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[nevi70]

Hello

I have seen pictures of Brazil shemales and some of them look really gorgeous, they're grown up women very developped with huge sticks, while the ladyboy look more like little girls with small breasts and tiny cocks.

I have never had any sex with ladyboy or transexual, so I'd like to know some things. I have heard that ladyboy (the Asian transexual) is very different from other transexuals and that the sex is different.

I sometimes think that doing it with a developped big "woman" would be more exciting than an Asian ladyboy to be chosen as the first time, but I don't know.

Can you explain this?

[koykaeng]

There are a number of things to consider with regards to the differences between ladyboys and the Brazilian transexuals.

Firstly in general terms the Brazilians have much larger body frames, & many are particularly well equipped in the dick department. When it comes to breast enhancement they tend to select much larger implants, although this relates back to their frame size. There are still plenty of ladyboys that are well equipped in the dick department and have chosen sizabe breast implants, however in relative terms the Brazilian certainly are much larger in all these areas.

Personally I believe the ladyboys are much more convincing "females" given the relatively small frame size that asians tend to possess.

Culturally the Brazilians are much more open about their sexuality, and despite what you may perceive about the ladyboys in the adult entertainment arena, the Thai's in general are much more reserved and restrained in terms of expressing their sexuality.
The Brazilian transexuals are taught to be much more open about expressing their sexuality. Many of the Brazilian transexuals are much more agressive sexually, and enjoy nothing more than finding a guy that they can drill !

With regard to what would be more suitable for your own first time experience, its very much a personal thing. Only you can decide what it is that excites you, but remember that your fantasy and the reality can be two very different scenarios.

Not sure if you are just a dreamer or are really contemplating a ladyboy/transexual experience ?

Cheers
Koykaeng

[Juliana_Dominguez]

ladyboys is the term that you call to the asian transsexuals on this part of the world... thai, filipino, malaysian, vietnamese, indonesian etc. etc.

i personally would like to would like to be called a transsexual, transgendered or a tgirl because i find the word ladyboy somewhat offensive... like the word, shemale, wherein that's what girls are labeled who work in the porn industry...

[koykaeng]

Hi Juliana,

Welcome to the forum !

Always appreciate getting some comments from a beautiful "transexual" like yourself.

With regards to the term "ladyboy", this term does appear to be fairly much exclusive to Thailand in my opinion.

I know that there are other terms used by Asian Transexuals from other areas of South East Asia. For example, the term "Waria" seems to be commonplace in Indonesia.

Interesting to hear which terms you prefer, and which you find offensive.
Will certainly keep that in mind.

Cheers
Koykaeng

[Juliana_Dominguez]

Hi Juliana,

Welcome to the forum !

Always appreciate getting some comments from a beautiful "transexual" like yourself.

With regards to the term "ladyboy", this term does appear to be fairly much exclusive to Thailand in my opinion.

I know that there are other terms used by Asian Transexuals from other areas of South East Asia. For example, the term "Waria" seems to be commonplace in Indonesia.

Interesting to hear which terms you prefer, and which you find offensive.
Will certainly keep that in mind.

Cheers
Koykaeng

thanks for the welcome koykaeng, well i have no idea that ladyboy is a term that is fairly much exclusive to thailand, i always thought the term ladyboy are used for generally asian transsexuals. Over here in the Philippines, it's different because whether your a gay man or a transgendered girl or a crossdresser, we're being referred to a collective term which is "Bakla" i was referred to be a ladyboy a lot of times, and i know the term ladyboy is a term referred to tgirls who work in the porn industry or escorting, so i said, that i am not a ladyboy, i am a transsexual... because i don't do neither porn or escorting... but i am asked to do porn when i was in Las Vegas. and friends would ask me to go escorting for extra income... i guess i am a ladyboy afterall... haha... well it's just labels... doesn't really matter. as long as i know who and what i am. right?

[hankhavelock]

I live in Asia and it's my experience that the terms are used often with disregard to any "deeper" meaning. Certainly, I have many transsexual friends (not working in the sex-industry), and they seem to use the term "ladyboy" as they would use "transgender". In fact, my transsexual girlfriend uses these two terms constantly.

Where the term "transsexual" indicates your gender-identification (a biological guy that identifies as a woman or vice-versa) the terms "transgender", "trans-person" or "T-girl" are broader and also cover transvestites (cross-dressers).

"Shemale" tends to indicate a person with male-genitalia as well as breasts (either by hormones or implanted) where as "ladyboy" is broader and also include non-ops trans-girls.

But again, there are many different takes on the terms as well as many approaches to being transgender/transsexual.

Hank

[nevi70]

Hi Koy

Yes I'm looking for a real experience, I want it, but I want it to be great and I must be careful. People have told me I should not look for "any" trans from my country just because I want to try and that I should try the real thing in Thailand.

I was going this march but my fiance is from Bosnia and studies in Bulgaria, she graduates and I am "forced" to spend the money for that. And next year... I have to bring her here and I'll spend more money with this. I don't loose hopes though, I plan to have the honeymoon in Thailand with some meeting or work to do that would give me an excsuse but then I think I would be evil if I do that.

And about the sex, I would really like to try that experience with a feminine trans, someone who can really really look and feel like a woman!

I know I'm so complicated

[drhoneytongue]

Interestingly, my Thai family friends called them "LadyMen", not ladyboys.

Here in Japan, they are called "Newhalf", while the CDs and TVs are called josousya or josouko, or often just "Joes!" TGs are quite common on Japanese TV (Television!), and three or four famous "girls" are regularly featured.

One Filipino expression is "Billyboy", though it was used mainly by the US Military for the young Pinoy dressed in girl's clothes, who were hanging around the bases at Subic Bay and Clark. Another word is "Silahis," often used for bisexual. More commonly used words for T-girls would be "pa-girl" or “malambot”, and "palorista" for many work in beauty parlours.

One extreme case I personally knew was a Filipino engineer who came to Japan for work, found it was pretty poorly paid and lousy working conditions, so he grew his hair and got breast implants, and then worked for a few years in a "Newhalf" bar outside of Yokohama. After 3-4 years, he decided he had earned enough money to provide for his family and future life in the Philippines, so he had the breasts removed, cut his hair and returned to the RP. His family were none the wiser.

[nemrod]

Well,from my own experience I remember that the ususal term to refer to transgendered people in Thailand is "katoey",a word that refers not only to ladyboys but also to gay men(mainly gay men with an affeminate behavior).This the word they use between them,I supose that when talking with a stranger they will use more the term "ladyboy".The most striking about all this is that the word "katoey" is,in fact,what we would call an "hermaphrodite",somebody who has two sexes.

[idolhere]

The different between ladyboy and shemale is ladyboy's penis cannot use but shemale's penis is like a guy.

Ladyboy take more hormone and medicine in order to be like a women. Almost ladyboy is beautiful and like a women. Often, we cannot know that she is a ladyboy.

Moreover, ladyboy think that her penis is ugly thing. She hate her penis and dont want anyone touch her penis.

This is my personal definition.

[RobiSLO]

This is most definitely not true. My only (X) considers herself ladyboy and not shemale or trans… (something, I don’t even know what). For me she looks better than 99% of ladies I’ve seen all around Thailand but on the other hand lots of BM can tell you she likes her penis and is quite handy with using it on her clients… as can also be seen on her XXX movie and she only took hormones once in her life and stopped using it since she was sick for whole day after, so I was told.

Contrary to EU trans-something wannabies who had 1001 word for their momentary state of mind/body Thai ladyboys have no problem calling themselves ladyboy in English (katoey in Thai) even though some are purely gay and others look better than Thai Miss Universe. Last trip I spent whole time with X and her ladyboy friends so believe me, I’ve seen and heard it all.

BR

[idolhere]

In thai, we have more definition about transexual.

"Kratoey" = gay queen, ladyboy, shemale, transexual
(Kratoey may be impolite.)

"SaoSong" is a polite word for ladyboy, shemale, not for gay queen.
"Sao" is a thai word of "woman" and "Song" is a thai word for "two"

"SaoSiep" is for a ladyboy, shemale who like to use penis.
"Sao" is a thai word for "woman" and "Siep" is a thai word for "insert"

This is my personal definition from talking with thai ladyboys.
I think that although in Thailand, defferent communities may have different definitions.