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Advice Please - Kind of a”newbie” planning 1st ever LB only trip to LOS next month!


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#1 david198607

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Posted 22 December 2017 - 05:15 PM

Greetings all. First time poster but have been a frequent viewer of the forum as of late. Thanks for all the great info & stories out there!

Let me apologize in advance if my post rambles or is long winded. Just really excited for the upcoming trip(s) & really want to be well prepared! So, I found out the other day at work that starting late next month one of my new duties will require me to spend 5-10 days every two month in the BKK office. Lucky me right! A week every other month in LOS with airfare, hotel, & a healthy meal allowance on the company dime!

Now I’ve been to LOS several times and am familiar with both Bangkok & Pattaya but except for my 1st time “coming out” experience the trips have all been GG exclusive. I have now made the personal decision to go full time LB lover/admirer/enthusiasts. And I know they say you shouldn’t make “to-do” lists but since I’m going to be spending some extended time there I want to have a couple options in mind to spend quality time with.

So any suggestions or recommendations for girls are greatly appreciated. Girls name & name of bar would be awesome! What I’m looking for:
1.Fake boobs. Femboys are great but much prefer the “lady”boy type
2. Enthusiastically versatile. Like a good give and take :)
3. GFE material. Someone who enjoys LT & is fun to go to bars, clubs, restaurant with and late afternoon shopping & chilling.

So any recommendations are appreciated. And any other newbie advice! Thanks!

#2 rxpharm

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Posted 22 December 2017 - 08:42 PM

Welcome to the forum david198607!  If you have not yet read this thread, I would highly recommend it: Common Questions and Answers

 

There are also a number of other good threads in The Newbie Zone that are helpful as well.

 

One of the most common mistakes that first time lb lover visitors to Thailand make is fixation on a "to do" list. While this is certainly good motivation for planning and fantasizing, when you actually arrive and check out the scene, it reduces the odds of having a fantastic encounter. The reason for this is that there are hundreds or possibly thousands of lbs who have not had any exposure on the lb forums or websites. Your fixation on the "to do" list will often cause you to overlook an lb who is as beautiful or more than one on your list. The other factor that most guys forget about is chemistry. You can only judge that when you meet her in person. This also holds true for referrals/recommendations. One guy may have had a fantastic experience with an lb and recommend her, but when you track her down and there is no chemistry, it may be a mediocre experience, or she is having a bad night, or you may be having a bad night, etc. 

 

Most lbs are fine with GFE - if the price is right - but be sure (as is discussed in the newbie zone), all the details are discussed ahead of time (exactly  how long time is it?), and what kind of bedroom activities are ok.


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#3 P&G

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Posted 23 December 2017 - 02:40 AM

Hi David,

 

Welcome to the community. You wrote in in post that your company is going to make  you stay  5-10 days every other month in their Bangkok office. You must be a smart man if they invest so much money on your job. Smart as you are, you should find on your own rapidly what's the best way to proceed and find the ladyboy of your dreams.

 

In Bangkok, you've got mainly 3 areas to find ladyboys bars :

"Patpong", mainly around Thanon Patpong 1 : you will find a couple of streets where bars are often mixed with GGs and ladyboys. 

Nana Plaza (soi 4 Sukhumvit). You will find , GG bars and  ladyboys bars : Charades, Casanova, DC-10, Chili Bar, Temptations, True Obsession, London Call, as well as mixed bars (ladyboys and GGs) : Suckers, Diamond bar. A few of these bars are used to Japanese customers.

Soi Cowboy is the place of the famous Cockatoo bar. You will also find a few mixed bars : Five stars bar,  Sahara, Midnight bar, Kiss bar.

To complete this list a couple of bars are located between the last 2 adresses : Why not bar and  Check In Bar

 

You will also find freelancers on Sukhumvit at night between soi 3 and soi 21. Terminal 21 and big malls are also places to find ladyboys using Wechat for fast contacts. There is debate to know whether ladyboys are better in bars or when freelancing. I think the debate is biased since many bar ladyboys freelance and good ladyboys who can't work in bars have no other choice than freelancing. 

 

In your situation, you should not only consider looking for freelancers but ladyboys looking for boyfriends . I can't say "non p4p ladyboys" since they often  know the p4p rates and apply these rates for short term meetings.  If you're smart (I have no doubt about it), you should find a ladyboy looking for a boyfriend at Thaifriendly or using Wechat, Tinder or Badoo. You should only be careful that a girlfriend can be more expensive than just paying a ladyboy for a long time. BMs who experienced it will be able to explain you why and how. 

I am anticipating on a post in my TR, but I met a ladyboy who never freelanced in the street nor worked in a bar. She has a master in business administration and works in an insurance agency. She'd had a boyfriend living in Paris for  4 years but broke off since he would visit her only thrice a year. She was not the type of angry ladyboy as those you can meet in Business bus this was not enough for her. She had a real class that hookers seldom have. 

 

One more point : be careful when using the expression "long time" in Bangkok. The LT as I found it in the early 2010's consisted in staying several days with a farang and a rate meant the price per 24 hours. Nowadays, a LT is just a longer period than short time. It's usually a hook up at night that will end around 5 pr 6 in the morning (when the skytrain will open again). 

 


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#4 GlockandCock

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Posted 28 December 2017 - 11:47 AM

My 50 cent of advice is to go to one of the bars. Have a drink and look around. Pick the one you fancy and ignore the rest. Don't get too drunk before and during your hunt. Don't wave your cash around. Buy a drink for your girl and politely refuse anyone else. I usually tell them I would consider it next time but right now I already have my girl. Don't think you may get a better one and leave business undone. You may regret it later. If you like the girl negotiate the price. Be very clear about it. I prefer short time as a warm up. If she's good you can try a longtime the next day or so. Combination of longtime bar fine and short time sex is not a bad deal. After sex buy them a drink, a meal or even a little appreciation before she heads back to the bar. That way she will remember you and talk about you to her friends. Sure next time they all will be looking at you with even prettier eyes. Take her number. Meet her before she goes to work. That's a good thing too. How about dinner tomorrow before you start work? That way you get to meet her friends too and it's still outside of working hours. Quick roadside meals are cheap and I prefer eating in good company. Don't be a dick. We all know they work for money same as we do. You don't have to spoil anyone. But if it's within your own limits go for it. Everyone likes to be appreciated for what they do and for who they are or who they try to be. Everything worth doing is worth doing it well.




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