I have been used to shemales scenes for many years. I don't want to tell all the details but I found crazy to see these hookers who looked like cute girls and had a cock in their pants. I felt like having a try, found that tgirl hookers were often better kissers than GGs, so I kept on dating shemales for years.
I also had a few years interruptions since I was not satisfied by the quality and prices of shemale Hooker whereas I had found hot girls in between, but in this world, nothing lasts for ever and I went back to tgirls when I decided to try ladyboys. I had noticed that many shemales are oriented to bottom customers who don't care about their feminity but need big asses, big boobs and above all giant cocks. This opened a market for weird creatures I don't see as trangenders but as special hookers for special customers. I also noticed that shemales could sometimes be bad people pretending to be domineering mistresses but are just trying to get money for nothing in return. If you add that shemales are sometimes on drugs
I won't try to convince you to change your mind about ladyboys. If you are afraid of them after David Carradine's murder,it's probably better not to push you. You seem to have been strongly impressed by the event. Nevertheless, not all the ladyboys are murderers. Carradine was murdered by 2 ladyboys but the Thai prisons are full of non transgender people.
Ladyboys have testosterone and also female hormones in their veins (please, don't ask me which ones but most of the ladyboys go to a local clinic every month to get a prescription of tabs with hormones. This is also why they constantly need money). Given most of them try to maintain what they see as their nature, being a girl,they are strongly inclined to have feminine traits.
This is why I avoid ladyboys (or tgirls in European countries) ladyboys with insufficient female characteristics. I avoid those who are too tall strong (the amazon ladyboys), but also those with male voices or athletic bodies and male behaviours. This is a good safety tip to avoid strong or tall ladyboys in case I have a fight with them once in the room.
Another fake idea is to Believe that ladyboys from bars are angels and freelancers are dangerous. I noticed this idea has been cultivated in a few ladyboy forums mainly by bar owners or their mates and relies on nothing. I checked scam reports carefully. Ladyboys stealing wallets have first been reported as they worked in a bar and used the ST room to divert the customer's attention. I met one who had done it in a bar and had become a sweet girl after a couple of years in the monkey house. I also noticed that many scammers or snatchers are ladyboys working in a bar and freelancing in another neighborhood after their bar closed. As far as I am concerned, I had my worst experience with a ladyboy working in a bar. I ignored she used to have yaba but had a bad feeling when she started messing it up in the room. She is now in prison since she murdered her roommate after being "high on yaba". On the other hand, I had many good experiences with freelancers. There is not one type of freelancer. Some of them are former bar ladyboys, others are students or chose to freelance or not to work in a bar. I also met ladyboys who were not able to work in bar for some reason. Most of them are shy and it's sometimes difficult to have a good experience .
Instead of being afraid, you should try to let your feelings work for you. The American police advised me : "don't stay in business with someone if you have a bad feeling". My trainer told me I had 3 seconds to decide correctly and avoid doing a mistake before some one gives me a hard time. It's almost impossible to have an opinion so rapidly with a ladyboy, but you should take time to try to speak and understand her before talking of going to the room. If you have a bad feeling, just stay away. I remember my first ladyboy was ble to burst out with anger in restaurants for light reasons and she did it with me one night. She was not violent though. She prefered to get drunk instead, but I could let her in my room with my wallet on the table: she never touched it. Don't do it with every ladyboy, but it shows that you can have positive expériences with Thai ladyboys.