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#25 Surin Nix

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Posted 19 June 2012 - 08:07 AM

A couple of nights ago, i was sitting in Soi Crocodile, Phuket, with 4 other LB-admirers. 5 individuals from 4 different countries.

Each and every one of us had been married, and 3 of us have children.

Is there a ready solution for your dilemma?

Of course, only you can be the ultimate judge of that. ....and that's the tricky part, isn't it? You are wise to voice your concerns here, because there truly is a lot of experience on this matter amongst BM's.

Your responses have ranged from tongue-in-cheek "hire a hitman" to "consider, carefully what's truly important to you".

You have a history with your wife. Every relationship has "cracks", the natural outcome of a union of two imperfect people. Are they so serious? At this moment, I'm watching the waves of Tri-Trang beach roll in and out. It seems to me that the ups & downs, the moods, of long-term relationships, are like that. If the emotional tide is low right now, maybe just a little passing of time is all it will take for them to lift again, and you'll wonder what all the fuss was about.

Maybe not.

Remember, with rare few exceptions, life with a ladyboy is highly unlikely to be a fulfilling one in terms of emotional intimacy (though obsessions are certainly known to develop), intellectual comeraderie is rare. How much do you value these things? Sure, the sex is exotic and enjoyable......but for those of us who've been with beautiful women, both gg and lb, with whom there was nothing deeper than the physical, then we know the relationship grows stale quickly, despite their "hotness".

Like many of us, you've discovered an aspect about life, and about yourself, that has surprised you. There is such an exhileration to it all.

Pull the trigger (figuratively, Anthony), on your marriage, and it's finished. You have ultimate privilege in the matter, and it's a big decision. We only are getting a glimpse here of what's going on.....and are mostly seeing the ladyboy factor that's come into play. So, i'm sure there's so much more to your story.

Remember, the ladyboy factor is "Disneyland", for most of us. As we all eventually discover as children, nobody really gets to live in Disneyland.

......go easy. Patience.

....and thank you for sharing your story.
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#26 petesie

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Posted 19 June 2012 - 10:37 AM

Take her to thailand on a "make or break last effort".
then pay thai guy 500 baht to kill her.
problem solved. :D


in reality u might just wish u took this advice in say 5 months, its always nice to now that the money u save from hugwalks done properly can be spent on more important things like disappearnces.


Fucking hell...LB69 mafioso! :D
"My advice is just thank the god that doesnt exist for the rib he didnt take to create the women thats not a women that he didnt make for the naturaly uncut cock n enjoy it, they sure are fun." - Boomdraw

#27 petesie

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Posted 19 June 2012 - 10:51 AM

Fantastic measured response from Nix and indeed one to take heed of. 8)

I've pulled the proverbial trigger once and had it also pulled on me the second time. The first one took me 2 years to recover (mentally) and the next somewhat longer.

I now find that unusually myself and my ex's are friends...no acrimony, lingering malice or otherwise and we chat on a regular basis.

I tried the LB relationship scenario and also took note of the experiences of friends who tried this similar path.

These days I find it's nice to be nice then move on.

There's only one person who knows why your marriage has gone awry and that's you; what you decide to do from here on in is not only up to you but for the sake of your heart and mind be fair to the lady if she's done nothing to you. The longer term results reap far more benefits...trust me. 8)
"My advice is just thank the god that doesnt exist for the rib he didnt take to create the women thats not a women that he didnt make for the naturaly uncut cock n enjoy it, they sure are fun." - Boomdraw

#28 boomdraw

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Posted 20 June 2012 - 05:53 PM

best thing in life you can do is not get married and get over your jealousy of your women being occasionaly with other men. for me its a hygeine thing but thats it and ive come to peace with it. If you want some other cock go ahead, its kind of hot and if the girl gets sick then she gets the boot, but jealousy because i mentally molested some piglet into bed in one day with 7 dollars and it took you dinners n dates n phone convo etc, boom doest care one eye odda, easy come easy go and in my country there is 150 million gay men with uterus's who before they turn 23 are actually alot of fun to fuck n chuck..

you sound fucked im afraid sir, your in trouble and your going to thailand? im sure her litigation team is loving that. shit if she was smart she'd land in thailand the day after u did or hire a private eye to tape you, i would def drop 5 grand on a stalker trip to the tropics to get some massagues an a free house. :harhar:

#29 FRONT242

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Posted 20 June 2012 - 11:41 PM

Surin Nix's post is bang on in my opinion and even bommdraw is correct in his statements.
Im just wondering how you got caught. Hopef it was not a subconcious wanting to get caught and getting caught scenerio.

#30 johnnyenglish

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Posted 13 July 2012 - 01:48 AM

Wow another interesting post. First ask yourself why you got married anyway. Fooled by the tender trap. Now the big dilemma. Should I stay or should I go.

For me as a single man it is all easy. Can butterfly as much as I want. No crap about stepmothers and godfathers. Free as a bird. So my first reply is why many members got married in the first way. So stupid. Especially with a lily from the west.

To my surprise one member claims to be married with a Thai lady. Still maintaining his ladyboy habit. I can understand. Only THai ladies never do. It is all about chemistry there. And a little losing one's face. Chemistry between ladies and ladyboys is rare and when it happens precious. But in most cases it won't end with precious memories. You might lose something far more precious.End up as post operate. You pay dearly.

Don't get me wrong. If you want to have it all why not. Like in the song where the singer claims we want the world and we want it now. In the end he got a heart attack ended in a bathroom. Sad but true. It is up to you. I don't have to make a choice for you. In a way I am glad not having to decide. Maybe a small text from the buddha might comfort you

Many people asked the buddha why a bird got eaten by a cat. It sounded so unfair to the people around the buddha. Well his answer might help you. He replied why the bird was there. He could have known when he saw the cat. But the bird did not. So the bird ended up on the catwalk.
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