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[Spyder Rocket]

A recent thread on BDSM porn and ladyboys reminded me of this little story, that I rarely get the opportunity to share.

I'm not really into bondage, but I lived in Japan for a few years and there is a tremendous bondage scene there. I once lied and said that I enjoyed it, just to go with a hottie GG that I met in a bar.

She got into her gear, tied me up, and I immediately regretted lying about it. I became so paranoid about this total stranger that I just met, what if she was a psychopath and brought out a sharp knife ?

Luckily the worst it got was alligator clips and teasing my balls with a stiletto boot heel. Well, that and when she stuck a lit candle in my mouth, then lit up a cigarette and started watching TV. I got pissed, and spat the candle out, then she jumps up, starts screaming and smacking me around.

The actual candle wax and whips aren't too bad, but the not knowing what is next is scary as hell! As soon as my hands were free, I turned the tables and tied her up.

The freaky thing about it was, when I was fighting to tie her up, I wasn't 100 percent sure if it was still a game for the first minute or two. She fought pretty hard to keep the dominate role, but I eventually figured she was still playing by giving her a chance to get free that she didn't take.

It was an experience, but I don't think I'm cut out for it for it. I saw this girl a few more times, she was tiny, about 5'2" maybe 90lbs, and I was terrified of her.

One second, she is gentle and giving me soft kisses and the next, she is pinching, punching, or slapping me. She said I was a terrible bondage partner, and I'm inclined to agree with her.

About the most devious thing that I did to her was when I went to the bathroom and returned with a glass of water (from the faucet) and made her drink it. I then told her it was from the toilet, she laughed so hard she had tears in her eyes. In between bursts of laughter she screamed, "That is not bondage! It's humiliation!"

However, she did the very same thing to me the first chance she got.

As far as ladyboys go, I've picked up a pair of Amazons before, and let them take the lead in sex, but that is rather tame compared to being tied up by that little Japanese girl.

So, let's hear a few good BDSM stories!

[veveron]

Interesting about Japan would love to stay there but cost and language shy me away.

 

In general I find ladyboys to be more famaliar and willing than ggs when it comes to BDSM.

Main reason I'm still into LBs. To pick out one hilarious example; never found a gg who would do any exhibition play in Thailand, even had one professional submissive tell me she would do it outside Thailand, but just couldn't here due to the culture. Ladyboys, on the other hand, are used to being barely dressed at night.

 

Not sure if I want to give a specific story as they're still rather recent, but maybe just an observation on the fetish bars in bkk and patts. Demonia and the Castle respectively, never tried B Bar. Demonia does have at least one ladyboy who was working when I was there. No LBs work at the Castle. Cost is sky high in each so I just use them to make contacts and have never been back.

 

Both will only do barfines for their dommes; neither officially will for submissives. However, I had no trouble barfining subs out of Demonia. First time I was there even had another girl want to tag along after work ended.  In patts the answer was a firm no to barfining subs, but I just did a couple incall sessions and asked for girls for numbers quite easily. Big difference in quality though. I still talk to girls who worked at both bars and demonia sounds like a well run place while the castle is a shady operation, a lot of the girls there are quite into drugs.

 

In bkk 7k - 9k a night, after work, 2am - 10am. Expensive, but well worth it. In Patts usual 1k - 3k LT, but none were natural submissives there, so only rough sex at best. No difference from other bars the girls/lb were open to longer term relationships.

[Spyder Rocket]

Interesting about Japan would love to stay there but cost and language shy me away.

With few exceptions, about the only way to have a decent lifestyle there is to land a job with a company in your home country, and then get a posting to Japan.

It's truly a great country for many reasons, but I also recommend it highly to sex addicts.

Japanese is a hell of a lot easier to learn than a tonal language like Thai or Chinese.

In general I find ladyboys to be more famaliar and willing than ggs when it comes to BDSM.
Main reason I'm still into LBs. To pick out one hilarious example; never found a gg who would do any exhibition play in Thailand, even had one professional submissive tell me she would do it outside Thailand, but just couldn't here due to the culture. Ladyboys, on the other hand, are used to being barely dressed at night.

Not sure if I want to give a specific story as they're still rather recent, but maybe just an observation on the fetish bars in bkk and patts. Demonia and the Castle respectively, never tried B Bar. Demonia does have at least one ladyboy who was working when I was there. No LBs work at the Castle. Cost is sky high in each so I just use them to make contacts and have never been back.

Both will only do barfines for their dommes; neither officially will for submissives. However, I had no trouble barfining subs out of Demonia. First time I was there even had another girl want to tag along after work ended. In patts the answer was a firm no to barfining subs, but I just did a couple incall sessions and asked for girls for numbers quite easily. Big difference in quality though. I still talk to girls who worked at both bars and demonia sounds like a well run place while the castle is a shady operation, a lot of the girls there are quite into drugs.

In bkk 7k - 9k a night, after work, 2am - 10am. Expensive, but well worth it. In Patts usual 1k - 3k LT, but none were natural submissives there, so only rough sex at best. No difference from other bars the girls/lb were open to longer term relationships.

I've never explored the Thai bondage scene, like I said, I'm not really cut out for it. I get too freaked out being tied up, and I'm more prone to pulling some goofy stunt when I'm in the dominate role.

I do know what you mean about "many" Thai GGs being rather conservative or shy about sex, even veteran bar girls. Sure there are wild ones out there, but it is hard to judge a Thai girl by her appearance.

I got to talking to a GG at Big Dogs once, who looked like she would be fairly wild, lots of tattoos, funky punk rock hair style died platinum blonde. She was meek as a kitten, very intelligent; her personality was 180 degrees from her appearance, cool girl, but not what I was expecting.

Conversely, the best sex I've had with a Thai GG was an older, rather plain cashier from a beer bar that seldom went on bar fines, go figure.

[Macman]

Kowakatta n da, nee, Spydersan.

[Spyder Rocket]

Kowakatta n da, nee, Spydersan.

LOL

Yes, I'm a big chicken when it comes to being tied up. My mind starts replaying footage from every horror movie that I've seen, very scary indeed.

[Macman]

Seriously, you took a big chance. I'm glad it turned out well.

[Surin Nix]

I chatted with a gal online once, stateside gg, who i'd developed a conventional interest in going out on a date with.

Before we actually met, the conversation turned sexual.

I pretty much lost all interest when she confessed to a certain fetish which involved inserting the following things into my urethra (pee-hole):

1. Her fingernail. (They were long)
2. A pencil lead.

Total buzz-kill.

[Spyder Rocket]

I chatted with a gal online once, stateside gg, who i'd developed a conventional interest in going out on a date with.
Before we actually met, the conversation turned sexual.
I pretty much lost all interest when she confessed to a certain fetish which involved inserting the following things into my urethra (pee-hole):
1. Her fingernail. (They were long)
2. A pencil lead.
Total buzz-kill.

Yikes!

I get squeamish just reading that.

Luckily, I've never been with a girl who did that, but I have been with a few girls whose oral techniques involved an inordinate amount of attention to opening of the urethra. I can't stand them playing too much with it using their tongue, let alone a fucking pencil lead!

[topcat72m]

Had a gf who would press the ball of her tongue piercing into my japs eye.

I quite enjoyed it to be honest.

[Macman]

Yikes!

Honestly, you took the word right out of my mouth.  That was exactly what came to mind when I read Nix's post.