i donno if this is the right forum but can someone help me

well letsseeem, while sev7en and MarquisDeSade march along in the gay pride parade, you just go ahead and do what you like and don't bother with whatever someone else wants to label you. If they think of themselves as gay, well, then maybe they are and there's nothing wrong with that. But unless you are turned on by Brad Pitt, dream of big bodybuilder-types in leather or have Village People posters on your walls at home, I wouldn't worry about having to "come out". Anyway, since your experience so far has been with GG's and unless you have completely lost interest in them, then you are, by definition, not gay. A gay person is exclusively (operative word) interested in his/her own sex. As mentioned earlier, you are bi-sexual at most (but hey, think of all the extra options you then have). My advice; go ahead and enjoy what you want, be it LB's or GG's, and to hell with what other people think about it.
(This was just a long-winded way of saying what Tpe69 posted while I was typing this).

Obviously as usual a very sensitive matter, eh?
If the OP doesn´t have a problem with gays (or being gay) why would he even state that he isn´t gay in the first place?
Thanks for proving my point.

Thanks for proving my point.

"I'm afraid so." doesn't really convey much of a point, does it?

Lets not start the bunfight boys :wink:

As Popeye says...................I yam wot I yam...............

Yuk Yuk..............

you know the "gay" question crops up quite regular.
all the newbies will say they aint gay but.......
and fellas like myself and sev7en who have been in this for a few years have come to realise the bottom line.
you can dress it up all you like, but we all engage in gay sex .
what we are attracted to might not be what usual "gay" guys are attacted to.
but we are not straight.
period.

and you cant beat a gay pride event for bringing the ladyboys out the woodwork :wink:

This topic ranks as the single most boring and tedious that could possibly exist.

you know the "gay" question crops up quite regular.
all the newbies will say they aint gay but.......
and fellas like myself and sev7en who have been in this for a few years have come to realise the bottom line.
you can dress it up all you like, but we all engage in gay sex .
what we are attracted to might not be what usual "gay" guys are attacted to.
but we are not straight.
period.

and you cant beat a gay pride event for bringing the ladyboys out the woodwork :wink:

I agree

all the newbies will say they aint gay but.......
and fellas like myself and sev7en who have been in this for a few years

I hope the 'newbies' remark wasn't directed at me (amongst others). You would be dead wrong to assume that merely because someone just joined this forum recently, that they are automatically newbies. I've lived in LOS for well over 10 years, and got into LB's - albeit 'on the side' - more than a few years ago.

but we are not straight.
period.

Correct, but also irrelevant. 'Not straight' does not equal gay. Period as well.

And with that I retire from this topic. I would hate to cause Dixon any further tedium.

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This topic ranks as the single most boring and tedious that could possibly exist.

Ditto :idea:

Correct, but also irrelevant. 'Not straight' does not equal gay. Period as well.

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irrelevant.?
sorry mate, but i dont know straight guys that suck cock and get fucked up the arse.
deny it to yourself all you want.
but dont try making out we are queer and you are not.

its only newbies that bring up the gay question.
the rest of us dont have to, and are bored with it.

This topic ranks as the single most boring and tedious that could possibly exist.

Completely agree.

I cringe when I see this topic being discussed, yet again.

I understand it's an issue for the creator of this thread, but once you make your decisions, experiment and gain sexual experience, labels become less and less relevant to your daily life and identity.

Correct, but also irrelevant. 'Not straight' does not equal gay. Period as well.

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irrelevant.?
sorry mate, but i dont know straight guys that suck cock and get fucked up the arse.
deny it to yourself all you want.
but dont try making out we are queer and you are not.

its only newbies that bring up the gay question.
the rest of us dont have to, and are bored with it.

I agree..... if newbies are so worried about the gay question.. then dont even bother to venture to the dark side..... as for me i enjoy both the GGs and the Ladyboys.....