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[jfrank]

Thanks Spyder, for your insightful reply , what you said deeply resonated with me! , it's the "Law Of Diminishing Marginal Utility"

Also I tend to think about the free ride she is enjoying and in  the process I tend to forget, that she too gets stressed out (it's just that I tend to think of her as a perfect human being without stress etc ). When I actually see her as a person who is susceptible to stress etc, then I go easy on her, and then things begin to improve .

There are a lot of complicating factors, being the only child, being and academic, lack of real world experience etc but I am learning.

Thanks again for being so generous!

JF

P.S. since I've been in this monogamous relationship, I haven't been interested in any other LBs or GGs. Which is weird, because usually I need to be exploring all options, in order to keep my self esteem high

P.S.2 > I tried to LIKE your reply but "You have reached your quota of positive votes for the day"

[jay_c_154]

i'd be also interested to hear about the realities of a long term relationship with a ladyboy. I've just told my partner i want to split up because i crave ladyboy ass and cock. So there's my sexuality to figure out.

But are ladyboys a viable option for the long term ?

Do they even enjoy cumming or getting hard ons ?

Long term ladyboy lovers should have these answers.....

[topcat72m]

i'd be also interested to hear about the realities of a long term relationship with a ladyboy. I've just told my partner i want to split up because i crave ladyboy ass and cock. So there's my sexuality to figure out.
But are ladyboys a viable option for the long term ?
Do they even enjoy cumming or getting hard ons ?
Long term ladyboy lovers should have these answers.....

Don't worry about your sexuality it will be what it will be. Don't try to put a label on yourself and don't worry about the labels others will put on you.

As for LBs. They are people just like you and I. They are all different in some way. Some will like to top. Some will not. Most are capable and like to cum some cannot and some don't like their genitals and wont want you touching them.
As for long term relationships I think most want this but you will have to discover if you are compatible just like any other relationship with the added pressure society puts on you for being non conforming to norms.

[jfrank]

I am not claiming to be a long term ladyboy lover, unless I am on vitamin V, I arrive in about 30 mins

I would say JFDI, just go for it! and figure stuff on the way

But are ladyboys a viable option for the long term ? yes and no, depends on both of you, also if you like to travel, and your privacy etc, that might be an issue.

Do they even enjoy cumming or getting hard ons ? They most certainly do! why shouldn't they? they are just like you! also the ones who pretend not to like getting hard, and cumming or you playing with their tackle, are just playing the "I am a girl game", just get them to fuck your ass, once and you will be buggered daily, it's like crak to them

 

i'd be also interested to hear about the realities of a long term relationship with a ladyboy. I've just told my partner i want to split up because i crave ladyboy ass and cock. So there's my sexuality to figure out.

But are ladyboys a viable option for the long term ?

Do they even enjoy cumming or getting hard ons ?

Long term ladyboy lovers should have these answers.....