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#1 malibu515

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Posted 01 June 2019 - 08:03 AM

I know that I am from another planet. Probably I am related to Rain Man and have some degree of Autism.  I seem to think of things that nobody else thinks of. For instance, being attracted to, wanting to experience the ladyboy scene, but slightly afraid of ladyboys.

I was in Bangkok when David Carradine was found dead in his hotel room.  It was actually across the street from where I was staying at the time. Damn, I heard afterward, the he would play his flute in the lobby at night.  I would love to have met him.  Anyway, the scuttlebutt was that he had picked up two free lance ladyboys, and they robbed him and killed him.  

Ladyboys have testosterone not estrogen coursing through their veins.  There are numerous stories

of people being drugged, mugged or worse by ladyboys. I have had long relationships with GGs in

Thailand, Philippines, China, Cambodia and Vietnam and just locked up my valuables but didn't worry about my personal safety.

   I would love to have two ladyboys or even three for an overnight. I would even love to travel with them

noting the stares of outrage from the fat ugly cows , as we call American touristies.  LIke I give a flaming fuck what anybody thinks.

   So some of my wilder wet dreams have yet to be realized due to my fear, founded or unfounded.

Yea, I know the safe play is to barfine the ladyboys from an existing bar and not take freelancers.

But that can run into prohibitive real money.  Besides, The thrill is accentuated when you pick up a freelancer, GG or ladyboy. 

Would like to know what others think about this.



#2 P&G

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Posted 06 June 2019 - 05:12 AM

I believed you had met ladyboys already. 

I was about to write a long answer but I have no time to post it. Maybe this week end. 



#3 malibu515

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Posted 06 June 2019 - 07:42 AM

yes, I have experienced the ladyboy scene, but with some trepidation as explained above



#4 P&G

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Posted 09 June 2019 - 05:48 AM

I have been used to shemales scenes for many years. I don't want to tell all the details but I found crazy to see these hookers who looked like cute girls and had a cock in their pants. I felt like having a try, found that tgirl hookers were often better kissers than GGs, so I kept on dating shemales for years. 

I also had a few years interruptions since I was not satisfied by the quality and prices of shemale Hooker whereas I had found hot girls in between, but in this world, nothing lasts for ever and I went back to tgirls when I decided to try ladyboys. I had noticed that many shemales are oriented to bottom customers who don't care about their feminity but need big asses, big boobs and above all giant cocks. This opened a market for weird creatures I don't see as trangenders but as special hookers for special customers. I also noticed that shemales could sometimes be bad people pretending to be domineering mistresses but are just trying to get money for nothing in return. If you add that shemales are sometimes on drugs

 

I won't try to convince you to change your mind about ladyboys. If you are afraid of them after David Carradine's murder,it's probably better not to push you. You seem to have been strongly impressed by the event. Nevertheless, not all the ladyboys are murderers. Carradine was murdered by 2 ladyboys but the Thai prisons are full of non transgender people. 

 

Ladyboys have testosterone and also female hormones in their veins (please, don't ask me which ones but most of the ladyboys go to a local clinic every month to get a prescription of tabs with hormones. This is also why they constantly need money). Given most of them try to maintain what they see as their nature, being a girl,they are strongly inclined to have feminine traits. 

This is why I avoid ladyboys (or tgirls in European countries) ladyboys with insufficient female characteristics. I avoid those who are too tall strong (the amazon ladyboys), but also those with male voices or athletic bodies and male behaviours. This is a good safety tip to avoid strong or tall ladyboys in case I have a fight with them once in the room. 

 

Another fake idea is to Believe that ladyboys from bars are angels and freelancers are dangerous. I noticed this idea has been cultivated in a few ladyboy forums mainly by bar owners or their mates and relies on nothing. I checked scam reports carefully. Ladyboys stealing wallets have first been reported as they worked in a bar and used the ST room to divert the customer's attention. I met one who had done it in a bar and had become a sweet girl after a couple of years in the monkey house. I also noticed that many scammers or snatchers are ladyboys working in a bar and freelancing in another neighborhood after their bar closed. As far as I am concerned, I had my worst experience with a ladyboy working in a bar. I ignored she used to have yaba but had a bad feeling when she started messing it up in the room. She is now in prison since she murdered her roommate after being "high on yaba". On the other hand, I had many good experiences with freelancers. There is not one type of freelancer. Some of them are former bar ladyboys, others are students or chose to freelance or not to work in a bar. I also met ladyboys who were not able to work in bar for some reason. Most of them are shy and it's sometimes difficult to have a good experience . 

 

Instead of being afraid, you should try to let your feelings work for you. The American police advised me : "don't stay in business with someone if you have a bad feeling". My trainer told me I had 3 seconds to decide correctly and avoid doing a mistake before some one gives me a hard time. It's almost impossible to have an opinion so rapidly with a ladyboy, but you should take time to try to speak and understand her before talking of going to the room. If you have a bad feeling, just stay away. I remember my first ladyboy was ble to burst out with anger in restaurants for light reasons and she did it with me one night. She was not violent though. She prefered to get drunk instead, but I could let her in my room with my wallet on the table: she never touched it. Don't do it with every ladyboy, but it shows that you can have positive expériences with Thai ladyboys. 



#5 veveron

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Posted 12 June 2019 - 12:22 PM

I don't fear them, but ladyboys can cause trouble. Gg can too. Have had both attack me with weapons before.

I could write for days, but in quick summary, in my overall experience, ladyboys have caused more problems than gg.

#6 horneydog

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Posted 16 June 2019 - 05:36 AM

I have been used to shemales scenes for many years. I don't want to tell all the details but I found crazy to see these hookers who looked like cute girls and had a cock in their pants. I felt like having a try, found that tgirl hookers were often better kissers than GGs, so I kept on dating shemales for years. 

I also had a few years interruptions since I was not satisfied by the quality and prices of shemale Hooker whereas I had found hot girls in between, but in this world, nothing lasts for ever and I went back to tgirls when I decided to try ladyboys. I had noticed that many shemales are oriented to bottom customers who don't care about their feminity but need big asses, big boobs and above all giant cocks. This opened a market for weird creatures I don't see as trangenders but as special hookers for special customers. I also noticed that shemales could sometimes be bad people pretending to be domineering mistresses but are just trying to get money for nothing in return. If you add that shemales are sometimes on drugs

 

I won't try to convince you to change your mind about ladyboys. If you are afraid of them after David Carradine's murder,it's probably better not to push you. You seem to have been strongly impressed by the event. Nevertheless, not all the ladyboys are murderers. Carradine was murdered by 2 ladyboys but the Thai prisons are full of non transgender people. 

 

Ladyboys have testosterone and also female hormones in their veins (please, don't ask me which ones but most of the ladyboys go to a local clinic every month to get a prescription of tabs with hormones. This is also why they constantly need money). Given most of them try to maintain what they see as their nature, being a girl,they are strongly inclined to have feminine traits. 

This is why I avoid ladyboys (or tgirls in European countries) ladyboys with insufficient female characteristics. I avoid those who are too tall strong (the amazon ladyboys), but also those with male voices or athletic bodies and male behaviours. This is a good safety tip to avoid strong or tall ladyboys in case I have a fight with them once in the room. 

 

Another fake idea is to Believe that ladyboys from bars are angels and freelancers are dangerous. I noticed this idea has been cultivated in a few ladyboy forums mainly by bar owners or their mates and relies on nothing. I checked scam reports carefully. Ladyboys stealing wallets have first been reported as they worked in a bar and used the ST room to divert the customer's attention. I met one who had done it in a bar and had become a sweet girl after a couple of years in the monkey house. I also noticed that many scammers or snatchers are ladyboys working in a bar and freelancing in another neighborhood after their bar closed. As far as I am concerned, I had my worst experience with a ladyboy working in a bar. I ignored she used to have yaba but had a bad feeling when she started messing it up in the room. She is now in prison since she murdered her roommate after being "high on yaba". On the other hand, I had many good experiences with freelancers. There is not one type of freelancer. Some of them are former bar ladyboys, others are students or chose to freelance or not to work in a bar. I also met ladyboys who were not able to work in bar for some reason. Most of them are shy and it's sometimes difficult to have a good experience . 

 

Instead of being afraid, you should try to let your feelings work for you. The American police advised me : "don't stay in business with someone if you have a bad feeling". My trainer told me I had 3 seconds to decide correctly and avoid doing a mistake before some one gives me a hard time. It's almost impossible to have an opinion so rapidly with a ladyboy, but you should take time to try to speak and understand her before talking of going to the room. If you have a bad feeling, just stay away. I remember my first ladyboy was ble to burst out with anger in restaurants for light reasons and she did it with me one night. She was not violent though. She prefered to get drunk instead, but I could let her in my room with my wallet on the table: she never touched it. Don't do it with every ladyboy, but it shows that you can have positive expériences with Thai ladyboys. 

I dont go near Crazy lol, even thou they are the most fun.  :rolleyes:



#7 Kurtzkafka

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Posted 21 July 2019 - 10:04 AM

I have had these feelings before too. One way to get through that is to get to know her first. Go to public places and you should get an idea if she is just trying to play you or not. Also go to a trusted hotel. I have been using the same place for years and they always call me before and after to check up on me and make sure everything is okay. I tip them well so they’ll even leave the essentials like beer, lube and condoms in the room before I arrive!

Once you feel comfortable enough around her, you can go to her place and your place. I find bar girls tend to be the most shady, of course street walkers can be no doubt.
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#8 patrickfitsmichael

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Posted 26 July 2019 - 07:01 PM

My story goes like this - I was a constant consumer of straight girls when young. Due to a number of factors had more than my fair share. Started getting a little bored and looked for variety. Went to Thailand and found ladyboys. First t was exciting but was very cautious of having sex with them esp them topping me and because of the STD chance etc. Also had some "crazies" that would put me off and for a while thought too much hassle and went back to straight girls. Slowly found my way back to ladyboys but was still wary of getting topped. Now over the past year or so have been topped a few times and are learning the how, why, what etc of ladyboy love.

I believe it takes time to get your head around the whole ladyboy sex act and get comfortable with it esp if coming from a straight background. 

I choose my Lb's carefully now and try to vet the crazies and those who I just don't feel comfortable with. I do agree the hormones and other factors can send some of them into monsters. I always try to stay in full control of the situation when with Lb's which usually means my place, not there's, quite a long chat before taking them home and always thinking about my security and safety.

 

My point is for me it took time - relax let it happen slowly - you will know when you feel comfortable to do what you want to do. Stay in control - progress at your own pace. I go back and forth between Lbs and straight girls but sometimes find Lbs are so god dam horny. 



#9 P&G

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Posted 28 July 2019 - 01:45 AM

I had issues with shemales in the past but not really with ladyboys (except maybe once). I a not looking for top ladyboys and am not interested in bottoming. The main problem I have had to cope with for a few years is that ladyboys tend more and more to complain of pain while I top them. I don't know if they enjoyed bottoming more in the past or if new ladyboys are not prepared to bottom. 



#10 horneydog

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Posted 28 July 2019 - 06:37 AM

Think most are just acting. Maybe I more jaded, but in recent times, I get the feeling that customer service is not high on their list, esp since they have Chinese customers,they just want to do less and still get paid
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#11 Kurtzkafka

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Posted 10 August 2019 - 11:20 AM

I agree with horneydog; to add an element to it I noticed it is a generational and urban/rural difference in attitudes too.

One lb I talked to for awhile was gorgeous but kept comparing everything and how she was the best at this and that and then talked about how she preferred Asian men. When I told her to go fine one them and stop chatting with me she went purr psychopath mode.
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#12 Lotus Biscoff

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Posted 11 August 2019 - 10:17 PM

I've got autism too, and my anxiety can get me to a point where I find going outside hard. I rarely use buses anymore. At least, not by myself. Just be sure to check their reviews, and don't forget that humans are flawed creatures. Very flawed! :)

 

 






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