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#1 Ashkiko

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Posted 15 February 2016 - 11:13 PM

My wife and  would like to go to Thailand and either have a threesome or at least have the wife watch me with a lovely ladyboy. Is that difficult to pull off? 

 

Also, any hotel, bar recommendations for first timers, especially one bringing his wife? Since the Mrs. is coming i'd like to stay at someplace very upscale and if we have to go to a bar to find a nice ladyboy, then which is a good place to bring a woman? 

 

I've read Soi Cowboy is a good place for first timers..but was hoping to get advice from the experienced. 



#2 Surin Nix

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Posted 16 February 2016 - 10:50 AM

Welcome Ashkiko,

Since you mentioned Soi Cowboy, I assume you'll be in Bangkok. Any other destinations in mind? Pattaya or Phuket?

You definately won't have a problem finding an LB who will let he missus watch while you have sex. LB's see everything and since its for-hire, you'll find what you seek.

If I were you, I'd stay at Hotel Lebua. You'll love it. All suite. Upscale. Great service. Rooftop bar...very elegant. No problem bringing in LB'S.

Check-in bar would be where I'd start.
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#3 Ashkiko

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Posted 16 February 2016 - 01:29 PM

Thanks so much. Yes, we've never been so we figured why not do the touristy thing and hit up the big city since we will be doing some site seeing and such as well.  I'm a total noob, so just checking the sites dedicated to ladyboys in Thailand trying to figure out best hotel, best bar to pay for a nice lady vs. room service, them ok with the mrs., can she take pics..etc etc. REALLY appreciate the help. 

 

One last question: what are the best ladyboy bars near that hotel? (which we just looked and...wow, you're right it's beautiful!)



#4 Surin Nix

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Posted 16 February 2016 - 10:00 PM

No real ladyboy bars walking-distance close. For that, you'll need a taxi. No worries though, at the Lebua a taxi is always on standby, as well as any bar-area you may visit. Taxi prices are very affordable and you shouldn't hesitate to use them. (Make sure they turn on the meter). From Lebua Hotel to Nana-Plaza (where there are a few LB bars mixed in with the regular go-go's), a taxi from Lebua to Nana is probably about $6 or $7 USD.

Nana Plaza ladyboys are fascinating to see, but expect higher pressure. By all means go, but don't make a hasty choice due to pressure. My favorite is Check-In bar, where there is an amazing selection of friendly and lovely LB's in a relaxed and friendly environment. There, you'll be able to actually relax and talk to the girls, you can tell them your specific interests in due time. My guess is that you'll love it. Of course, this forum has many archived trip reports and bar reviews. Have a look at the "bars" link on the homepage of this site.

Also, your wife will love Thailand. Not just for the kinkiness, which is exemplary, but the food, the sites, the friendly people....it's all good.

Will you visit Phuket?
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#5 Ashkiko

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Posted 16 February 2016 - 10:49 PM

We might visit Phuket, We just decided to plan a trip (will be next year). We were hoping to have some fun sightseeing during the days and ladyboy playtime during the nights. Also, may be bringing another couple who will be going for the same reason. 



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Posted 17 February 2016 - 12:57 PM

We might visit Phuket, We just decided to plan a trip (will be next year). We were hoping to have some fun sightseeing during the days and ladyboy playtime during the nights. Also, may be bringing another couple who will be going for the same reason.


I wish I knew you folks. You sound awesome.
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#7 Ashkiko

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Posted 18 February 2016 - 02:46 AM

I wish I knew you folks. You sound awesome.

Thanks buddy! Well, we're in the lifestyle (some call that swinging) and both bi...so trying to indulge each others sexual fantasies, even if they involve others isn't a huge stretch for us. Now, having the Mrs. say "well let's go to Thailand since you've never been with a ladyboy and it's your #1 un-tried fantasy" is a new thing..lol. then she followed up with "oh, and we should invite XXX & XXX because I know they'd love to do the same thing". best....wife...ever!


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Posted 20 February 2016 - 07:33 AM

Well now, that's cool. With your attitude, you'll have an outstanding time.

My missus and I are relative newlyweds, but she is well-aware of my LB experiences. We are not "lifestyle" folks, per se, but it's well inside the realm of possibility. We've had threesomes with a good friend of mine, and it's been great. I'm a little shy about on-premises lifestyle bars (in the U.S), mostly because I have performance anxiety in a public setting. My wife has been though, and she assures me we can go to "just watch", and should we feel like letting our freak-flag fly, we can do it discretely in a dark place.

I have observed that lifestyle couples seem pretty fun and friendly. We met a few in Key West, during a bodypaint-friendly festival. My wife was wearing only body paint, and proved to be pretty popular with the lifestyle ladies....though we just socialized. She's cool with lady friends-with-benefits, though she has not found such a gal since moving from her native (Latin) country to the US.

Anyway, that's cool that there's 4 of you like-minded.

My gal has also expressed an open-mindedness about LB's, with the only qualifier being she goes to choose. So, I'm very interested in hearing about your experiences, so I hope you'll check back as the trip unfolds.
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#9 Ashkiko

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Posted 20 February 2016 - 02:41 PM

Thanks! We'e not much for the lifestyle clubs, some folks love them but we've had better luck just meeting folks separately through a lifestyle site, maybe a few big club nights like new years eve, halloween etc. and of course the rare but over the top for fun Bi events. 

 

as for performance anxiety..don't worry. If there's anything swingers have more access to than hot women..it's viagra..lol. 70% of the guys (or more) will have some to share if you need it. 



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Posted 20 February 2016 - 06:32 PM

It's good to see you have your questions answered! Welcome to the forum!

 

I would not recommend using Thai Friendly or Craig's List as you won't be able to get a "feel" if an lb would really be up for a 3 some with your wife, even though that may have it listed in their ads. If you go to a bar with your wife, it will be easier to judge if things will work out. As for watching, probably most lbs will be okay with that, but less would be willing to interact with your wife.

 

I agree with Surin Nix lounge type bars would probably be best place to scout for a willing lb as they are quieter and generally less pressure than go go bars.. In Bangkok there is Check In Bar (which has its own thread) on Sukhumvit between Soi 5/7, and Chaos 9, the former Guess Bar in the Rajah Hotel Complex, just 5 minutes walk from Nana Plaza on Soi 4 (Nana).  If you do plan on staying at Lebua, Patpong Road is quite close as well. There are go go 2 bars with significant numbers of ladyboys - King's Corner (which is a mix of about 60% postop lbs/40% ggs) and King's Castle III (which is a mix of about 70% preop/30% postop lbs). It's probably about a 10 minute drive if the traffic isn't too bad.

 

In Pattaya, there are also a couple of lounge type bars - La Bamba and Lita's, plus a number of LB beer bars, which you can read about in the bars section.


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#11 Ashkiko

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Posted 22 February 2016 - 12:03 PM

You guys have no idea how grateful the Mrs. and I are for all the info. I know it's a long ways off but we like to plan well ahead. Plus, we want our first (and maybe only) trip to be as good as possible. ;)



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Posted 22 February 2016 - 10:22 PM

You guys have no idea how grateful the Mrs. and I are for all the info. I know it's a long ways off but we like to plan well ahead. Plus, we want our first (and maybe only) trip to be as good as possible. ;)


Once you have experienced Thailand, it won't be "your only" trip. Trust us on that one.
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