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[patrickfitsmichael]

Ok ......need some advice for more learned council.

 

Have been with ladyboys from Indo, Viet, Thai, Sing  and soon to do Mal & Phil.

 

Most I have been with have been ..well let's say a bit wacky. It seems with them it's all about the money. I can't have a decent conversation with them not that I want witty discussions. But I want a real person. Is it the drugs or is it the "attitude" or what???

 

Can't remember one who i would consider relatively normal. Many seem to be on a different planet.

 

The shame is I'm attracted to them but their persona puts me off - are there any "normal" ones out there and if there are how do you meet them????

 

PFM

[rxpharm]

If you have been meeting p4p ladyboys that is what you will experience. There are many more lbs who are not in the p4p scene - but a casual holidayer would have a difficult time meeting and getting to know one, since you are only in country for a limited time period.

 

You can find non-p4p Thai lbs working in cosmetic shops, 7/11's, offices, wedding studios, hair salons, etc. If you happen to be an ex-pat based in a country that has a significant number of ladyboys, then you have a better chance of meeting and getting to know them.

 

Also you need to understand that the earning period for a p4p ladyboy is limited - probably 5-10 years at the maximum. They also spend a great deal of money on cosmetics, surgeries, hormones, clothes, and often are helping to support their families. This causes them to focus on making $$$$. Once in a while if you make the effort you can get past the money attitude of a p4p ladyboy - but this is not common, and would take effort.

 

When you compare their attitudes with p4p genetic girls, I don't think you would find much difference, so I don't think crazy is the best word to describe them. 

[wardmoob]

we simply find them sexi, but in reality id say a girl is easier to handle/manage, ladyboys act like part insane boys part insane girls more then part of the time.

 

we simply like them and it makes us put up with shit, everyone puts up with shit, in the end even katoey fuckers (me included) recognize are pain in the ass for what it is,, pun intented (top here) but yes katoeys are bat shit crazy, but do normal humans fuck like bat shit krazy katoeys? hence one should expect a girl is banana pancakes crazy if shes mouth watering hot..

 

my guess is  hormone free femboys aka young ladyboys are the most normal, u tact on hormones, booze, drugs, working in the scene for years catering  to yardo 3 inch thrill and yardo swamp crotch muchy munch and u try and stay sane and poised under those laborious conditions

[goodenough]

Compared to GG the only differences I have found so far is that LBs tend to be a little more aggressive. This is of course a higly subjective opinion. 

[hankhavelock]

Pretty spot on... I tend to think that the tremendous adversity these ladies encounter may also be part of the inherent "wackyness". None the less having lived almost exclusively together with transwomen over the last decade I can absolutely guarantee that they are not all wacky - well, only a little bit... :-) And ain't we all...?

[The Lost Account Traveler]

Well Patrick, i can't agree with this totally because we are the foreginers in their country & culture first of all & second, the envoirement that we meet them is a crazy blend of pleasure & business, + alcohol & so on.

But facing & comparing the LB's like any ordinary "women", than yes, they are as "crazy"; pumpered, spoiled & etc as any others in many ways.

Looking foward to return to Asia in general (Hong Kong, Singapore) & to Thailand (off course) as well.

Take care guys!

[sharkdog]

Rxpharm's reply is spot on.  Many or most of the ones you meet in the nightlife scene, and in particular p4p nightlife, tend to be wacky to varying degrees.  The ones that hold normal daytime jobs like office workers, etc tend to be more normal.  And as he said if you are in the country for a short holiday it is not likely you will meet and get to know those outside of the nightlife scene (unless maybe through a dating site).