ever had.
Problem now is I’m sleeping with a different one every month, can’t get enough of them, and you can imagine the money I’m getting through !!
Because I’m married I can’t just fly off to Thailand or find a ‘fuck partner’ on TS dating etc.
My question is – who else is in a position like mine ? Or do I just divorce the wife ?
Help it is doing my head in………….
This is odd
You are in a very similar situation to me and from your address in your post you live within walking distance of me in North London 
I have been knocking about with LB's since 2005 but I have been with the same Thai lady (now married) since 2006. Initially I felt very bad when doing anything with LB’s and my trips to Thailand didn’t involve too many infidelities. Recently I have thought fuck it life is too short and my last two trips I have been knee deep in ladyboy ass.
My advice is the ducking and diving. Without getting into soppy details I do love my wife and I value my time with her and I would never consider leaving her. I don’t regret getting married and I have no intention of telling her about my love for lb’s. There is no reason why you cant have both. Wife at home and lb’s as a pastime. Companionship is fantastic and for me that would never be an option with a ladyboy.
Could you ever sneak off to Thailand? I guess I am lucky as my wife is Thai so we are over there a couple of times a year (usually). As Ant said perhaps a night out in Wayout is in order?
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Posted 22 May 2012 - 06:47 PM
Thank you for ALL your comments /suggestions regarding this matter. I think taking the wife to Thailand and ‘ducking & diving’ is a sure fire way of getting caught – some sort of suicide mission !
Divorcing the wife seems to be the best way – we have no children, and in the last 6 months cracks have certainly appeared in the marriage. But you have to give her a reason, and I’m certainly not going to tell her the truth…
Untill then I will carry on sleeping with ladyboy escorts. I see the only way I’m going to get caught is if I catch an STD. This seems very unlikely, unless you can catch anything with OWO ?
Thanks Popeye for the tip, yes there seems to be a lot of ladyboy escorts in this side of town. You could have a different one every time, and it would take you years to get through them…
Thank you, it is just nice to be able to talk to someone regarding this matter……
Divorcing the wife seems to be the best way – we have no children, and in the last 6 months cracks have certainly appeared in the marriage. But you have to give her a reason, and I’m certainly not going to tell her the truth…
Untill then I will carry on sleeping with ladyboy escorts. I see the only way I’m going to get caught is if I catch an STD. This seems very unlikely, unless you can catch anything with OWO ?
Thanks Popeye for the tip, yes there seems to be a lot of ladyboy escorts in this side of town. You could have a different one every time, and it would take you years to get through them…
Thank you, it is just nice to be able to talk to someone regarding this matter……
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Posted 22 May 2012 - 08:34 PM
If your not happy and neither is she then things are not going to improve, are they?
Take it from someone who's been there (fucking twice!)...any serious money in the bank slowly draw out and stash...she'll be on it like a flash and clean you out otherwise.
Anything valuable that actually belongs to you quietly dispose of, this includes insurance policies etc.
Do not enter into arguments which can be construed as domestic abuse as this will get you turfed out of your house.
Try and enter into negotiations before the legal arseholes get involved...my last one cost the pair of us 25k in legal fees and she still ended up with exactly what I offered her in the first place!
Make sure she realises there are no third parties or otherwise involved...she'll be on your e-mails and the history on your PC so be careful!
If you have a flash motor get rid of it quick and pretend to squander the cash otherwise that will be considered as an asset.
To be fair on her she has done nothing to you, so be gentle but rest assured...once she twigs she's for the red card it'll be fucking brutal for you!
Your honour, I rest my case for the defence...
Take it from someone who's been there (fucking twice!)...any serious money in the bank slowly draw out and stash...she'll be on it like a flash and clean you out otherwise.
Anything valuable that actually belongs to you quietly dispose of, this includes insurance policies etc.
Do not enter into arguments which can be construed as domestic abuse as this will get you turfed out of your house.
Try and enter into negotiations before the legal arseholes get involved...my last one cost the pair of us 25k in legal fees and she still ended up with exactly what I offered her in the first place!
Make sure she realises there are no third parties or otherwise involved...she'll be on your e-mails and the history on your PC so be careful!
If you have a flash motor get rid of it quick and pretend to squander the cash otherwise that will be considered as an asset.
To be fair on her she has done nothing to you, so be gentle but rest assured...once she twigs she's for the red card it'll be fucking brutal for you!
Your honour, I rest my case for the defence...
"My advice is just thank the god that doesnt exist for the rib he didnt take to create the women thats not a women that he didnt make for the naturaly uncut cock n enjoy it, they sure are fun." - Boomdraw
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Posted 22 May 2012 - 10:26 PM
Well I am of a different opinion.
The main reason is "I am married and thought I was happy, untill about 6 months ago. "
6 months man. Think carefully is it the thrill of experiencing forbidden fruit?
"and in the last 6 months cracks have certainly appeared in the marriage." How odd that the cracks appear after your adventure.
In LOS you see alot of people who fall into that trap. They go to Thailand meet some GG or LB and decide to give up everything which usually involves burning alot of bridges.
My opinion, go slow and think carefully. Let the newness past before ditching the mrs.
The main reason is "I am married and thought I was happy, untill about 6 months ago. "
6 months man. Think carefully is it the thrill of experiencing forbidden fruit?
"and in the last 6 months cracks have certainly appeared in the marriage." How odd that the cracks appear after your adventure.
In LOS you see alot of people who fall into that trap. They go to Thailand meet some GG or LB and decide to give up everything which usually involves burning alot of bridges.
My opinion, go slow and think carefully. Let the newness past before ditching the mrs.
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Posted 22 May 2012 - 10:32 PM
Wise words indeed and worth taking into consideration because once you start there really is no going back. 
"My advice is just thank the god that doesnt exist for the rib he didnt take to create the women thats not a women that he didnt make for the naturaly uncut cock n enjoy it, they sure are fun." - Boomdraw
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