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#1 malibu515

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Posted 25 April 2019 - 08:27 AM

I'm just wondering if anyone has had as much negative response as I get if  I mention that I vacation in Thailand ?  Note...I am not saying to people that I meet that I am "mongering" or seeking young women

(all of legal age)

Immediately there is the response that I must be up to no good.  Evidently the word is out that people that go to Thailand are BAD PEOPLE !

And...should I venture to say to someone that I know well that I have met nice girls over there, the response is, they must be hookers and that means that I am diseased to have contact with them. OR

worse !  That I tell them that the girls are in their 20's while I am mid 50's ?  Shit...call the police and run for cover.  Im robbing the cradle !  Dont you know that you are only entitled to be with other old, wrinkly

females, with bad teeth and brittle hair, because thats what you got ?

No way would I ever DARE to say to another American man that I had experience with a Shemale, Ladyboy...whatever !  Damn...My reputation would be in tatters.

So do others avoid telling friends where they are going on vacation ?  Do you avoid telling anybody in the West that your daliances are with attractive females with smooth skin and pleasant demeaner ?

And, G-d forbid !  Actually say.."I go out with the third sex"!



#2 The-Sith

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Posted 25 April 2019 - 03:03 PM

Hey, lets face it..... 90% of males would LOVE to be banging 20 year old babes. And probably 30 to 40% would like to try ladyboys. But very few do because they are oppressed in the West.

No need to tell them anything. They wouldnt understand (or cant admit to understand) what we understand.
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#3 P&G

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Posted 27 April 2019 - 06:12 AM

I agree that 90% or more would like to bang girls in their 20s but am not so sure that so many (30 %) would like to try ladyboys. Whatever, as mentionned, they wouldn't understand anyway : wouldn't understand what a shemale is, wouldn't understand that you can like it, wouldn't understand that you aren't gay etc ... 


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#4 JOKER187

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Posted 03 May 2019 - 03:26 PM

Hello Friends,

Haven’t been on here in while. I guess I’m guilty and sorry to say that I check in here wherever I have a trip coming up, but that’s another topic on its own.

Here are my two cents.

After many years of being a victim to “I wonder what they would think” kind of mentality, I would say that the problem is not them. Live your life the way you see fit. Don’t try to conform to standards that others what you to conform to. For most part, the ones that are quick to judge are those who either are too scared to admit that they would trade places in a heart beat or are still in denial. However if you feel that by omitting some of the details would make your life easier? Then... don’t say anything and cut the cord of malevolence. Happy hunting. Cheers

#5 patrickfitsmichael

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Posted 04 May 2019 - 06:52 AM

Totally agree with Joker 187

Pick who you tell what to - if you think you will get negative responses don't tell them.

do you make judgement on their religion, politics, marriage partner, life choices, etc etc

As said remember if 99% of men had the chance they would be doing exactly what you are doing ( well maybe not LB but that's just a preference thing) 

Remember the famous quote -What ppl think of me is non of my business.


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#6 patrickfitsmichael

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Posted 04 May 2019 - 06:54 AM

 



#7 P&G

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Posted 05 May 2019 - 04:44 AM

Totally agree with Joker 187

Pick who you tell what to - if you think you will get negative responses don't tell them.

do you make judgement on their religion, politics, marriage partner, life choices, etc etc

As said remember if 99% of men had the chance they would be doing exactly what you are doing ( well maybe not LB but that's just a preference thing) 

Remember the famous quote -What ppl think of me is non of my business.

 

I do agree with this point. You needn't their aproval of your going to Thailand, but in order to avoid criticism, just don't tell them. If they may discover you have been in Thailand, don't talk of ladyboys. Alsways keep a couple of temples, islands or mountainous landscapes to tell them this is where you've been. They needn't know. 



#8 playboyninja

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Posted 12 May 2019 - 02:55 AM

At first I hid it from my friends pretty well, but then I discovered it was easier and better for my own sanity to just tell them I am interested in ladyboys. Most of my friends were just fascinated more than anything, but I think I have a good circle of friends. One of them even admitted that if he wasn't married he would probably come with me and try a ladyboy.
Here is the thing though, if you encounter anyone still being an ignorant asshole you can always call them on their own insecurities and tell them you feel bad for them not having the courage to try new things and live their life. "never try never know"

Admittedly with work I am not as open because I cannot confront each person about their bias which in turn could affect me with a change in administration due to working in local government. I know that I have protection under law and with the union but it is easier not to let it come to that. Some of my coworkers found out when they were looking at my friends screen snooping on my facebook and googled the hot ladyboy that posted on my wall and found out she did porn. I had a conversation with them and they were understanding.

As far as my family goes, the ones I care about know and are supportive and the others I don't need their approval.

Every time I am honest with someone, I feel stronger as a person which is helpful because I have serious self-esteem issues to overcome.


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